Less booze at work. Not PC enough?
On 4/16/2021 7:24 PM, jmcquown wrote:
> On 4/16/2021 5:32 PM, Ed Pawlowski wrote:
>> On 4/16/2021 3:42 PM, Sqwertz wrote:
>>> On Fri, 16 Apr 2021 10:01:19 -0400, Ed Pawlowski wrote:
>>>
>>>> My Saturday morning call is to Sue. We worked together and had lunch
>>>> together for 25 years and still have a lot to talk about.Â* Could be 2
>>>> hours, sometimes more.
>>>
>>> When are you going to marry her? Or might that be a little awkward
>>> after so long as friends?
>>>
>>> -sw
>>>
>>
>> Never.Â* As much as we enjoy each other's company we'd not last a week
>> married.Â* Pretty sure she feels the same way.
>
> I wish I knew why everyone thinks you should marry your friend.Â* I have
> the impression your wife was also your best friend.Â* You lost her.
> There's no "replacing" her with another female who happens to be a friend.
>
> Jill
Everyone is different. Some people need a spouse or companion. I had
an excellent one for 53 years but now content to be by myself. I can
cook, do laundry, everything needed to survive. Many good memories too.
When you marry, especially an older person, you get a lot of baggage.You
get their kids, be they a success or living in the basement.
I do enjoy the friendships I have. Sheldon does not think it is
possible to not have sex when you visit but, that has been a good thing.
If, over the preceding years, we had fooled around it could have
ruined our marriages and friendship and I'd have nothing now. I plan to
visit again soon so in the interest of everyone at RFC, if I get laid it
will be reported.
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