On 6/2/2010 12:58 PM, Ophelia wrote:
>
>
> "Bob Muncie" > wrote in message
> ...
>> On 6/2/2010 11:50 AM, Ophelia wrote:
>>>
>>>
>>> "Bob Muncie" > wrote in message
>>> ...
>>>> On 6/2/2010 10:55 AM, Charlotte L. Blackmer wrote:
>>>>> Personally, I felt uncomfortable (e.g. ever so slightly creeped
>>>>> out) by
>>>>> BM's attention to me - which really seemed to come out of nowhere -
>>>>> even
>>>>> before I got the additional information. Which does help explain the
>>>>> behavior, not excuse it. If I'd known before, at least I would have
>>>>> known
>>>>> exactly where my "eww" came from, and I would have had the answer to
>>>>> the
>>>>> eternal question, "WTF?".
>>>>>
>>>>>> What has happened to you?
>>>>>>
>>>>>> Vulgarity used to be a spotty thing here. It seems to be creeping
>>>>>> over
>>>>>> the
>>>>>> whole group lately like mildew.
>>>>>
>>>>> Lately? Only lately? The active alcoholics (etc.) have been
>>>>> "processing"
>>>>> all over the ng for some time now. Now we apparently have Muncie
>>>>> working
>>>>> out his marriage issues. BT definitely has huge problems with going
>>>>> off
>>>>> the rails into fight club land but I'm not really seeing why you're
>>>>> singling him out.
>>>>>
>>>>> I'm all for Talking About Food and wish that both Bobs would get back
>>>>> on
>>>>> that wagon.
>>>>>
>>>>> ObFood: First peaches of the season from the farm stand. YUM YUM.
>>>>>
>>>>> Charlotte
>>>>
>>>> Not an issue Charlotte - the fact you are uncomfortable, is something I
>>>> understand.
>>>> You and BT are likely the same. I am not willing to go further. But I
>>>> would want the rest of the folks that post here to know that you are
>>>> what
>>>> you are. and that BT is you.
>>>
>>> I am with Charlotte here. You made me very uncomfortable too
You
>>> really
>>> need to learn to take a refusal nicely. Attacking someone because they
>>> are
>>> not interested in you is just nasty.
>>>
>>>
>>>
>>
>> Ophelia -
>>
>> Thanks for your input.
>>
>> I have no where further to go.
>>
>> I hope that many of you that have been here fore ever continue to be
>> happy
>> to be here.
>>
>> I will not be here. Your lack of companionship, has inspired me to not be
>> here in the future. The BT person angered me. But you? You cause me to
>> not
>> be here again. You just make me sad.
>>
>> I honest injun, wanted to be a participant.
>>
>> Honest Injun...
>>
>> I hope you are proud of yourself.
>>
>> Bob (who is no longer here)
>
> I doubt it. We have been here before. Proud of myself? We are not talking
> about me, but about your nasty actions.
>
> Because I declined your offers, you attacked me personally via email and
> in the group!
>
> Don't you DARE lay it on me!!!!!!!!! I <know> I am not the only one you
> treated in this way
>
Thank-you.
And I don't dare.
I know.
I may have been somewhat wierdy six months ago. But days without sleep
will cause that.
*If* I was not nice to you back than, I am sorry for that. I am not that
way today.
That does not give you the right to act as you are today. And yet, I
understand.
If I caused you to be that upset back then, I am sorry.
If you want to hear my apologies, I honestly don't remember, but please
forgive me. i know you to be a nice person.
Please give me another chance.
I am sorry Ophelia. I really am.
Can we shake hands and forget the past? I really was not me back than. I
still dislike BT, (and the larry person), but you I am sorry about
having upset.
If you have concerns with what I say, take time to reply. I understand.
I would still like to be your pal.
And yes, I know I'll hear from others... and that's okay.
Bob