"Ophelia" > wrote in message
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>> well, darn. She looks at ease when sleeping in her chair and there is
>> a marked difference in her body language in your kitchen as opposed to
>> the rescue picture. Not having to be defensive is a big deal in her
>> world. That's a good thing. I know you are aware of the child
>> development timing issues and I am sure they apply here as well. I'd
>> continue to try for a bit longer and maybe leave the bear tucked in
>> her chair. She's comfy, that's what's important.
>
> Yes, she is comfy and very affectionate - with us. Very well, I will put
> the bear in her chair during the day? She has her bed for night. Should
> I move it in there or just give her time with it in her chair?
>
> I've never had a girl like her with such problems. It would be nice if
> she could find comfort in that bear, although she get plenty from us
> whenever she wants to)
>
> Thanks Will report back)

Ok we played around with it and she gave it a good sniffing so when she had
sniffed enough, I put it into her chair.

"Yes, it makes a decent cushion so long as I don't have to look at it, but
as you can see, I have far more important things to do ..."

http://tinypic.com/r/2pt6xs4/9


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