sf wrote:

> I absolutely hate family style, but I do require a properly set table
> - fork on the left, knife on the right, napkin (folded) and placed
> *under* the fork.
>
Just a small point but... napkins aren't supposed to be under the fork
but rather on the left side of the fork. You're not supposed to have to
move utensils to get to the napkin, especially since the napkin should
be the first thing touched (when opened up in ones lap) after sitting down.