On 8/9/2014 10:22 PM, jmcquown wrote:
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> Meanwhile, I'm the one who had to chase down the insurance policies,
> most of which Dad had let lapse. I'm the one who had to run around with
> our mother, changing things like bank info and the utility bill, phone
> service, DMV registration, from both their names to only hers. "Mr.
> Executor" didn't lift a finger to deal with any of that stuff.

All of those things you helped your mom with are difficult to deal with,
and I'm sure it helped her a lot not to have to do it on her own. My mom
did some of that stuff on her own, but some of it was handled by a
living will both parents decided on about 10 years ago. The Living Will
was a challenge to execute though, even though everything was put into a
binder by the lawyers office. We worked on trying to finalize things
for her after my dad passed for what seemed like months. I think some of
the extra things like Verizon, getting it in her name, and even selling
his car were difficult to do without him.

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