sf wrote:

> $28,000 is starting to look normal to me. DD is just starting to plan
> her wedding and it's already over $20,000. That's only the reception
> part. It's still minus minister, dress, tux, DJ, wedding party gifts
> & flowers.
>
It adds up. Sure you can go cheaper, but IMO, you want food, drink and
surroundings that are special (memorable, top quality) because the event
is special! And I know that I have no problem paying a caterer to
provide incredible food, generous drinks and *service* that frees me up
to enjoy the day with family.