On 5/14/2014 5:43 AM, Julie Bove wrote:
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> > wrote in message
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>> On Tue, 13 May 2014 17:57:49 -0700, "Julie Bove"
>> > wrote:
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>>> > wrote in message
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>>>> On Tue, 13 May 2014 17:13:34 -0500, Janet Wilder
>>>> >
>>>> wrote:
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>>>>> On 5/13/2014 11:34 AM, wrote:
>>>>>> On Tue, 13 May 2014 10:08:41 -0500, Janet Wilder
>>>>>> >
>>>>>> wrote:
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>>>>>>> On 5/13/2014 5:53 AM, Julie Bove wrote:
>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>> "Sqwertz" > wrote in message
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>>>>>>>>> On Mon, 12 May 2014 22:26:38 -0700, Julie Bove wrote:
>>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>>> In fact I will cook it tonight for tomorrow's dinner. I
>>>>>>>>>> myself will be having a hamburger patty.
>>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>> Only a troll would suggest cooking steaks tonight for tomorrows
>>>>>>>>> dinner. Even a moron can cook a steak in a few minutes and they
>>>>>>>>> taste
>>>>>>>>> infinitely better than reheated or cold.
>>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>> <snip rest unread>
>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>> Nobody in this house likes a steak that has cooked for a few
>>>>>>>> minutes.
>>>>>>>> And you don't understand! When one person here wants food, he
>>>>>>>> wants
>>>>>>>> it
>>>>>>>> immediately. 2 minutes in the microwave is too long to wait.
>>>>>>>
>>>>>>> That's spouse abuse!
>>>>>>
>>>>>> lol - funny 
>>>>>>
>>>>>
>>>>> That's not how I meant it. I really think that Julie is in a
>>>>> abusive
>>>>> relationship
>>>>
>>>> If so, it will run it's course. Similar to alcoholism, there is no
>>>> cure until the person involved really wants it and is at their lowest
>>>> point.
>>>
>>> This is true. As I have said many, many times. My mom was a
>>> counselor.
>>> All these people psychoanalyzing me is rather funny in a sick and
>>> pathetic
>>> sort of way. But apparently it is what they like to do.
>>
>> No, what is wrong is that you constantly post about it on usenet! That
>> will do nothing to help you. If you are so far out of step, it's time
>> to look inward at yourself.
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> I'm not out of step nor looking for help. You know not of what you
> speak!
There was a woman on another newsgroup I frequented who claimed to be
into BDSM. The newsgroup had nothing to do with that subject, but she
insisted on constantly bringing it up anyway - posting comments about
her failed relationships with her various "masters", who as far as we
could tell were just guys who showed up once or twice to use and abuse
her, then disappear. She had a school-age child who was exposed to
this. She saw nothing wrong with oversharing all her personal shit
with the world, but she was oh, so butthurt when people called her out
on her dysfunctional life and the effect it was having on her child.
Thing is, that criticism just fed into her need for pain and attention.
Sound familiar?
Your child and your husband did not choose to have their personal
lives held up for public review. You want to natter on about yourself,
keep at it. But honestly, you should leave third parties out of it.
You can get all the attention you want and need by oversharing stuff
about yourself.