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The Ranger
 
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Default potluck etiquette--- please help!!!

Julia Altshuler > asked in message
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> I wonder if one could invite the other nieces and nephews
> without inviting the one [snip]


Easily, and I have on numerous occasions, starting with my wedding
reception.

It's very simple to state that So-And-So is persona non grata and then
enforce that at the door. It's my house, my party, my rules. I don't care if
one or two family members find my directness difficult to understand and
exclusive in a mean way. I am not going to allow anyone free rein over me.
Ann Landers had a great quip, "The only people that can ride rough shod over
you are the ones you let do it."

The Ranger