Dave Smith wrote:
>
> A friend of ours used to host pot luck parties but he only invited
> people who he knew would bring interesting dishes. Just this week I
> read an advice column letter from someone wondering how to deal with a
> friend whose contribution to their groups pot luck meals were
> insultingly cheap, like a bowl of rice. I disagreed with the advice,
> which was to accept it graciously and thank her. I would be more likely
> to exclude her.

Evidently not many asians at that pot luck meal.