Sarah wrote:
>
> "margaret suran" > wrote in message
> ink.net...
>> Need I tell you how sad I am to see you and Jill fighting? Seeing two
>> of my friends squabbling like that is terribly sad for me. ( I
>> hope you two will quickly hug and make up.
>>
>> Love to you and Crash, Margaret
>
> Same here Margaret,
> I think the whole thing may have gone away if so many people hadn't
> acted with outrage at Jill.
> Just one little thing and Vwoom.....
> Just too many people fanning the flames. A private email or a phone call
> and it could all be sorted? Maybe..
> Life is too short for blaming people and who said what. IMO.
> I don't think Dams is in the mood for a flame war, there are few posts
> from her about the issue, I'm sure she has bigger things to be concerned
> with at the moment.
> anyway, don't want to make the issue bigger than it is.
> Hope they can both let bygones be bygones and start over as before.
> It did get kind of OTT at one stage!
>
> Sarah


Sarah, I like both ladies very much. Jill has a heart of gold. And
the quick temper of a Scotch lassie. As for Carol, she has had a couple
of really difficult years and still has. I admire her for her ability
to cope and keep on making the best of what life is dealing her right
now. If I ever need a friend, I would not hesitate to ask either one to
lend me a shoulder to cry on. Or anything else.

Yesterday should have been a day of celebration, because our Damsel was
back. This was not a good Welcome.

You are right. Left to their own devices, Carol and Jill would have
exchanged a couple of words, then would have laughed at the whole silly
dispute and decided that their friendship was too valuable to just toss
aside. I have no doubt that two such bright women will lose little time
and straighten out this misunderstanding.