"Julia Altshuler" > wrote in message
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> Also, there's a category of guest who isn't quite handicapped but who
> needs help getting a chair or balancing a plate or getting through the
> bathroom door. ....... They feel all the more awkward asking for help
from people
> they know so having the hired help around, one male and one female, who
> can help reach soap in the bathroom will do a lot to make your guests
> feel welcome.

That certainly expands the concept of a 'pot" luck!