On 11/29/2017 11:18 PM, JBurns wrote:

> My mother chose to have the dead spread and no funeral. She did not
> want her money used on a funeral. I arranged to have her body cremated
> and then we had a wake and only invited people that she loved or
> liked.

My mother wanted No wake/funeral/memorial service, just cremation
and buried with my dad. I convinced her my brothers would want
a memorial service and she agreed, Family Only.

Too bad my sil is a frustrated wedding planner who invited
everyone she ran into but the service turned out nice anyway.
I think my mother would have approved.

nancy