"dsi1" > wrote in message
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> That's the part that is incomprehensible to me - her capacity to forgive.
> When my father-in-law died, her secret son from Korea, a person that
> nobody in the American family knew existed, came to Hawaii to pay his
> respects and try to reconnect with her but she refused to see him. The
> neighbor said he had flowers and gifts and was crying like a little child.
> That made it a second time that she abandoned him. My wife has some plans
> to find him but she won't make contact until her mother dies. It's all
> pretty messed up for sure.

Oh my!!! She is a saint!!


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