On Sun, 13 Jul 2014 19:10:58 -0400, Nancy Young
> wrote:

> On 7/13/2014 6:06 PM, Ed Pawlowski wrote:
>
> > OTOH, if I was starting over I'm not as sure. I definitely would not
> > buy property jointly with anyone I'm not married to though. Nor would I
> > re-marry and risk losing what I have after a short time and a split.
> > Pre-nup for sure.
>
> It was different when you're younger, and neither one of
> you has a whole lot to lose. It's crazy to risk it all
> when you're older and don't have a lot of years to work to
> make your money back. I told Ron he shouldn't waste too
> much time finding someone new if I croak,
>
I am reminded of my son in laws grandfather and the woman he's married
to who were 86 when I met them. She was widowed once, he was widowed
twice. She told me they met and married in six months. I must have
looked shocked because she looked at me and said very matter of factly
"At our age, we don't have time to fool around!" That says it all.


> but if he gets
> married without a pre-nup, I'm coming back to haunt him.

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