"ardiente casa del amor" > wrote in message
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> On 11/30/2017 12:45 PM, Ed Pawlowski wrote:
>> Funerals are really for the living.
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> Mmm hmm!
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> I cannot buy you happiness, I cannot by you years;
> I cannot buy you happiness, in place of all the tears.
> But I can buy for you a gravestone, to lay behind your head.
> Gravestones cheer the living, dear, they're no use to the dead.


Never had a gravestone of a loved one that "cheered" me, but having a tiny
urn with some of their ashes comforts me. Everyone has their own way of
dealing.

Cheri