jmcquown wrote:

> You should meet my father... then you'd realize a nursing home is not an
> option he'd take to nicely. His older sister, my aunt Win, and her husband
> are happy to live in an assisted living faciltiy. There aren't exactly lots
> of nursing homes in the Beaufort area. I'm not sure she would have any idea
> how do do that.

So why don't you move home and help take care of him? And provide a
little respite for your mother? You've got time on your hands.