On 11/30/2017 1:09 PM, Cheri wrote:
> "ardiente casa del amor" > wrote in message
> news
>> On 11/30/2017 12:45 PM, Ed Pawlowski wrote:
>>> Funerals are really for the living.
>>
>> Mmm hmm!
>>
>>
>> https://www.azlyrics.com/lyrics/nitt...metherain.html
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>> I cannot buy you happiness, I cannot by you years;
>> I cannot buy you happiness, in place of all the tears.
>> But I can buy for you a gravestone, to lay behind your head.
>> Gravestones cheer the living, dear, they're no use to the dead.
>
>
> Never had a gravestone of a loved one that "cheered" me, but having a
> tiny urn with some of their ashes comforts me. Everyone has their own
> way of dealing.
>
> Cheri


Gravestones are great for kids to learn from, an urn less so.

It's whatever works of course.