sf wrote:
>
> On Wed, 11 Jun 2014 18:43:51 -0500, Janet Wilder >
> wrote:
>
> > > Janet, your husband, if he loved you, wouldn't want you to throw away
> > > the remainder of your life all alone, miserable, and grieving.
> > > Regardless what the losers here say I do wish you well.
> > >
> > >
> > Thank you, Sheldon.
>
> I agree with Sheldon. You have already survived the worst grief
> anyone can endure and that's the loss of a beloved child - so I know
> you are resilient and will land on your feet again (given time to
> grieve).
>
> Sheesh, you just lost him! People go into long time mourning over the
> death of a pet. They need to give you some time and space to be sad
> about losing a husband you dearly loved and who loved you.

From all that I've ever read from Janet Wilder, especially lately, I
can tell that she's a "survivor" and a strong person. She will keep
on going just fine. Time does heal too (unlike some others have
said). It's not about forgetting, it's about time healing the
immediate hurt, loss, and feeling overwhelmed and often miserable.
Later on you are mostly left with the good memories of the time you
did have together. :-D