today started nicely but it ended in a car wreck, we are both ok but it
brought to the surface some things i wasn't awareof/hadn't been told... so
now i have a whole new set of stress to deal with...

thanks for reading, needed to vent, Lee

"Storrmmee" > wrote:
> today started nicely but it ended in a car wreck, we are both ok but it
> brought to the surface some things i wasn't awareof/hadn't been told...
> so now i have a whole new set of stress to deal with...
>
> thanks for reading, needed to vent, Lee

Car (and motorcycle) wrecks are always fun, Lee. Glad you're OK enough to
post.

--
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families: https://semperfifund.org https://www.woundedwarriorproject.org/
http://www.specialops.org/ http://www.helpforheroes.org.uk/ ~Semper Fi~
http://www.woundedwarriors.ca/ http://www.legacy.com.au/ ~Semper Fi~

"Storrmmee" > wrote in message
...
> today started nicely but it ended in a car wreck, we are both ok but it
> brought to the surface some things i wasn't awareof/hadn't been told... so
> now i have a whole new set of stress to deal with...
>
> thanks for reading, needed to vent, Lee

Sorry to hear that!

i tried going to sleep but started twitching... i have realised some things
from this wreck that are going to change my entire life, Lee
"Nick Cramer" > wrote in message
...
> "Storrmmee" > wrote:
>> today started nicely but it ended in a car wreck, we are both ok but it
>> brought to the surface some things i wasn't awareof/hadn't been told...
>> so now i have a whole new set of stress to deal with...
>>
>> thanks for reading, needed to vent, Lee
>
> Car (and motorcycle) wrecks are always fun, Lee. Glad you're OK enough to
> post.
>
> --
> Nick, KI6VAV. Support severely wounded and disabled Veterans and their
> families: https://semperfifund.org https://www.woundedwarriorproject.org/
> http://www.specialops.org/ http://www.helpforheroes.org.uk/ ~Semper Fi~
> http://www.woundedwarriors.ca/ http://www.legacy.com.au/ ~Semper Fi~

thanks, Lee
"Julie Bove" > wrote in message
...
>
> "Storrmmee" > wrote in message
> ...
>> today started nicely but it ended in a car wreck, we are both ok but it
>> brought to the surface some things i wasn't awareof/hadn't been told...
>> so now i have a whole new set of stress to deal with...
>>
>> thanks for reading, needed to vent, Lee
>
> Sorry to hear that!
>

"Storrmmee" > wrote:
> i tried going to sleep but started twitching... i have realised some
> things from this wreck that are going to change my entire life, Lee
> "Nick Cramer" > wrote in message
> > "Storrmmee" > wrote:
> >> today started nicely but it ended in a car wreck, we are both ok but
> >> it brought to the surface some things i wasn't awareof/hadn't been
> >> told... so now i have a whole new set of stress to deal with...
> >>
> >> thanks for reading, needed to vent, Lee
> >
> > Car (and motorcycle) wrecks are always fun, Lee. Glad you're OK enough
> > to post.

Twitching? Is that not normal?

--
Nick, KI6VAV. Support severely wounded and disabled Veterans and their
families: https://semperfifund.org https://www.woundedwarriorproject.org/
http://www.specialops.org/ http://www.helpforheroes.org.uk/ ~Semper Fi~
http://www.woundedwarriors.ca/ http://www.legacy.com.au/ ~Semper Fi~

not for me, i only slepep about 3/4 hours a night and i die and wake in the
same position, Lee
"Nick Cramer" > wrote in message
...
> "Storrmmee" > wrote:
>> i tried going to sleep but started twitching... i have realised some
>> things from this wreck that are going to change my entire life, Lee
>> "Nick Cramer" > wrote in message
>> > "Storrmmee" > wrote:
>> >> today started nicely but it ended in a car wreck, we are both ok but
>> >> it brought to the surface some things i wasn't awareof/hadn't been
>> >> told... so now i have a whole new set of stress to deal with...
>> >>
>> >> thanks for reading, needed to vent, Lee
>> >
>> > Car (and motorcycle) wrecks are always fun, Lee. Glad you're OK enough
>> > to post.
>
> Twitching? Is that not normal?
>
> --
> Nick, KI6VAV. Support severely wounded and disabled Veterans and their
> families: https://semperfifund.org https://www.woundedwarriorproject.org/
> http://www.specialops.org/ http://www.helpforheroes.org.uk/ ~Semper Fi~
> http://www.woundedwarriors.ca/ http://www.legacy.com.au/ ~Semper Fi~

"Storrmmee" > wrote:
> not for me, i only slepep about 3/4 hours a night and i die and wake in
> the same position, Lee
> "Nick Cramer" > wrote in message
> > "Storrmmee" > wrote:
> >> i tried going to sleep but started twitching... i have realised some
> >> things from this wreck that are going to change my entire life, Lee
> >> "Nick Cramer" > wrote in message
> >> > "Storrmmee" > wrote:
> >> >> today started nicely but it ended in a car wreck, we are both ok
> >> >> but it brought to the surface some things i wasn't awareof/hadn't
> >> >> been told... so now i have a whole new set of stress to deal
> >> >> with...
> >> >>
> >> >> thanks for reading, needed to vent, Lee
> >> >
> >> > Car (and motorcycle) wrecks are always fun, Lee. Glad you're OK
> >> > enough to post.
> >
> > Twitching? Is that not normal?

I sleep around ten hours, about 1 or 2 hours at a time. I wake up, turn
over and go back to sleep. Sometimes, I'm awakened by SEVERE leg cramps.
Jun and I massage and rolf my legs and I walk with her assistance to end
the agony.

--
Nick, KI6VAV. Support severely wounded and disabled Veterans and their
families: https://semperfifund.org https://www.woundedwarriorproject.org/
http://www.specialops.org/ http://www.helpforheroes.org.uk/ ~Semper Fi~
http://www.woundedwarriors.ca/ http://www.legacy.com.au/ ~Semper Fi~

"Storrmmee" > wrote in message
...
>i tried going to sleep but started twitching... i have realised some things
>from this wreck that are going to change my entire life, Lee

Like what?

cherish that help my friend, Lee
"Nick Cramer" > wrote in message
...
> "Storrmmee" > wrote:
>> not for me, i only slepep about 3/4 hours a night and i die and wake in
>> the same position, Lee
>> "Nick Cramer" > wrote in message
>> > "Storrmmee" > wrote:
>> >> i tried going to sleep but started twitching... i have realised some
>> >> things from this wreck that are going to change my entire life, Lee
>> >> "Nick Cramer" > wrote in message
>> >> > "Storrmmee" > wrote:
>> >> >> today started nicely but it ended in a car wreck, we are both ok
>> >> >> but it brought to the surface some things i wasn't awareof/hadn't
>> >> >> been told... so now i have a whole new set of stress to deal
>> >> >> with...
>> >> >>
>> >> >> thanks for reading, needed to vent, Lee
>> >> >
>> >> > Car (and motorcycle) wrecks are always fun, Lee. Glad you're OK
>> >> > enough to post.
>> >
>> > Twitching? Is that not normal?
>
> I sleep around ten hours, about 1 or 2 hours at a time. I wake up, turn
> over and go back to sleep. Sometimes, I'm awakened by SEVERE leg cramps.
> Jun and I massage and rolf my legs and I walk with her assistance to end
> the agony.
>
> --
> Nick, KI6VAV. Support severely wounded and disabled Veterans and their
> families: https://semperfifund.org https://www.woundedwarriorproject.org/
> http://www.specialops.org/ http://www.helpforheroes.org.uk/ ~Semper Fi~
> http://www.woundedwarriors.ca/ http://www.legacy.com.au/ ~Semper Fi~

i saw some things after the wreck regarding the dh's health i
hadn't/wouldn't see before, its serious and i am refraining from specifics,
partly for his privacey and my sanity, lets just say i am kicking myself for
being blinder than my eyes would indicate, Lee
"Julie Bove" > wrote in message
...
>
> "Storrmmee" > wrote in message
> ...
>>i tried going to sleep but started twitching... i have realised some
>>things from this wreck that are going to change my entire life, Lee
>
> Like what?
>

Sorry to hear that Lee. Hope you can handle the new stress quickly.

"Storrmmee" > wrote in message
...
> today started nicely but it ended in a car wreck, we are both ok but
> it brought to the surface some things i wasn't awareof/hadn't been
> told... so now i have a whole new set of stress to deal with...
>
> thanks for reading, needed to vent, Lee
>
>

"Storrmmee" > wrote in message
...
> i saw some things after the wreck regarding the dh's health i
> hadn't/wouldn't see before, its serious and i am refraining from
> specifics, partly for his privacey and my sanity, lets just say i am
> kicking myself for being blinder than my eyes would indicate, Lee

Hugs, Lee.

> "Julie Bove" > wrote in message
> ...
>>
>> "Storrmmee" > wrote in message
>> ...
>>>i tried going to sleep but started twitching... i have realised some
>>>things from this wreck that are going to change my entire life, Lee
>>
>> Like what?
>>
>
>
>

thank you for the concern, this is going to be the hardest thing i ever
dealt with, Lee
"Ozgirl" > wrote in message
...
> Sorry to hear that Lee. Hope you can handle the new stress quickly.
>
> "Storrmmee" > wrote in message
> ...
>> today started nicely but it ended in a car wreck, we are both ok but it
>> brought to the surface some things i wasn't awareof/hadn't been told...
>> so now i have a whole new set of stress to deal with...
>>
>> thanks for reading, needed to vent, Lee
>>
>>

thanks, Lee
"Ozgirl" > wrote in message
...
>
>
> "Storrmmee" > wrote in message
> ...
>> i saw some things after the wreck regarding the dh's health i
>> hadn't/wouldn't see before, its serious and i am refraining from
>> specifics, partly for his privacey and my sanity, lets just say i am
>> kicking myself for being blinder than my eyes would indicate, Lee
>
> Hugs, Lee.
>
>> "Julie Bove" > wrote in message
>> ...
>>>
>>> "Storrmmee" > wrote in message
>>> ...
>>>>i tried going to sleep but started twitching... i have realised some
>>>>things from this wreck that are going to change my entire life, Lee
>>>
>>> Like what?
>>>
>>
>>
>>

yikes!
glad your ok and at least problems surfaced can be problems dealt with and
solved

KROM


"Storrmmee" wrote in message ...

today started nicely but it ended in a car wreck, we are both ok but it
brought to the surface some things i wasn't awareof/hadn't been told... so
now i have a whole new set of stress to deal with...

thanks for reading, needed to vent, Lee

i am trying to look at it that way, thanks, Lee
"KROM" > wrote in message ...
> yikes!
> glad your ok and at least problems surfaced can be problems dealt with and
> solved
>
> KROM
>
>
> "Storrmmee" wrote in message ...
>
> today started nicely but it ended in a car wreck, we are both ok but it
> brought to the surface some things i wasn't awareof/hadn't been told... so
> now i have a whole new set of stress to deal with...
>
> thanks for reading, needed to vent, Lee
>

On 12/29/2011 2:00 AM, Storrmmee wrote:
> today started nicely but it ended in a car wreck, we are both ok but it
> brought to the surface some things i wasn't awareof/hadn't been told... so
> now i have a whole new set of stress to deal with...
>
> thanks for reading, needed to vent, Lee
>
>

Lee! I do hope you are ok!

sorry to hear about the car wreck, but it's YOU that is the important
part of this (all life!)

mayy i ask what things have surfaced that you weren't aware of/hadn't
been told?

kate

On 12/29/2011 3:05 AM, Storrmmee wrote:
> i tried going to sleep but started twitching... i have realised some things
> from this wreck that are going to change my entire life, Lee

is this anxiety?
i hate to say 'take a med' but......... if you are having PTSD from the
accident, the SOONER you address this, the more likely for a full recovery

kate

On 12/29/2011 4:29 AM, Storrmmee wrote:
> i saw some things after the wreck regarding the dh's health i
> hadn't/wouldn't see before, its serious and i am refraining from specifics,
> partly for his privacey and my sanity, lets just say i am kicking myself for
> being blinder than my eyes would indicate, Lee

oh honey, i'm sorry to hear this

please ignore my other post

***hugs***

kate

Hopefully it will work out for you. Can't solve a problem you don't know
about Or if not solve, at least find a workable compromise.

"Storrmmee" > wrote in message
...
> i am trying to look at it that way, thanks, Lee
> "KROM" > wrote in message
> ...
>> yikes!
>> glad your ok and at least problems surfaced can be problems dealt
>> with and solved
>>
>> KROM
>>
>>
>> "Storrmmee" wrote in message ...
>>
>> today started nicely but it ended in a car wreck, we are both ok but
>> it
>> brought to the surface some things i wasn't awareof/hadn't been
>> told... so
>> now i have a whole new set of stress to deal with...
>>
>> thanks for reading, needed to vent, Lee
>>
>
>
>

"Storrmmee" > wrote in message
...
>i saw some things after the wreck regarding the dh's health i
>hadn't/wouldn't see before, its serious and i am refraining from specifics,
>partly for his privacey and my sanity, lets just say i am kicking myself
>for being blinder than my eyes would indicate, Lee

I see. Sorry.

On 12/29/2011 4:56 AM, Nick Cramer wrote:
> > wrote:
>> not for me, i only slepep about 3/4 hours a night and i die and wake in
>> the same position, Lee
>> "Nick > wrote in message
>>> > wrote:
[snip]
> I sleep around ten hours, about 1 or 2 hours at a time. I wake up, turn
> over and go back to sleep. Sometimes, I'm awakened by SEVERE leg cramps.
> Jun and I massage and rolf my legs and I walk with her assistance to end
> the agony.

I've read that adding more potassium to your diet can also help.
Most of the salt substitutes are suitable for this.

Robert Miles

"Storrmmee" > wrote in message
...
> today started nicely but it ended in a car wreck, we are both ok but it
> brought to the surface some things i wasn't awareof/hadn't been told... so
> now i have a whole new set of stress to deal with...
>
> thanks for reading, needed to vent, Lee

I'm sorry to hear it Lee, you have enough stress going on without this.
Thankfully, you're both OK, and the rest...well, there's nothing for it but
to get through it. :-(

Cheri

Hope things look better for you in the New Year ....So Glad you are ok.

"Storrmmee" > wrote in message
...
> today started nicely but it ended in a car wreck, we are both ok but it
> brought to the surface some things i wasn't awareof/hadn't been told... so
> now i have a whole new set of stress to deal with...
>
> thanks for reading, needed to vent, Lee
>
>

some health issues with dh, Lee
"Tiger Lily" > wrote in message
...
> On 12/29/2011 2:00 AM, Storrmmee wrote:
>> today started nicely but it ended in a car wreck, we are both ok but it
>> brought to the surface some things i wasn't awareof/hadn't been told...
>> so
>> now i have a whole new set of stress to deal with...
>>
>> thanks for reading, needed to vent, Lee
>>
>>
>
> Lee! I do hope you are ok!
>
> sorry to hear about the car wreck, but it's YOU that is the important part
> of this (all life!)
>
> mayy i ask what things have surfaced that you weren't aware of/hadn't been
> told?
>
> kate

no its a reality check, Lee
"Tiger Lily" > wrote in message
...
> On 12/29/2011 3:05 AM, Storrmmee wrote:
>> i tried going to sleep but started twitching... i have realised some
>> things
>> from this wreck that are going to change my entire life, Lee
>
> is this anxiety?
> i hate to say 'take a med' but......... if you are having PTSD from the
> accident, the SOONER you address this, the more likely for a full recovery
>
> kate

never ignore a kind post, Lee
"Tiger Lily" > wrote in message
...
> On 12/29/2011 4:29 AM, Storrmmee wrote:
>> i saw some things after the wreck regarding the dh's health i
>> hadn't/wouldn't see before, its serious and i am refraining from
>> specifics,
>> partly for his privacey and my sanity, lets just say i am kicking myself
>> for
>> being blinder than my eyes would indicate, Lee
>
> oh honey, i'm sorry to hear this
>
> please ignore my other post
>
> ***hugs***
>
> kate

have already started working on it, its going to be a long road but i have
faith it will work out, Lee
"Ozgirl" > wrote in message
...
> Hopefully it will work out for you. Can't solve a problem you don't know
> about Or if not solve, at least find a workable compromise.
>
> "Storrmmee" > wrote in message
> ...
>> i am trying to look at it that way, thanks, Lee
>> "KROM" > wrote in message
>> ...
>>> yikes!
>>> glad your ok and at least problems surfaced can be problems dealt with
>>> and solved
>>>
>>> KROM
>>>
>>>
>>> "Storrmmee" wrote in message ...
>>>
>>> today started nicely but it ended in a car wreck, we are both ok but it
>>> brought to the surface some things i wasn't awareof/hadn't been told...
>>> so
>>> now i have a whole new set of stress to deal with...
>>>
>>> thanks for reading, needed to vent, Lee
>>>
>>
>>
>>

thanks for your concer, Lee
"Julie Bove" > wrote in message
...
>
> "Storrmmee" > wrote in message
> ...
>>i saw some things after the wreck regarding the dh's health i
>>hadn't/wouldn't see before, its serious and i am refraining from
>>specifics, partly for his privacey and my sanity, lets just say i am
>>kicking myself for being blinder than my eyes would indicate, Lee
>
> I see. Sorry.
>

one step at a time is all i can do, Lee
"Cheri" > wrote in message
...
> "Storrmmee" > wrote in message
> ...
>> today started nicely but it ended in a car wreck, we are both ok but it
>> brought to the surface some things i wasn't awareof/hadn't been told...
>> so now i have a whole new set of stress to deal with...
>>
>> thanks for reading, needed to vent, Lee
>
> I'm sorry to hear it Lee, you have enough stress going on without this.
> Thankfully, you're both OK, and the rest...well, there's nothing for it
> but to get through it. :-(
>
> Cheri
>

thanks on both counts, Lee
"Jacquie" > wrote in message
m...
> Hope things look better for you in the New Year ....So Glad you are ok.
>
> "Storrmmee" > wrote in message
> ...
>> today started nicely but it ended in a car wreck, we are both ok but it
>> brought to the surface some things i wasn't awareof/hadn't been told...
>> so now i have a whole new set of stress to deal with...
>>
>> thanks for reading, needed to vent, Lee
>>
>>
>
>

On 12/29/2011 9:25 PM, Storrmmee wrote:
> never ignore a kind post, Lee

lots of love, prayers, good thoughts, and great vibes being sent your
way Lee

i'm a recipient right now, i can share!

kate

thanks so much, Lee
"Tiger Lily" > wrote in message
...
> On 12/29/2011 9:25 PM, Storrmmee wrote:
>> never ignore a kind post, Lee
>
> lots of love, prayers, good thoughts, and great vibes being sent your way
> Lee
>
> i'm a recipient right now, i can share!
>
> kate

Storrmmee > wrote:
: some health issues with dh, Lee

Sorry to hear this. When we had our car wreck clse to 5 years ago. Syd
had fallen asleep at the wheel and we went off the road into a ditch.
Neeither of us was seriously injured, but in the hospital for several days
with assorted stuff. It lead to Syd's no longer being allowed to drive(
the State required an MD's OK to unsuspend his liscense and we never enen
asked either of his MDs, a he knew he would not risk it. We were
fortunatle that we took no other car with us.

It meant that there was no driver any more in the family so we began our
system of using th ebus and hiring people or gettign friends to pick us
up. Cumbersome in the summer when we used the little drip-dry ouse in
Margaretville, but soable, and no prblem in the city. It can be life
changing and psychologically very difficult.

I sincerely hope that you and your husband work out the issues regardign
health and driving that you may have and continue to enjoy your life, even
with MORE adjustments. Lord, but you have enough that you have gone
trhough!

Wendy

thank you , i am so sorry you understand, it may come to where you were, Lee
"W. Baker" > wrote in message
...
> Storrmmee > wrote:
> : some health issues with dh, Lee
>
> Sorry to hear this. When we had our car wreck clse to 5 years ago. Syd
> had fallen asleep at the wheel and we went off the road into a ditch.
> Neeither of us was seriously injured, but in the hospital for several days
> with assorted stuff. It lead to Syd's no longer being allowed to drive(
> the State required an MD's OK to unsuspend his liscense and we never enen
> asked either of his MDs, a he knew he would not risk it. We were
> fortunatle that we took no other car with us.
>
> It meant that there was no driver any more in the family so we began our
> system of using th ebus and hiring people or gettign friends to pick us
> up. Cumbersome in the summer when we used the little drip-dry ouse in
> Margaretville, but soable, and no prblem in the city. It can be life
> changing and psychologically very difficult.
>
> I sincerely hope that you and your husband work out the issues regardign
> health and driving that you may have and continue to enjoy your life, even
> with MORE adjustments. Lord, but you have enough that you have gone
> trhough!
>
> Wendy