"jmcquown" > wrote in message
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> I don't even know why I'm thinking about this now since my mother just
> died an hour ago.
>
> Jill
Oh Jill, I'm so sorry.
Don't feel guilty for doing things that may seem inappropriate. You can't
just sit in a chair looking at the walls. Keeping busy however mundane and
ordinary can be the best way to get through this time. Nobody could doubt
the love you have given your mother, and if they did so what. You get
through this any way you can. If sitting in front of the computer and
reading a few messages passes some time and takes your mind off your grief
there is really no need to excuse anything.
All the best

Sarah