On Sunday, October 22, 2017 at 1:43:41 PM UTC-10, Dave Smith wrote:
> Yep. That's what I am in. It seems that my wife was upset that neither
> my son or I would attend a dinner at her church. I do not do church
> events, and he has a good excuse because he is working that day. She
> invited her niece... the Big Niece. I was not consulted. She knew I
> would say no. Maybe she thought it would be a fait accomplis if she went
> ahead and invited her.
>
> Nope. No way. Not happening. I am in the dog house. Plans have
> changed a bit. BN is now taking the bus down, being picked up and taken
> to the dinner, then back to the bus for the trip home. She is not
> coming to my house.... not this weekend, or any time in the future.
>
>
> I am in deep shit over it, but I should be able to sleep well, not
> having to worry about someone sneaking through the pantry and helping
> herself to everything her little heart desires. There is a line in the
> sand. It is bad enough that she has to be included in family events, but
> she is not to be invited to come on her own. I hope you are all happy. I
> have probably been cut off for a while, but... it's worth it.

You should be in deep shit. It wouldn't have killed you to do this one simple thing. The reality is that you do shit that you don't want to do because you love and respect your wife.