On Nov 25, 3:32 pm, "cybercat" > wrote:


> Perhaps Jill and her brother might consider waiting a while before tackling
> issues of this nature. There hasn't even been a funeral yet. Surely their
> minds and hearts are clouded now by deep grief.

I tend not to agree, in all cases. I went to a funeral of a distant
relative, and a woman in a lace dress showed up at the house of the
deceased on the morning of the funeral. The daughter of the deceased,
came form a considerable distance, had the woman come in - to list the
place. Naive me thought it was a woman from the funeral home, getting
a last minute check or checking details. The dtr had to get back home
for other family reasons - I doubt she had a moment to grieve at that
point.

When you have to make this kind of arrangement and get a house sold, I
think one has to move with determination and speed. The daughter took
the first offer and was glad to be done with it. (House was in her
name along with the father's, so she was able to act as quickly as she
did.)



eI tend not to agree.place. ned