In article >,
Lou Decruss > wrote:

> This is very true. My comments may make me appear to be a cold
> hard-ass but I've suffered pain just like anyone else. I've carried
> the casket of a 16 yr. old that died in a plane crash. A family I am
> very close to had a 6 year old die by a hit and run driver with his 10
> year old brother watching. One of my best buddies died of brain
> cancer a few years ago at 43. A BIL committed suicide at 40 just 2
> years ago. Although all these events were painful and most likely
> changed all of us who knew the people, everyone has moved on and it
> didn't take anywhere near 3 years.
>
> Lou

You have no right whatsoever to judge how people deal with the death of
loved ones...
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Peace! Om

"Love and compassion are necessities, not luxuries. Without them humanity cannot survive." -- Dalai Lama