Wayne Boatwright needlessly blathered:

> On Wed 31 Dec 2008 11:29:11a, Lou Decruss told us...
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> > On Tue, 30 Dec 2008 14:42:34 -0600, Omelet >
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> >>> > I think you are doing rather well actually.
> >>> > My mom's death nearly destroyed me for 3 years.
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> >>> > That invitation to talk is always open if you need a shoulder. *You
> >>> > can e-mail me for a cell number.
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> >>> I agree. *It's hard enough to lose a parent, but I think even harder
> >>> around the holidays. *I completely lost it for a while after my mother
> >>> died.
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> >>It always sucks to bury our parents, especially when you were actually
> >>friends with them. I dread losing dad.
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> > You're supposed to move on and get your own life when you can support
> > yourself. *Most people gather friends and wisdom over time and aren't
> > so dependent on their parents that they are "destroyed" for 3 years.
> > My parents are both alive but older. *When they die they can be PROUD
> > that I'm not financially or emotionally dependent on either of them.
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> > Lou *
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> I was *never* financially dependent nor *emotionally dependent on my
> parents after graduating from college. *


But Jill at the age of 50+ was - and *continues* to be...


However, I loved them deeply enough
> to grieve deeply when they passed away.

NO one was talking about *not* grieving...


*I was also an only child, and no
> close relatives to be with when they died.


Which is why at the age of 63 you are still such a WHINY l'il panty-
waisted BITCH, Wayne...and every bit the equal of Jill in the "Drama
Queen" department. It'd be lotsa fun to SLAP both of your gibbering
faces silly.

Lol...


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Best
Greg