On Mar 21, 9:53*pm, "Steve B" > wrote:
> >> Not sure if others in this group have sympathized or condemned you. *I
> >> won't read any other replies, but will say that SOMEONE enabled all
> >> which transpired. *If I read this correctly, 18 months this has been
> >> going on?
> >> Who failed to set house rules and deadline for moving out is all I
> >> wanna know. *Who let this happen?
> >> I may be the only one who thinks this way, but.....someone should've
> >> taken the bull by the horns before 18 months went by.
> ?
> Be careful! *You'll be labeled as MEAN!

That'd be fine by me. Parents, step and bio, need to refuse to bail
out offspring when things get uncomfortable.