Jean B. wrote:

>> There are plenty of oncology support groups out there. Asking TFM
>> for second-hand experiences after the fact here in newsgroups is
>> very inappropriate.
>>
>> -sw
>
> Can't you be kind?
>
How was he unkind? Perhaps it is painful for TFM to be expected to
report his late wife's history on demand?
There are better avenues for this unknown poster to obtain support. A
cooking group wouldn't be my first choice.