On Sat 03 Jan 2009 11:47:27p, sf told us...

> On Sat, 03 Jan 2009 23:36:27 GMT, Wayne Boatwright
> > wrote:
>
>>And I think the word "destroyed" is very subjective. My mother died in
>>1998. The first several years were certainly very difficult for me.
Even
>>now I have my moments. Many of us carry "false" guilt about things over
>>which we had no control, but it makes it no less hurtful regarding their
>>loss.
>
> I have absolutely no guilt when I think of Mom. I just feel the loss
> of someone who loved me with no reservations (this was a woman who
> valued her own privacy and gave her children "their space").
>
>

Well, some do and some don't. I'd venture to say that probably more do
than don't.

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Wayne Boatwright
(correct the spelling of "geemail" to reply)
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