In article >,
blake murphy > wrote:

> On Wed, 02 Jun 2010 14:26:30 -0400, Bob Muncie wrote:
>
> > On 6/2/2010 12:58 PM, Ophelia wrote:
> >>
> >>
> >> "Bob Muncie" > wrote in message
> >> ...
> >>> On 6/2/2010 11:50 AM, Ophelia wrote:
> >>>>
> >>>>
> >>>> "Bob Muncie" > wrote in message
> >>>> ...
> >>>>> On 6/2/2010 10:55 AM, Charlotte L. Blackmer wrote:
> >>>>>> Personally, I felt uncomfortable (e.g. ever so slightly creeped
> >>>>>> out) by
> >>>>>> BM's attention to me - which really seemed to come out of nowhere -
> >>>>>> even
> >>>>>> before I got the additional information. Which does help explain the
> >>>>>> behavior, not excuse it. If I'd known before, at least I would have
> >>>>>> known
> >>>>>> exactly where my "eww" came from, and I would have had the answer to
> >>>>>> the
> >>>>>> eternal question, "WTF?".
> >>>>>>
> >>>>>>> What has happened to you?
> >>>>>>>
> >>>>>>> Vulgarity used to be a spotty thing here. It seems to be creeping
> >>>>>>> over
> >>>>>>> the
> >>>>>>> whole group lately like mildew.
> >>>>>>
> >>>>>> Lately? Only lately? The active alcoholics (etc.) have been
> >>>>>> "processing"
> >>>>>> all over the ng for some time now. Now we apparently have Muncie
> >>>>>> working
> >>>>>> out his marriage issues. BT definitely has huge problems with going
> >>>>>> off
> >>>>>> the rails into fight club land but I'm not really seeing why you're
> >>>>>> singling him out.
> >>>>>>
> >>>>>> I'm all for Talking About Food and wish that both Bobs would get back
> >>>>>> on
> >>>>>> that wagon.
> >>>>>>
> >>>>>> ObFood: First peaches of the season from the farm stand. YUM YUM.
> >>>>>>
> >>>>>> Charlotte
> >>>>>
> >>>>> Not an issue Charlotte - the fact you are uncomfortable, is something I
> >>>>> understand.
> >>>>> You and BT are likely the same. I am not willing to go further. But I
> >>>>> would want the rest of the folks that post here to know that you are
> >>>>> what
> >>>>> you are. and that BT is you.
> >>>>
> >>>> I am with Charlotte here. You made me very uncomfortable too You
> >>>> really
> >>>> need to learn to take a refusal nicely. Attacking someone because they
> >>>> are
> >>>> not interested in you is just nasty.
> >>>>
> >>>>
> >>>>
> >>>
> >>> Ophelia -
> >>>
> >>> Thanks for your input.
> >>>
> >>> I have no where further to go.
> >>>
> >>> I hope that many of you that have been here fore ever continue to be
> >>> happy
> >>> to be here.
> >>>
> >>> I will not be here. Your lack of companionship, has inspired me to not be
> >>> here in the future. The BT person angered me. But you? You cause me to
> >>> not
> >>> be here again. You just make me sad.
> >>>
> >>> I honest injun, wanted to be a participant.
> >>>
> >>> Honest Injun...
> >>>
> >>> I hope you are proud of yourself.
> >>>
> >>> Bob (who is no longer here)
> >>
> >> I doubt it. We have been here before. Proud of myself? We are not talking
> >> about me, but about your nasty actions.
> >>
> >> Because I declined your offers, you attacked me personally via email and
> >> in the group!
> >>
> >> Don't you DARE lay it on me!!!!!!!!! I <know> I am not the only one you
> >> treated in this way
> >>
> >
> > Thank-you.
> >
> > And I don't dare.
> >
> > I know.
> >
> > I may have been somewhat wierdy six months ago. But days without sleep
> > will cause that.
> >
> > *If* I was not nice to you back than, I am sorry for that. I am not that
> > way today.
> >
> > That does not give you the right to act as you are today. And yet, I
> > understand.
> >
> > If I caused you to be that upset back then, I am sorry.
> >
> > If you want to hear my apologies, I honestly don't remember, but please
> > forgive me. i know you to be a nice person.
> >
> > Please give me another chance.
> >
> > I am sorry Ophelia. I really am.
> >
> > Can we shake hands and forget the past? I really was not me back than. I
> > still dislike BT, (and the larry person), but you I am sorry about
> > having upset.
> >
> > If you have concerns with what I say, take time to reply. I understand.
> >
> > I would still like to be your pal.
> >
> > And yes, I know I'll hear from others... and that's okay.
> >
> > Bob
>
> i thought you were gone.
>
> blake

Bob Muncie, my best advice to you is to just be you and stop trying to
be everybody's "Pal".

It creeps people out and makes you look like a stalker.
--
Peace! Om

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