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Default picky eater v. ill-mannered hostess

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> On Fri, 10 Apr 2009 08:50:01 -0700, "TammyM" >
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>>OK, so we've picked apart the picky eaters. How about this?
>>
>>I was once invited to dinner at the home of a certain someone (CS). CS
>>asked me if I had any food issues - I suspect she put it more nicely than
>>that, but you probably know what I mean. I told her no, no allergies,
>>etc,
>>but I well and truly detest mustard. Maybe I shouldn't have said it, but
>>she ASKED so I did. She said "oh no problem", and that was that.
>>
>>I thought.
>>
>>At the dinner, she made a big homping deal about how she so very much had
>>wanted to make some kind of lamb-mustardy thing, but I was so picky about
>>mustard that I spoiled her fun (OK, maybe I am overstating that just a
>>tad....). I was *mortified*, close to tears in fact, because she went on
>>and on and on about it. I couldn't wait for the evening to end. Which for
>>me, is saying something!
>>
>>How would you have handled it? I never accepted a dinner invitation from
>>her after that.
>>
>>TammyM, don't hate me cos I hate mustard
>>

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> I would of stopped her as she started to whine about what she wanted
> to make but you were picky, and point blank ask her why then had she
> called and asked if you had food issues if she didn't want to know.
> Put your coat on and left with a thank you for a memorable evening.




Exactamundo! Why the hell did she ask then announce it? That's very rude.

I do, however, make pork tenderloin brushed first with Dijon mustard then
coated with whole wheat bread-crumbs mixed with garlic, sage, salt & pepper.
I'm not a fan of prepared mustard (or any "condiments")...but this isn't
that bright YELLOW stuff <gag>. Honestly, if no one asked they wouldn't
even know I'd lightly brushed it with the Dijon first. It's delicious
Not saying you'd have to eat it... just pass the plate.

She was rude, no doubt in my mind.

Jill