"Dave Smith" > wrote in message
...
> On 2014-05-13 10:41 AM, Paul M. Cook wrote:
>
>>>> the requirement today, tomorrow is a whole new ball game.
>>>>
>>>
>>> Yep. Now you're catching onto the game.
>>
>>
>> Unlike others I do not hate Julie. I understand her because I grew up
>> exactly in such a world where absolutely nothing was ever good enough and
>> the harder you tried meant the harder you were going to have to try
>> tomorrow. And everything you did was thrown back in your face with a wad
>> of
>> spit and derision but heaven help you if you didn't work harder the next
>> time. It is sad to see somebody else living like that.
>
> Isn't that basically the same thing that she is doing here? She asks for
> advice and then complains about every helpful hint given, coming up with
> excuses why it won't or can't work.

It's all part of the syndrome. You basically assimilate or die and victims
often find themselves acting out like their abusers. There is also a lot of
Stockholm syndrome involved. For me to break the pattern I had to evict my
family from my life and not look back. It's like kicking drugs.



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