On Sun, 26 Nov 2006 17:31:48 GMT, "Sarah" >
wrote:

>my Hubby is welcome at my parents any
>time, and appreciates the support. (I work he stays home and looks after
>DS).

Your parents told you what they saw as the shortcomings of your
relationship, you considered them and went on with your plans. You're
fine with your decision and obviously your parents are too. The point
is that you're *still* together and happy. That's what parents want
for their children. Who makes the most money isn't the issue.

IOW: Adult children can make their own (informed) decisions and live
with them one way or the other because they are adults; but if it's a
bad choice (violence for instance) - please don't bring grandchildren
into the scene.... because that's what rips the heart and soul out of
grandparents. Children are the innocent victims of poor choices and
bad relationships.

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