Kalmia wrote:
> A friend's husband liked some muffins I made once when they were
> visiting. He expressed interest and I gave her the recipe. He has
> mentioned them many times and she refuses to bake 'em. I don't know
> why - could be his weight problem or she just hates to bake.
>
> I am going to their house for a short visit - should I make em there,
> or take em, or just not bother? I'm afraid she'll take offense.

Ask. Ask him, or ask her, but ask, is my advice.

"Oh, I remember Malcolm loved my potato-rosemary-pumpkin muffins. I'm
going to be baking some soon; shall I bring some along with me?"

Serene

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