On Sun, 13 Jun 2021 14:38:40 -0400, Sheldon Martin >
wrote:

>On Sun, 13 Jun 2021 09:25:49 -0700 (PDT), bruce bowser
> wrote:
>
>>On Sunday, June 13, 2021 at 10:54:25 AM UTC-4, Sheldon wrote:
>>> On Sun, 13 Jun 2021 06:08:09 -0700 (PDT), bruce bowser
>>> > wrote:
>>>
>>> >On Sunday, June 13, 2021 at 8:37:11 AM UTC-4, Ed Pawlowski wrote:
>>> >> On 6/12/2021 9:34 PM, Mike Duffy wrote:
>>> >> > On Fri, 11 Jun 2021 22:49:39 -0400, Ed Pawlowski wrote:
>>> >> >
>>> >> >> Now it is two of us that care for each other but
>>> >> >
>>> >> > Any vows you or her ever made were 'until death'. Although there are
>>> >> > societal expectations for a mourning period, specific durations for
>>> >> > almost anything go out the window once we are 'over the hill'. Do
>>> >> > whatever your heart(s) tell you. Maybe she just needs someone to hug.
>>> >>
>>> >> When you truly love someone, just being with them is wonderful. The
>>> >> occasional hug and holding hands brings happiness to the heart.
>>> >
>>> >Too bad it doesn't ever last but 5 or 6 minutes. Then its sitting at the bar, drinking your life away.
>>>
>>> Very true. During my single times I spent many a night sitting alone
>>> at a gin mill. If I had to be alone it was more comfortable and a lot
>>> safer staying home.
>>
>>I'd feel scared that I might be missing something if I stayed around the house. I always have to be out and about. Otherwise nothing's going on.
>
>I got a lot luckier inviting a lady friend for cocktails and they were
>more likely to want to bring a lady friend rather than arrive alone.
>That was fine with me, spending the evening with two ladies was better
>than none.
>Sometimes I had a regular lady date that would rather have me visit at
>her house. She'd need to stay home to watch over her elderly bed
>ridden mom, never bothered me that Anna Mae's mom was in the back
>bedroom.
Anna Mae was the huge hooters princess and she was a prolific
squirter. I had to teach her about rubber sheets.
I was very upset that she passed on some 10 years ago, horrid car
crash not 1/4 mile from her front door Anna Mae didn't drink or drug.
Her only vice was ****ing/sucking. And she loved good food, we went
out to eat all the time and she loved my cooking. I miss Anna Mae
more than any of my 3 previous wives.