On Sat, 12 Aug 2017 22:09:36 GMT, Wayne Boatwright
> wrote:

>Regardles of family, I would not allow her in my home, and make it
>painfully clear that she was no longer welcome there.
>
>You choose your friends, not your family, and if a family member has
>such vile behavior, she does not deserve to be included. The family
>already knows what she's like.
>
>"BN, you have become a problem that we do not care to deal with any
>longer. You're not a child, and since you cannot cntrol yourself, we
>can."
>
>Yes, I can be that mean. I don't know how you've up with it this
>long.

"To up with something": 7 Google results. Must be brand new hipster
speak.