On Wed, 01 Oct 2014 11:13:06 -0500, Becca EmaNymton
> wrote:

> On 10/1/2014 9:57 AM, sf wrote:
> > On Sun, 28 Sep 2014 15:52:39 -0700 (PDT), Nancy2
> > > wrote:
> >
> >> I can attest to the back surgery conundrum. I had lumbar fusion surgery (3, 4, 5 and S1) about three years ago, and
> >> arthritis plus scar tissue has created severe chronic pain and further degeneration. There is no plus
> >> in my case, and seniors who abuse narcotics like hydrocodone have made it extremely difficult, if not
> >> Impossible, to get effective painkillers prescribed by over-conscientious scaredy-cat physicians.
> >> They should be scared. Most mornings when I wake up, the tenor of my day is, I hate my life.
> >
> > That's because those drugs don't work in the long run. It works for a
> > while, then your body gets used to the dose, so the Dr. gives you a
> > stronger one. Pretty soon you're dependent and then you're an addict
> > in a permanent fog. Pain control is a lose lose situation. My son in
> > law has had a lifetime of pain control since age 12. He was
> > prescribed narcotics in recent years, then a synthetic to get off the
> > narcotic. The synthetic turned out to be the worse of the two, so he
> > decided to detox (not easy). He sees a shrink, an MD who will help
> > him with pain management, but won't prescribe narcotics, a physical
> > therapist, goes to the gym, does acupuncture - there's probably more
> > I'm not remembering. I know he was considering Qi (pronounced: chi)
> > Gong at one point, but I don't think he's doing it. What used to be
> > an 8 or 9 on the pain scale is now a 2-4, totally manageable and he's
> > his old self. I almost jumped for joy the last time he was over
> > because the first thing he did was go to the refrigerator looking for
> > something to eat. His appetite is back big time and that's a good
> > thing, IMO.
>
> That is wonderful news for your SIL, I am happy to hear that he is
> getting back to his old self. He has really been through it.
>

Thank you so much for lending your moral support (off line) when times
got tough for me - to say nothing of what he went through. You're a
good person, Becca. I hope everything works out on your end too.
There's more than enough heartache and worry to go around, even if
you're not directly involved in the situation.


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