On Fri 02 May 2008 09:54:25p, Christine Dabney told us...

> On Sat, 03 May 2008 04:47:26 GMT, Wayne Boatwright
> > wrote:
>
>>On Fri 02 May 2008 09:28:59p, PeterLucas told us...
>>
>>>> David will eat the vegetables but not the corned beef. His
>>>> pholosphy...if the meat is pink it must still be raw, in spite of the
>>>> fact that it simmered for ~3 hours! How crazy is that?
>>>
>>>
>>> Up there with "I don't eat green vegetables", "I only eat white food",
>>> "I don't eat any meat with bones in it"....... bloody stupid!!
>>
>>LOL! He's three for four. The only green vegetable he will eat is
>>canned green peas. He won't eat any meat with bones on or in it.
>>Bloody stupid, indeed!!
>
> I am going to have to deal with this at the end of May. I have an
> Australian friend coming to visit me in NM..and she eats almost no
> vegetables. She does eat potatoes, and she likes avocados. But if I
> am to get her to eat any vegetables, she says they need to be covered
> in cheese.
>
> She will eat a salad, I think...but no bitter greens...
>
> I was going to post this as a different thread, as I have been trying
> to wrack my brain figuring out what to feed her.
>
> So, what do you serve David? I need ideas!!
>
> Christine
>

Okay, here goes, but it's not a particularly inspiring list...

Canned Green Peas or Peas and Carrots, buttered or in a white sauce
Fresh Carrots, sliced and cooked soft
Potatoes in almost any form, mashed, cubed and parslied, creamed, fried, au
gratin, scalloped
White rice with brown gravy
Canned Corn or Corn on the Cob
Almost any for of beef, as long as there is no bone or visible fat
Boneless, skinless chicken breast, flattened and grilled
Roast turkey, prime white meat slices only
Boneless center cut pork chops
Hot dogs, boiled
Burger, burgers, burgers, fried or grilled
No salads of any type, vegetable or fruit
No bits or pieces of tomato, onion, or garlic in anything
Canned peaches and pears
Desserts? Chocolate only, and no nuts

Very sad, isn't it?

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Wayne Boatwright > wrote in
3.184:


>
> Very sad, isn't it?
>



Totally f****** sad.


Unless the 'person' is allegic to just about everything (in which case
she shouldn't be foisting herself on any 'friends'), if she has "special
needs" she should take care of them.


When the SO and I got together, we became a "Brady Bunch".

Her kids wouldn't eat different foods, and neither of them were the
same.

When the SO was married (previously) and at home, she cooked 4 different
meals. One for the arsewipe, one each for the kids, and one for her.

Within 3 weeks of moving in with me, all kids and all adults were eating
the same food........ and no-one died!! Go Figger!!!


--
Peter Lucas
Brisbane
Australia

You will travel through the valley of rejection;
you will reside in the land of morning mists...and you will find your
home,
though it will not be where you left it.

On Sat 03 May 2008 05:37:23a, PeterLucas told us...

> Wayne Boatwright > wrote in
> 3.184:
>
>
>>
>> Very sad, isn't it?
>>
>
>
>
> Totally f****** sad.

> Unless the 'person' is allegic to just about everything (in which case
> she shouldn't be foisting herself on any 'friends'), if she has "special
> needs" she should take care of them.

He has absolutely no allergies to any foods or medications.

>
>
> When the SO and I got together, we became a "Brady Bunch".
>
> Her kids wouldn't eat different foods, and neither of them were the
> same.
>
> When the SO was married (previously) and at home, she cooked 4 different
> meals. One for the arsewipe, one each for the kids, and one for her.
>
> Within 3 weeks of moving in with me, all kids and all adults were eating
> the same food........ and no-one died!! Go Figger!!!

I wish that would have worked here, but he would simply not eat what I
preferred to cook and would just go out for a McDonald's.

I cook 2 different meals on most nights, in self defense, because I won't
stoop to his pitiful level of taste. :-)

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Wayne Boatwright > wrote in
3.184:


>
>> Unless the 'person' is allegic to just about everything (in which
>> case she shouldn't be foisting herself on any 'friends'), if she has
>> "special needs" she should take care of them.
>
> He has absolutely no allergies to any foods or medications.



Ahhhhhhhhhhhhh!! So he's just being a spoilt little child.


"Gimme, gimme, gimme..... pay me attention."



>>
>> Within 3 weeks of moving in with me, all kids and all adults were
>> eating the same food........ and no-one died!! Go Figger!!!
>
> I wish that would have worked here, but he would simply not eat what I
> preferred to cook and would just go out for a McDonald's.



That's fine.


But that **really** shows the level of feeling and commitment that he
has for you.

FFS!! I was willing to become a frikken vego for my CA wife!!

Improvise, Adapt, Overcome.


(And I'll come back to the Slack-Macs thing later!!)





>
> I cook 2 different meals on most nights, in self defense, because I
> won't stoop to his pitiful level of taste. :-)
>


Stop doing it Wayne.


Because as long as you continue to cater to the needs of an attention
seeking asswipe, they'll continue to act like children and continue to
drag as much out of you as they can.

I'd rather live by myself than have to cater to someone like that.




--
Peter Lucas
Brisbane
Australia

You will travel through the valley of rejection;
you will reside in the land of morning mists...and you will find your
home,
though it will not be where you left it.

On Sat 03 May 2008 07:52:27a, PeterLucas told us...

> Wayne Boatwright > wrote in
> 3.184:
>
>
>>
>>> Unless the 'person' is allegic to just about everything (in which
>>> case she shouldn't be foisting herself on any 'friends'), if she has
>>> "special needs" she should take care of them.
>>
>> He has absolutely no allergies to any foods or medications.
>
>
>
> Ahhhhhhhhhhhhh!! So he's just being a spoilt little child.
>
>
> "Gimme, gimme, gimme..... pay me attention."

Honestly, not really. It's just an aversion. If I didn't cook for him
differently, it wouldn't matter to him. He'd just find something else to
eat.

>>> Within 3 weeks of moving in with me, all kids and all adults were
>>> eating the same food........ and no-one died!! Go Figger!!!
>>
>> I wish that would have worked here, but he would simply not eat what I
>> preferred to cook and would just go out for a McDonald's.
>
>
>
> That's fine.
>
>
> But that **really** shows the level of feeling and commitment that he
> has for you.

No, it really doesn't, Peter. There's absolutely nothing that he would do
for me, apart from the food thing.

> FFS!! I was willing to become a frikken vego for my CA wife!!
>
> Improvise, Adapt, Overcome.
>
>
> (And I'll come back to the Slack-Macs thing later!!)
>
>
>
>
>
>>
>> I cook 2 different meals on most nights, in self defense, because I
>> won't stoop to his pitiful level of taste. :-)
>>
>
>
> Stop doing it Wayne.
>
>
> Because as long as you continue to cater to the needs of an attention
> seeking asswipe, they'll continue to act like children and continue to
> drag as much out of you as they can.
>
> I'd rather live by myself than have to cater to someone like that.

Maybe I'm making it sound worse than it is. It's not a hardship for me.
Anything he likes to eat just takes a warming up or a quick grilling. What
I make for myself takes a lot more effort.

I understand and appreciate your position, but in our situation it really
isn't a hardship.

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laughing, they'd never stop.

Wayne Boatwright > wrote in
3.184:


>>
>> I'd rather live by myself than have to cater to someone like that.
>
> Maybe I'm making it sound worse than it is. It's not a hardship for
> me. Anything he likes to eat just takes a warming up or a quick
> grilling. What I make for myself takes a lot more effort.
>
> I understand and appreciate your position, but in our situation it
> really isn't a hardship.
>


No worries. So long as you're happy :-)




--
Peter Lucas
Brisbane
Australia

You will travel through the valley of rejection;
you will reside in the land of morning mists...and you will find your home,
though it will not be where you left it.

On Sat 03 May 2008 08:19:37p, PeterLucas told us...

> Wayne Boatwright > wrote in
> 3.184:
>
>
>>>
>>> I'd rather live by myself than have to cater to someone like that.
>>
>> Maybe I'm making it sound worse than it is. It's not a hardship for
>> me. Anything he likes to eat just takes a warming up or a quick
>> grilling. What I make for myself takes a lot more effort.
>>
>> I understand and appreciate your position, but in our situation it
>> really isn't a hardship.
>>
>
>
> No worries. So long as you're happy :-)

We are...


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On Sat 03 May 2008 10:42:33a, Janet Baraclough told us...

> The message 4>
> from Wayne Boatwright > contains these
> words:
>
>
>
>> I wish that would have worked here, but he would simply not eat what I
>> preferred to cook and would just go out for a McDonald's.
>
> So let him; it's not the end of the world. .
>
>> I cook 2 different meals on most nights, in self defense, because I
>> won't stoop to his pitiful level of taste. :-)
>
> What you're defending, is your powerful role as nurturer versus his
> role as the wayward child who spits out food.
>
> Janet

Not really, Janet. You don't actually know us. When I cook a meal we
usually share whatever meat I choose to make unless it's something he
clearly doesn't like, as well as at least one of the vegetables that we
both like. I willl make a second vegetable for each of us. It's no big
deal.

If I want Chinese I have it, and he may go and have a McDonald's. I don't
care. Other similar situations, too. I don't cater to him as much as I
may have implied.

Everyone has likes and dislikes. For example, I absolutely detest oysters
and squid (unless it's fried). There's no way in hell anyone could make me
eat them.

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Wayne Boatwright > wrote in
3.184:


> Everyone has likes and dislikes. For example, I absolutely detest
> oysters and squid (unless it's fried). There's no way in hell anyone
> could make me eat them.
>


I'll have any you don't want!!! :-)

Birthday Breakfast last year.......

http://s199.photobucket.com/albums/a...akfast%2023rd%
20August/


http://tinyurl.com/68phg8



--
Peter Lucas
Brisbane
Australia

You will travel through the valley of rejection;
you will reside in the land of morning mists...and you will find your home,
though it will not be where you left it.

On Sat 03 May 2008 08:23:17p, PeterLucas told us...

> Wayne Boatwright > wrote in
> 3.184:
>
>
>> Everyone has likes and dislikes. For example, I absolutely detest
>> oysters and squid (unless it's fried). There's no way in hell anyone
>> could make me eat them.
>>
>
>
> I'll have any you don't want!!! :-)
>
> Birthday Breakfast last year.......
>
> http://s199.photobucket.com/albums/a...akfast%2023rd%
> 20August/
>
>
> http://tinyurl.com/68phg8
>
>
>

You can have all of them! But you can't have the clams. I want all of
them!

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Janet Baraclough > wrote in
:


>> >
>> > What you're defending, is your powerful role as nurturer versus
>> > his
>> > role as the wayward child who spits out food.
>> >
>> > Janet
>
>> Not really, Janet. You don't actually know us. When I cook a meal
>> we usually share whatever meat I choose to make unless it's something
>> he clearly doesn't like, as well as at least one of the vegetables
>> that we both like. I willl make a second vegetable for each of us.
>> It's no big deal.
>
> Ah. Not quite "I cook 2 different meals most nights".




I cook one meal.


You don't like it.... go hungry.



>
>> I don't cater to him as much as I
>> may have implied.
>
> I see.


I don't.


Seems Wayne is doing most/all of the cooking.




--
Peter Lucas
Brisbane
Australia

You will travel through the valley of rejection;
you will reside in the land of morning mists...and you will find your
home,
though it will not be where you left it.

On Sun 04 May 2008 09:28:12a, PeterLucas told us...

> Janet Baraclough > wrote in
> :
>
>
>>> >
>>> > What you're defending, is your powerful role as nurturer versus
>>> > his
>>> > role as the wayward child who spits out food.
>>> >
>>> > Janet
>>
>>> Not really, Janet. You don't actually know us. When I cook a meal
>>> we usually share whatever meat I choose to make unless it's something
>>> he clearly doesn't like, as well as at least one of the vegetables
>>> that we both like. I willl make a second vegetable for each of us.
>>> It's no big deal.
>>
>> Ah. Not quite "I cook 2 different meals most nights".
>
>
>
>
> I cook one meal.
>
>
> You don't like it.... go hungry.
>
>
>
>>
>>> I don't cater to him as much as I may have implied.
>>
>> I see.
>
>
> I don't.
>
>
> Seems Wayne is doing most/all of the cooking.

I have always done all of the cooking. I prefer it that way.

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Wayne Boatwright wrote:

> I have always done all of the cooking. I prefer it that way.

I do ours too, and I also prefer it that way)

On Sun, 04 May 2008 16:33:39 GMT, Wayne Boatwright
> wrote:

>On Sun 04 May 2008 09:28:12a, PeterLucas told us...
>
>> Janet Baraclough > wrote in

>>> Ah. Not quite "I cook 2 different meals most nights".

>>
>> I cook one meal.
>>
>>
>> You don't like it.... go hungry.
>>
>>>
>>>> I don't cater to him as much as I may have implied.
>>>
>>> I see.
>>
>>
>> I don't.
>>
>>
>> Seems Wayne is doing most/all of the cooking.
>
>I have always done all of the cooking. I prefer it that way.

frankly, it sounds like you'd be up shit creek if you left it to
david.

your pal,
blake

Wayne Boatwright wrote:

>
> Okay, here goes, but it's not a particularly inspiring list...
>
> Canned Green Peas or Peas and Carrots, buttered or in a white sauce
> Fresh Carrots, sliced and cooked soft
> Potatoes in almost any form, mashed, cubed and parslied, creamed, fried, au
> gratin, scalloped
> White rice with brown gravy
> Canned Corn or Corn on the Cob
> Almost any for of beef, as long as there is no bone or visible fat
> Boneless, skinless chicken breast, flattened and grilled
> Roast turkey, prime white meat slices only
> Boneless center cut pork chops
> Hot dogs, boiled
> Burger, burgers, burgers, fried or grilled
> No salads of any type, vegetable or fruit
> No bits or pieces of tomato, onion, or garlic in anything
> Canned peaches and pears
> Desserts? Chocolate only, and no nuts
>
> Very sad, isn't it?
>

Pitiful. Just imagine what he is missing, both flavor and
nutrition-wise. I can't understand how an adult can be so anal and
narrow-minded. SOunds like our 6 yr. old grandson, but there's hope
for him since we can bribe him into tasting things and he often decides
"Hey, that's GOOD!"

gloria p

On Sat 03 May 2008 10:26:51a, Gloria P told us...

> Wayne Boatwright wrote:
>
>>
>> Okay, here goes, but it's not a particularly inspiring list...
>>
>> Canned Green Peas or Peas and Carrots, buttered or in a white sauce
>> Fresh Carrots, sliced and cooked soft
>> Potatoes in almost any form, mashed, cubed and parslied, creamed,
>> fried, au gratin, scalloped
>> White rice with brown gravy
>> Canned Corn or Corn on the Cob
>> Almost any for of beef, as long as there is no bone or visible fat
>> Boneless, skinless chicken breast, flattened and grilled
>> Roast turkey, prime white meat slices only
>> Boneless center cut pork chops
>> Hot dogs, boiled
>> Burger, burgers, burgers, fried or grilled
>> No salads of any type, vegetable or fruit
>> No bits or pieces of tomato, onion, or garlic in anything
>> Canned peaches and pears
>> Desserts? Chocolate only, and no nuts
>>
>> Very sad, isn't it?
>>
>
> Pitiful. Just imagine what he is missing, both flavor and
> nutrition-wise. I can't understand how an adult can be so anal and
> narrow-minded. SOunds like our 6 yr. old grandson, but there's hope
> for him since we can bribe him into tasting things and he often decides
> "Hey, that's GOOD!"
>
> gloria p
>

Yes, pitiful. If his upbringing had been better, it may not have ended up
like this.

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On Sat, 03 May 2008 18:22:19 GMT, Wayne Boatwright
> wrote:

>On Sat 03 May 2008 10:26:51a, Gloria P told us...
>
>> Wayne Boatwright wrote:
>>
>>>
>>> Okay, here goes, but it's not a particularly inspiring list...
>>>
>>> Canned Green Peas or Peas and Carrots, buttered or in a white sauce
>>> Fresh Carrots, sliced and cooked soft
>>> Potatoes in almost any form, mashed, cubed and parslied, creamed,
>>> fried, au gratin, scalloped
>>> White rice with brown gravy
>>> Canned Corn or Corn on the Cob
>>> Almost any for of beef, as long as there is no bone or visible fat
>>> Boneless, skinless chicken breast, flattened and grilled
>>> Roast turkey, prime white meat slices only
>>> Boneless center cut pork chops
>>> Hot dogs, boiled
>>> Burger, burgers, burgers, fried or grilled
>>> No salads of any type, vegetable or fruit
>>> No bits or pieces of tomato, onion, or garlic in anything
>>> Canned peaches and pears
>>> Desserts? Chocolate only, and no nuts
>>>
>>> Very sad, isn't it?
>>>
>>
>> Pitiful. Just imagine what he is missing, both flavor and
>> nutrition-wise. I can't understand how an adult can be so anal and
>> narrow-minded. SOunds like our 6 yr. old grandson, but there's hope
>> for him since we can bribe him into tasting things and he often decides
>> "Hey, that's GOOD!"
>>
>> gloria p
>>
>
>Yes, pitiful. If his upbringing had been better, it may not have ended up
>like this.

at least he doesn't have a maniacal appetite for big macs.

your pal,
bill

On Sun 04 May 2008 06:15:01a, blake murphy told us...

> On Sat, 03 May 2008 18:22:19 GMT, Wayne Boatwright
> > wrote:
>
>>On Sat 03 May 2008 10:26:51a, Gloria P told us...
>>
>>> Wayne Boatwright wrote:
>>>
>>>>
>>>> Okay, here goes, but it's not a particularly inspiring list...
>>>>
>>>> Canned Green Peas or Peas and Carrots, buttered or in a white sauce
>>>> Fresh Carrots, sliced and cooked soft
>>>> Potatoes in almost any form, mashed, cubed and parslied, creamed,
fried,
>>>> au gratin, scalloped White rice with brown gravy
>>>> Canned Corn or Corn on the Cob
>>>> Almost any for of beef, as long as there is no bone or visible fat
>>>> Boneless, skinless chicken breast, flattened and grilled
>>>> Roast turkey, prime white meat slices only
>>>> Boneless center cut pork chops
>>>> Hot dogs, boiled
>>>> Burger, burgers, burgers, fried or grilled
>>>> No salads of any type, vegetable or fruit
>>>> No bits or pieces of tomato, onion, or garlic in anything
>>>> Canned peaches and pears
>>>> Desserts? Chocolate only, and no nuts
>>>>
>>>> Very sad, isn't it?
>>>>
>>>
>>> Pitiful. Just imagine what he is missing, both flavor and
>>> nutrition-wise. I can't understand how an adult can be so anal and
>>> narrow-minded. SOunds like our 6 yr. old grandson, but there's hope
>>> for him since we can bribe him into tasting things and he often decides
>>> "Hey, that's GOOD!"
>>>
>>> gloria p
>>>
>>
>>Yes, pitiful. If his upbringing had been better, it may not have ended
up
>>like this.
>
> at least he doesn't have a maniacal appetite for big macs.
>
> your pal,
> bill
>

Yes, thank God for that. :-)

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On Sat, 03 May 2008 11:26:51 -0600, Gloria P >
wrote:

>Wayne Boatwright wrote:
>
>>
>> Okay, here goes, but it's not a particularly inspiring list...
>>
>> Canned Green Peas or Peas and Carrots, buttered or in a white sauce
>> Fresh Carrots, sliced and cooked soft
>> Potatoes in almost any form, mashed, cubed and parslied, creamed, fried, au
>> gratin, scalloped
>> White rice with brown gravy
>> Canned Corn or Corn on the Cob
>> Almost any for of beef, as long as there is no bone or visible fat
>> Boneless, skinless chicken breast, flattened and grilled
>> Roast turkey, prime white meat slices only
>> Boneless center cut pork chops
>> Hot dogs, boiled
>> Burger, burgers, burgers, fried or grilled
>> No salads of any type, vegetable or fruit
>> No bits or pieces of tomato, onion, or garlic in anything
>> Canned peaches and pears
>> Desserts? Chocolate only, and no nuts
>>
>> Very sad, isn't it?
>>
>
>Pitiful. Just imagine what he is missing, both flavor and
>nutrition-wise. I can't understand how an adult can be so anal and
>narrow-minded. SOunds like our 6 yr. old grandson, but there's hope
>for him since we can bribe him into tasting things and he often decides
>"Hey, that's GOOD!"
>
>gloria p

let them eat rice cake.

your pal,
marie