"ardiente casa del amor" > wrote in message
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> On 11/30/2017 1:09 PM, Cheri wrote:
>> "ardiente casa del amor" > wrote in message
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>>> On 11/30/2017 12:45 PM, Ed Pawlowski wrote:
>>>> Funerals are really for the living.
>>>
>>> Mmm hmm!
>>>
>>>
>>> https://www.azlyrics.com/lyrics/nitt...metherain.html
>>>
>>> I cannot buy you happiness, I cannot by you years;
>>> I cannot buy you happiness, in place of all the tears.
>>> But I can buy for you a gravestone, to lay behind your head.
>>> Gravestones cheer the living, dear, they're no use to the dead.
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>>
>> Never had a gravestone of a loved one that "cheered" me, but having a
>> tiny urn with some of their ashes comforts me. Everyone has their own way
>> of dealing.
>>
>> Cheri
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>
> Gravestones are great for kids to learn from, an urn less so.
>
> It's whatever works of course.


Why would a gravestone be any different than an urn? The information is the
same on the urn as it would be on the gravestone and I'm not interested in
having looky-loos tromping over my loved ones at any rate.

Cheri