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"jmcquown" > wrote:

> Sheldon wrote:
> > Dan Abel wrote:
> >>
> >> The first question that pops into my mind when I hear someone
> >> complaining about their ex is, "Then why did you marry this person?".
> >
> > Only a loser would think to ask such a dumb question.
> >
> > A much smarter question is to ask someone why they stay married to
> > such a loser.
> >
> > Sheldon
>
> Not to mention, people change. I'm certainly not the same person I was in
> my 20's. But sometimes (skyhooks can back me up on this!) a person is very
> good at hiding what they are really like until after the wedding. It's
> almost like the marriage license gives them license to turn into a jackass

That's two very good answers to the question. I'm not trying to make a
judgement here, I'm really curious. Not curious enough to ask, of
course.