FYI


"Dave Bugg" <dbuggatcharterdotnet> wrote in message
...
> Hello-
> This is Dave's wife Jill. I just want you to know that Dave is doing okay
> and he is getting help. Thank you for the measures you took today to see
> that nothing happened to him. The kids and I appreciate it. I will let
you
> know if anything changes.
>
> God bless,
> Jill
>
> > Hi, all. I just subscribed for a bit to close out some thoughts. First,
> My
> > hearty congrats, Jim, on getting your joint up and running; you'll do
well
> > and I expect it won't be long before you wished you'd not opened
Pandora's
> > Box (Big Grin, my friend).
> >
> > To the rest, thanks for the camaraderie over the last four years. I had
an
> > email from Monroe the other day, and brought him up to speed about my
> > doings, to that point, which I thought was going superbly well. Hell,
who
> > can ever see what tomorrow brings.
> >
> > Things have changed dramatically since I emailed Monroe back. Although I
> had
> > left my job at Chelan-Douglas Health District voluntarily, it was only
> after
> > enduring weeks of witch hunts and power mongering by a temporary power
> shift
> > after our administrator was fired. I became so stressed and anxiety
> driven,
> > that I actually had to be taken to the emergency room.
> >
> > Then my wife, Jill, underwent surgery. She is recovering and should be
> fine.
> > She has spent the last 10 days in Minnesota visiting family and will be
> back
> > today.
> >
> > My 16 year old. Caleb, decided the day that his mom left, that he didn't
> > like my parenting, told me "I hate the ground you walk on you fat
*******"
> > and promised to "get rid of me" as he walked out the door. Now his mom
is
> > beside herself -- which is why she is flying home today instead of
Sunday.
> > She just felt that she couldn't stay in Minnesota any longer, and needed
> to
> > get Caleb back home.
> >
> > On the phone, last night, she told me that Caleb won't come home (he had
> > been calling Jill) until I'm gone. So, I need to leave by tonight. She
> > mentioned something about "needing time apart and then who knows what
> might
> > happen". This was a punch that has totally devastated me.
> >
> > There have been too many things that I have had to absorb, and I just am
> too
> > tired and despairing to even try. I thought that, whatever else might
> > happen, at least I had my family. Now I don't even have that.
> >
> > I can't think real well, 'cause everything is jumbled; I feel like my
soul
> > has been shredded. Every day, I get up struggling with physical pain and
> > dealing with it the best I can.... but this pain is even more severe. I
> just
> > can't see any end, so I am going to end it. I just cannot cope any
longer.
> >
> > I've cleaned the house for Jill. I am unsubscribing from my newserver in
> > total at this time. It's time to go.
> >
> > Dave
> >
> >
>
>