"l not -l" > wrote in message
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>
> On 14-Oct-2018, U.S. Janet B. > wrote:


>> Gary, why don't you do what I do when I am ****ed at someone?
>> I write a really nasty reply and then put it in my draft folder --
>> where it gets dusty and dies.

> That is a wonderfully cathartic thing to do. I used that throughout my
> career to vent anger/frustration with minimal risk of job loss.
> Pre-email,
> I would write a memo, have my admin type it, then I'd put it in my desk
> drawer for several days. Pull it out, read it and, most of the time, rip
> it
> up; very rarely, I'd send it on to the addressee.
>
> I very occasionally will do that here on RFC; write a response, but not
> send
> it. Still cathartic.

As the sayin goes,"say it and forget it, write it and regret it." Best to
just comment to yourself over some of the responses, but sometimes you just
gotta. LOL

Cheri