Wayne Boatwright wrote:
> On Mon 26 May 2008 05:46:25p, Janet Wilder told us...
>
>> sf wrote:
>>> On Mon, 26 May 2008 12:12:25 -0500, Janet Wilder
>>> > wrote:

>> Thanks. You are so right. She was killed in a car accident in 1996 when
>> she was 21. She was between her junior and senior years of college. I
>> remember thinking at the grave site that there must be something wrong
>> in the universe.
>>
>
> Good Lord, how awful for you, Janet. I can't even begin to imagine how
> much sorrow this brought to your family. I'm so sorry.
>

Thank you, Wayne. Even though it's almost 12 years, I still cry easily
when I think about her.

I was very lucky in that I was chosen to be her mother for the brief
time she was with us.

There is a perpetual scholarship at Ramapo College of New Jersey in her
name, so people will know about her long after I am dust.

Here is a link to a pdf of the college magazine that talks about Cara.

http://www.ramapo.edu/news/magazine/...neFall2005.pdf





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Janet Wilder
Bad spelling. Bad punctuation
Good Friends. Good Life