General Cooking (rec.food.cooking) For general food and cooking discussion. Foods of all kinds, food procurement, cooking methods and techniques, eating, etc.

Reply
 
LinkBack Thread Tools Search this Thread Display Modes
  #41 (permalink)   Report Post  
Jessica V.
 
Posts: n/a
Default

Jack Schidt® wrote:
> "Gabby" > wrote in message
> ...
>
>>"Terry Pulliam Burd" > wrote in message
. ..
>>
>>>On Tue, 12 Oct 2004 21:07:20 -0400, "Jessica V." >
>>>arranged random neurons, so they looked like this:
>>>
>>>
>>>>That was the big sign up at Dunkin Donuts this morning. I was shocked.
>>>> The tip cups are gone. It's about time.
>>>>
>>>
>>>Never could figure out why you'd tip someone for performing their job
>>>at what is essentially a fast food joint - this includes Starbucks,
>>>Diedrich's, etc. - yet you wouldn't dream of a tip jar at, say,
>>>McDonald's. Same degree of service, but do you see a tip jar at
>>>McDonald's?

>>
>>They have one at A & W, here. It always ticks me off since the counter
>>people there make about $7/hr.
>>
>>Gabby
>>

>
>
> Wow, $7 an hour.
>
> Jack Wage
>
>

Dunks pays $9.50 here to start for counter people. A friend manages one
of the franchise stores and makes over 50k a year. The location I was at
with the sign has an adult manager and assistant, all of the other
employees I've seen there are students (which I only know because I work
at the college). Sure as hell beats waiting tables in the off season in
Maine.

Jessica
  #42 (permalink)   Report Post  
Katra
 
Posts: n/a
Default

In article >,
Goomba38 > wrote:

> Ellie C wrote:
>
> > Gee, with tip cups showing up all over could it possibly be a symptom of
> > the fact that people need to make more than $7 per hour? THat's a fine
> > wage if you're a high school kid but there's lots of folks who have
> > these jobs as their full time work. Could you live on $7 per hour?

>
> Weren't jobs like this always incentive to finish
> school and find a career that pays more?
> Goomba
>


HELL yes!!! Working my ass off for minumum wage at 6 flags Magic
Mountain in California made be be very determined to work my way thru
college so I could have a decent wage!

I now earn around $23.00 per hour.
Still not great (bad career choice) but better than minumum wage.......

K.

--
Sprout the Mung Bean to reply...

>,,<Cat's Haven Hobby Farm>,,<Katraatcenturyteldotnet>,,<


http://cgi6.ebay.com/ws/eBayISAPI.dl...user id=katra
  #43 (permalink)   Report Post  
OmManiPadmeOmelet
 
Posts: n/a
Default

In article >,
"Jessica V." > wrote:

> Jack Schidt® wrote:
> > "Gabby" > wrote in message
> > ...
> >
> >>"Terry Pulliam Burd" > wrote in message
> . ..
> >>
> >>>On Tue, 12 Oct 2004 21:07:20 -0400, "Jessica V." >
> >>>arranged random neurons, so they looked like this:
> >>>
> >>>
> >>>>That was the big sign up at Dunkin Donuts this morning. I was shocked.
> >>>> The tip cups are gone. It's about time.
> >>>>
> >>>
> >>>Never could figure out why you'd tip someone for performing their job
> >>>at what is essentially a fast food joint - this includes Starbucks,
> >>>Diedrich's, etc. - yet you wouldn't dream of a tip jar at, say,
> >>>McDonald's. Same degree of service, but do you see a tip jar at
> >>>McDonald's?
> >>
> >>They have one at A & W, here. It always ticks me off since the counter
> >>people there make about $7/hr.
> >>
> >>Gabby
> >>

> >
> >
> > Wow, $7 an hour.
> >
> > Jack Wage
> >
> >

> Dunks pays $9.50 here to start for counter people. A friend manages one
> of the franchise stores and makes over 50k a year. The location I was at
> with the sign has an adult manager and assistant, all of the other
> employees I've seen there are students (which I only know because I work
> at the college). Sure as hell beats waiting tables in the off season in
> Maine.
>
> Jessica


I know some waitresses that make nearly what I do due to tips. ;-)
They are cute and personable and flirt with the customers.

Almost as bad as prostitution?????

Scary.

Om
--
"See, the problem is that God gives men a brain and a penis, and only
enough blood to run one at a time." -Robin Williams
  #44 (permalink)   Report Post  
OmManiPadmeOmelet
 
Posts: n/a
Default

In article >,
"Jessica V." > wrote:

> Jack Schidt® wrote:
> > "Gabby" > wrote in message
> > ...
> >
> >>"Terry Pulliam Burd" > wrote in message
> . ..
> >>
> >>>On Tue, 12 Oct 2004 21:07:20 -0400, "Jessica V." >
> >>>arranged random neurons, so they looked like this:
> >>>
> >>>
> >>>>That was the big sign up at Dunkin Donuts this morning. I was shocked.
> >>>> The tip cups are gone. It's about time.
> >>>>
> >>>
> >>>Never could figure out why you'd tip someone for performing their job
> >>>at what is essentially a fast food joint - this includes Starbucks,
> >>>Diedrich's, etc. - yet you wouldn't dream of a tip jar at, say,
> >>>McDonald's. Same degree of service, but do you see a tip jar at
> >>>McDonald's?
> >>
> >>They have one at A & W, here. It always ticks me off since the counter
> >>people there make about $7/hr.
> >>
> >>Gabby
> >>

> >
> >
> > Wow, $7 an hour.
> >
> > Jack Wage
> >
> >

> Dunks pays $9.50 here to start for counter people. A friend manages one
> of the franchise stores and makes over 50k a year. The location I was at
> with the sign has an adult manager and assistant, all of the other
> employees I've seen there are students (which I only know because I work
> at the college). Sure as hell beats waiting tables in the off season in
> Maine.
>
> Jessica


I know some waitresses that make nearly what I do due to tips. ;-)
They are cute and personable and flirt with the customers.

Almost as bad as prostitution?????

Scary.

Om
--
"See, the problem is that God gives men a brain and a penis, and only
enough blood to run one at a time." -Robin Williams
  #45 (permalink)   Report Post  
Jack Schidt®
 
Posts: n/a
Default


"OmManiPadmeOmelet" > wrote in message
...
>
> Almost as bad as prostitution?????
>


almost as good, you mean?

> Scary.


Bring yer wallet next time. ell oh ell. [YEH]

Jack MustangPahrumpOwlClub




  #46 (permalink)   Report Post  
Jack Schidt®
 
Posts: n/a
Default


"OmManiPadmeOmelet" > wrote in message
...
>
> Almost as bad as prostitution?????
>


almost as good, you mean?

> Scary.


Bring yer wallet next time. ell oh ell. [YEH]

Jack MustangPahrumpOwlClub


  #47 (permalink)   Report Post  
OmManiPadmeOmelet
 
Posts: n/a
Default

In article > ,
"Jack Schidt®" > wrote:

> "OmManiPadmeOmelet" > wrote in message
> ...
> >
> > Almost as bad as prostitution?????
> >

>
> almost as good, you mean?
>
> > Scary.

>
> Bring yer wallet next time. ell oh ell. [YEH]
>
> Jack MustangPahrumpOwlClub
>
>


You have just been screwed by grandma's whorehouse...
Remember that joke?

Om.
--
"See, the problem is that God gives men a brain and a penis, and only
enough blood to run one at a time." -Robin Williams
  #48 (permalink)   Report Post  
Jack Schidt®
 
Posts: n/a
Default


"OmManiPadmeOmelet" > wrote in message
...
> In article > ,
> "Jack Schidt®" > wrote:
>
>> "OmManiPadmeOmelet" > wrote in message
>> ...
>> >
>> > Almost as bad as prostitution?????
>> >

>>
>> almost as good, you mean?
>>
>> > Scary.

>>
>> Bring yer wallet next time. ell oh ell. [YEH]
>>
>> Jack MustangPahrumpOwlClub
>>
>>

>
> You have just been screwed by grandma's whorehouse...
> Remember that joke?
>


I seem to remember seeing that on a matchbook, too.

Jack Old


  #49 (permalink)   Report Post  
Julia Altshuler
 
Posts: n/a
Default

Ellie C wrote:

> Gee, with tip cups showing up all over could it possibly be a symptom of
> the fact that people need to make more than $7 per hour? THat's a fine
> wage if you're a high school kid but there's lots of folks who have
> these jobs as their full time work. Could you live on $7 per hour?



There's no doubt that $7/hour is not a lot of money. The question, for
me, is how the higher wage should get delivered to the worker. I'd like
the employer to take care of it. The tip system is all weird and wrong.
The tip is supposed to be optional so you'd think that if you don't
like paying the tip you don't have to. But then the worker gets
screwed. You end up with a cycle like this:


Employer pays worker too little.
Customer thinks worker should get paid more and therefore tips.
Employer realizes tips are turning job into a well paid one.
Employer figures out way to get hands into the tip jar.
Customer must tip MORE to give worker a living wage.


For example, at many coat and package check places at museums and
convention halls, the workers never see the so called tips. Management
takes them outright.


--Lia

  #50 (permalink)   Report Post  
Julia Altshuler
 
Posts: n/a
Default

Ellie C wrote:

> Gee, with tip cups showing up all over could it possibly be a symptom of
> the fact that people need to make more than $7 per hour? THat's a fine
> wage if you're a high school kid but there's lots of folks who have
> these jobs as their full time work. Could you live on $7 per hour?



There's no doubt that $7/hour is not a lot of money. The question, for
me, is how the higher wage should get delivered to the worker. I'd like
the employer to take care of it. The tip system is all weird and wrong.
The tip is supposed to be optional so you'd think that if you don't
like paying the tip you don't have to. But then the worker gets
screwed. You end up with a cycle like this:


Employer pays worker too little.
Customer thinks worker should get paid more and therefore tips.
Employer realizes tips are turning job into a well paid one.
Employer figures out way to get hands into the tip jar.
Customer must tip MORE to give worker a living wage.


For example, at many coat and package check places at museums and
convention halls, the workers never see the so called tips. Management
takes them outright.


--Lia



  #51 (permalink)   Report Post  
Julia Altshuler
 
Posts: n/a
Default

Melba's Jammin' wrote:

> Trying to screw you without a kiss. Good for you, Lia. My car repair
> place wanted to charge me for some hazardous waste or material disposal
> charge for something once. Maybe $4. I questioned it because whatever
> they did didn't require disposal of anything and I didn't figure I
> should be charged for it. They didn't charge me.



Thanks for the note of support. The truth is that we talked for the
rest of the night about whether or not I did the right thing. This is a
case of non-buyer's remorse. I know that ALL the used car dealers do
this. I'm asking myself how I would feel about it if they'd told us up
front that there would be this extra fee. Would I have minded then? In
a restaurant, I know I'm expected to tip, and I always do. What if I
thought of this as a tip that everyone else knows is expected? The
bottom line is that we're not sure we wanted this car anyway. At least,
that's what I'm telling myself.


--Lia

  #52 (permalink)   Report Post  
baker
 
Posts: n/a
Default

Ellie C > wrote in
:

> baker wrote:
>
>> "Jack Schidt®" > wrote in
>> m:
>>
>>
>>>"Gabby" > wrote in message
...
>>>
>>>>"Terry Pulliam Burd" > wrote in message
m...
>>>>
>>>>>On Tue, 12 Oct 2004 21:07:20 -0400, "Jessica V." >
>>>>>arranged random neurons, so they looked like this:
>>>>>
>>>>>
>>>>>>That was the big sign up at Dunkin Donuts this morning. I was
>>>>>>shocked.
>>>>>> The tip cups are gone. It's about time.
>>>>>>
>>>>>
>>>>>Never could figure out why you'd tip someone for performing their
>>>>>job at what is essentially a fast food joint - this includes
>>>>>Starbucks, Diedrich's, etc. - yet you wouldn't dream of a tip jar
>>>>>at, say, McDonald's. Same degree of service, but do you see a tip
>>>>>jar at McDonald's?
>>>>
>>>>They have one at A & W, here. It always ticks me off since the
>>>>counter people there make about $7/hr.
>>>>
>>>>Gabby
>>>>
>>>
>>>Wow, $7 an hour.
>>>
>>>Jack Wage

>>
>>
>> They chose to work there. There are many clerking positions where
>> tipping is neither expected nor hoped for, and which pay no more than
>> that. Why should this be any different? I recently stopped for gas
>> at a station I'd never been to before. A tip jar was prominently
>> displayed. Even if I bought more than gas, I would dispense my own
>> pop, pick up merchandise from shelves, and pay the cashier. They
>> deserve a tip for this? Zeesh!
>>

> Gee, with tip cups showing up all over could it possibly be a symptom
> of the fact that people need to make more than $7 per hour? THat's a
> fine wage if you're a high school kid but there's lots of folks who
> have these jobs as their full time work. Could you live on $7 per
> hour?


I never said it was a good income nor that people didn't need to make
more money. The price for merchandise is set, and that is the price I
expect to pay, plus tax, which I also expect to pay. I do not expect to
supplement someone's wage through tipping because they think they should
be able to depend on the kindness of strangers. I'm sure when they
agreed to take the job that they knew what the wage would be. Poor
planning and greater expectations on their part does not constitute an
obligation on my part, and I resent any implication to that by the
presence of tip cups.

--
It's me, Baker!

When the Chips are Down,
the Buffalo is Empty.
  #53 (permalink)   Report Post  
Julia Altshuler
 
Posts: n/a
Default

Boron Elgar wrote:

> That is a pretty common charge on new car sales here in northern NJ
> and encompasses registering the vehicle and getting new plates, if
> required.



It is common here in New England too. The safety inspection costs
around $30. We can put the plates from the old car on the new one so
that costs nothing. I'm sure there is a lot of paperwork and hassle
involved with transferring the title, but look at it another way. Say
you were buying several largish shrubs to plant in your garden and had
brought your own truck to haul them home in. They're heavy, but you can
lift them yourself if you take them one at a time. They're labeled as
costing $30 each. You get to the register to pay, but there's an extra
$5 charge for each one. You question it. The salesperson explains "we
had to water the shrubs while they were here in the store, and they need
special storage where they can get sun. Also, the staff who takes care
of shrubbery before it is sold has to get special training, and there's
a truck that delivers the plants to us. All that costs money. Five
dollars is a bargain." Well maybe it is, but why aren't they labeled as
costing $35 in the first place?


--Lia

  #56 (permalink)   Report Post  
OmManiPadmeOmelet
 
Posts: n/a
Default

In article >,
"Jack Schidt®" > wrote:

> "OmManiPadmeOmelet" > wrote in message
> ...
> > In article > ,
> > "Jack Schidt®" > wrote:
> >
> >> "OmManiPadmeOmelet" > wrote in message
> >> ...
> >> >
> >> > Almost as bad as prostitution?????
> >> >
> >>
> >> almost as good, you mean?
> >>
> >> > Scary.
> >>
> >> Bring yer wallet next time. ell oh ell. [YEH]
> >>
> >> Jack MustangPahrumpOwlClub
> >>
> >>

> >
> > You have just been screwed by grandma's whorehouse...
> > Remember that joke?
> >

>
> I seem to remember seeing that on a matchbook, too.
>
> Jack Old
>
>


Bathroom wall......

Om
--
"See, the problem is that God gives men a brain and a penis, and only
enough blood to run one at a time." -Robin Williams
  #57 (permalink)   Report Post  
OmManiPadmeOmelet
 
Posts: n/a
Default

In article >,
"Jack Schidt®" > wrote:

> "OmManiPadmeOmelet" > wrote in message
> ...
> > In article > ,
> > "Jack Schidt®" > wrote:
> >
> >> "OmManiPadmeOmelet" > wrote in message
> >> ...
> >> >
> >> > Almost as bad as prostitution?????
> >> >
> >>
> >> almost as good, you mean?
> >>
> >> > Scary.
> >>
> >> Bring yer wallet next time. ell oh ell. [YEH]
> >>
> >> Jack MustangPahrumpOwlClub
> >>
> >>

> >
> > You have just been screwed by grandma's whorehouse...
> > Remember that joke?
> >

>
> I seem to remember seeing that on a matchbook, too.
>
> Jack Old
>
>


Bathroom wall......

Om
--
"See, the problem is that God gives men a brain and a penis, and only
enough blood to run one at a time." -Robin Williams
  #58 (permalink)   Report Post  
sf
 
Posts: n/a
Default

On Wed, 13 Oct 2004 12:11:07 GMT, "Peter Aitken"
> wrote:

> Pitiful, yes, but it's still not the customer's job to supplement it. And I
> bet McD's would have a tip jar if managment allowed it!


I bet dollars to doughnuts that management encourages this
practice (nah, I bet they originated the idea). Do you
really think that a tip cup would be on the counter if the
highest levels of corporate management didn't condone it????

sf
Practice safe eating - always use condiments
  #59 (permalink)   Report Post  
sf
 
Posts: n/a
Default

On Wed, 13 Oct 2004 12:11:07 GMT, "Peter Aitken"
> wrote:

> Pitiful, yes, but it's still not the customer's job to supplement it. And I
> bet McD's would have a tip jar if managment allowed it!


I bet dollars to doughnuts that management encourages this
practice (nah, I bet they originated the idea). Do you
really think that a tip cup would be on the counter if the
highest levels of corporate management didn't condone it????

sf
Practice safe eating - always use condiments
  #60 (permalink)   Report Post  
sf
 
Posts: n/a
Default

On Wed, 13 Oct 2004 12:13:20 GMT, baker >
wrote:

> They chose to work there.


Said like a holier than thou person with job choice.


sf
Practice safe eating - always use condiments


  #61 (permalink)   Report Post  
sf
 
Posts: n/a
Default

On Wed, 13 Oct 2004 12:13:20 GMT, baker >
wrote:

> They chose to work there.


Said like a holier than thou person with job choice.


sf
Practice safe eating - always use condiments
  #62 (permalink)   Report Post  
sf
 
Posts: n/a
Default

On Thu, 14 Oct 2004 00:52:12 GMT, "Jack Schidt®"
> wrote:

> > You have just been screwed by grandma's whorehouse...
> > Remember that joke?
> >

>
> I seem to remember seeing that on a matchbook, too.



Am I THAT young? I have no idea what the joke is.

sf
Practice safe eating - always use condiments
  #63 (permalink)   Report Post  
sf
 
Posts: n/a
Default

On Wed, 13 Oct 2004 12:46:34 -0300, "Gabby"
> wrote:

> Most, if not all, are kids going to high school and living at home or
> working summer jobs while going to university. The few adults that work
> there are in supervisory positions and I assume they make more. And since
> they are all non-unionized positions I'm sure the owner of the franchise is
> free to pay the adults more.
>
> Gabby
>

Dream on.

sf
Practice safe eating - always use condiments
  #64 (permalink)   Report Post  
sf
 
Posts: n/a
Default

On Wed, 13 Oct 2004 13:40:47 GMT, Julia Altshuler
> wrote:

> We're still in the
> market for a used car.


Try Craig's list.

sf
Practice safe eating - always use condiments
  #65 (permalink)   Report Post  
sf
 
Posts: n/a
Default

On Wed, 13 Oct 2004 10:27:05 -0400, Boron Elgar
> wrote:

> That is a pretty common charge on new car sales here in northern NJ
> and encompasses registering the vehicle and getting new plates, if
> required.


A good negotiator doesn't pay for that.

sf
Practice safe eating - always use condiments


  #66 (permalink)   Report Post  
sf
 
Posts: n/a
Default

On Wed, 13 Oct 2004 09:57:38 -0500, Melba's Jammin'
> wrote:

> Trying to screw you without a kiss.


good one!


sf
Practice safe eating - always use condiments
  #67 (permalink)   Report Post  
sf
 
Posts: n/a
Default

On Wed, 13 Oct 2004 09:57:38 -0500, Melba's Jammin'
> wrote:

> Trying to screw you without a kiss.


good one!


sf
Practice safe eating - always use condiments
  #68 (permalink)   Report Post  
sf
 
Posts: n/a
Default

On Wed, 13 Oct 2004 10:37:54 -0400, "Saerah"
> wrote:

> Even if i felt right
> accepting a tip, i wouldnt take a f**king quarter.


In "their day", a quarter was a good tip, so don't be
offended.

sf
Practice safe eating - always use condiments
  #69 (permalink)   Report Post  
sf
 
Posts: n/a
Default

On Wed, 13 Oct 2004 10:37:54 -0400, "Saerah"
> wrote:

> Even if i felt right
> accepting a tip, i wouldnt take a f**king quarter.


In "their day", a quarter was a good tip, so don't be
offended.

sf
Practice safe eating - always use condiments
  #70 (permalink)   Report Post  
Gabby
 
Posts: n/a
Default


"sf" > wrote in message
...
> On Wed, 13 Oct 2004 10:37:54 -0400, "Saerah"
> > wrote:
>
>> Even if i felt right
>> accepting a tip, i wouldnt take a f**king quarter.

>
> In "their day", a quarter was a good tip, so don't be
> offended.
>

It may also be a good percentage of their present day income.

Gabby




  #71 (permalink)   Report Post  
Boron Elgar
 
Posts: n/a
Default

On Thu, 14 Oct 2004 01:41:22 GMT, Julia Altshuler
> wrote:

>Boron Elgar wrote:
>
>> That is a pretty common charge on new car sales here in northern NJ
>> and encompasses registering the vehicle and getting new plates, if
>> required.

>
>
>It is common here in New England too. The safety inspection costs
>around $30. We can put the plates from the old car on the new one so
>that costs nothing. I'm sure there is a lot of paperwork and hassle
>involved with transferring the title, but look at it another way. Say
>you were buying several largish shrubs to plant in your garden and had
>brought your own truck to haul them home in. They're heavy, but you can
>lift them yourself if you take them one at a time. They're labeled as
>costing $30 each. You get to the register to pay, but there's an extra
>$5 charge for each one. You question it. The salesperson explains "we
>had to water the shrubs while they were here in the store, and they need
>special storage where they can get sun. Also, the staff who takes care
>of shrubbery before it is sold has to get special training, and there's
>a truck that delivers the plants to us. All that costs money. Five
>dollars is a bargain." Well maybe it is, but why aren't they labeled as
>costing $35 in the first place?
>
>
>--Lia



The paperwork fee is pre-printed on the invoices around here...you
negotiate around it, not about it. You get your savings elsewhere,
knowing about the fees ahead of time. I know there are fixed charges,
such as "dealer prep" and the like and so I base my negotiating price
knowing those things are in there. I consider them part of the "asking
price" and negotiate down from there.

You seemed to have mastered the one thing to know about buying a car -
be prepared to walk if you do not like the deal. Again, anything is
negotiable...they bottom line is the bottom line...whether they reduce
or eliminate the paperwork fee or charge for filling the tank or lower
the offering for your trade-in, it doesn't matter...you want to get to
the final costs.

It is no more nor no less a legitimate fee than the itemization
billing that hospitals do, so that a dose of Tylenol runs 4-6 dollars
on the invoice. As a patient, you have less chance of negotiating
that...it is their way of getting around the insurance companies and
unless you are paying cash, you can be SOL with hospital charges.

I went through the same sort of BS trying to get a new cell phone the
other day. Same sort of post purchases fees that got tacked on and a
hideous attempt to "up-sell" with accessories, too. It was the same
high pressure tactics as buying a car. Having purchased 2 new cars in
15 months, the similarities were quite striking to me.

Just to bring the topic back to food...always go car shopping on a
full stomach, as you may be there awhile. Besides, car sale techniques
are liable to make you lose your appetite.

Boron
  #72 (permalink)   Report Post  
Kevintsheehy
 
Posts: n/a
Default

Lia wrote on 10/13/2004:

<snip>

All that costs money. Five dollars is a bargain." Well maybe
>it is, but why aren't they labeled as costing $35 in the first place?


I recall the first time I noticed an "up" charge itemized on a
restaurant bill for a martini served "up". It was $2 or $3. I
asked the waiter about it because I had not seen that before.
He explained - in a rather surly way - that they started doing
that because you get more booze when the drink is served
"up". So, I say, why don't you just include it in the price of
the drink and skip the separate line item. I don't remember
what he said to that, just that it was also a surly answer.

So, I made a corresponding adjustment to his tip. This
restaurant has long since abandoned this practice.


  #73 (permalink)   Report Post  
Kevintsheehy
 
Posts: n/a
Default

Lia wrote on 10/13/2004:

<snip>

All that costs money. Five dollars is a bargain." Well maybe
>it is, but why aren't they labeled as costing $35 in the first place?


I recall the first time I noticed an "up" charge itemized on a
restaurant bill for a martini served "up". It was $2 or $3. I
asked the waiter about it because I had not seen that before.
He explained - in a rather surly way - that they started doing
that because you get more booze when the drink is served
"up". So, I say, why don't you just include it in the price of
the drink and skip the separate line item. I don't remember
what he said to that, just that it was also a surly answer.

So, I made a corresponding adjustment to his tip. This
restaurant has long since abandoned this practice.


  #74 (permalink)   Report Post  
baker
 
Posts: n/a
Default

sf > wrote in news:jb2sm0p0h39p8duh1892dipfc028759fkh@
4ax.com:

> On Wed, 13 Oct 2004 12:13:20 GMT, baker >
> wrote:
>
>> They chose to work there.

>
> Said like a holier than thou person with job choice.


Did you choose the jobs you've had, or were they chosen for you?

--
It's me, Baker!

When the Chips are Down,
the Buffalo is Empty.
  #75 (permalink)   Report Post  
baker
 
Posts: n/a
Default

sf > wrote in news:jb2sm0p0h39p8duh1892dipfc028759fkh@
4ax.com:

> On Wed, 13 Oct 2004 12:13:20 GMT, baker >
> wrote:
>
>> They chose to work there.

>
> Said like a holier than thou person with job choice.


Did you choose the jobs you've had, or were they chosen for you?

--
It's me, Baker!

When the Chips are Down,
the Buffalo is Empty.


  #76 (permalink)   Report Post  
Julia Altshuler
 
Posts: n/a
Default

Kevintsheehy wrote:

> I recall the first time I noticed an "up" charge itemized on a
> restaurant bill for a martini served "up". It was $2 or $3. I
> asked the waiter about it because I had not seen that before.
> He explained - in a rather surly way - that they started doing
> that because you get more booze when the drink is served
> "up". So, I say, why don't you just include it in the price of
> the drink and skip the separate line item. I don't remember
> what he said to that, just that it was also a surly answer.



That's interesting. I worked in a bar. There was one price for a shot
of bar brand alcohol and a higher price for a call brand of alcohol.
Soda mixers were free, and a shot was the same size no matter what it
was mixed with. So a shot of scotch served straight up (also called
neat) was the same shot served with ice (on the rocks) which was the
same served with soda or water. All were the same price. Juice mixers
(a screwdriver, for example) cost a little more, and frozen drinks
(anything requiring a blender) were more still. Everyone knew that the
cost for the alcohol and the size of the alcohol portion was going to be
the same however it was served. The size of the glasses reflected this.


While there's no excuse for the waiter explaining the "up" charge in a
surly manner, what would have infuriated me is that he was wrong or
lying. You DON'T get more booze when the drink is served neat, or you
shouldn't.


I have a funny personal take on this. I have little tolerance for
alcohol, but I enjoy going out for drinks with friends (more so in my
younger days, but the principle still applies). If I ordered scotch and
soda or any mixed drink on ice, I could never drink it before the ice
melted and the soda went flat, but if I tried to keep up with as much as
my friends were drinking, I'd get way too drunk. My date would want to
buy me another drink. Possibly he wanted to get me drunk. I can't keep
up and keep my head at the same time. The solution has always been to
order a shot of good scotch or cognac neat. That way I could sip at the
one drink all night. No one in his right mind would want to get me
drunk on the most expensive liquor in the house, but my all-night bill
was reasonable as I only ever had that one single drink.


--Lia

  #77 (permalink)   Report Post  
Julia Altshuler
 
Posts: n/a
Default

sf wrote:
> On Wed, 13 Oct 2004 13:40:47 GMT, Julia Altshuler
> > wrote:
>
>
>> We're still in the
>> market for a used car.

>
>
> Try Craig's list.



Thanks, I'll check in out. The funny thing is that we can afford to
drag our feet. My job is walking distance from home (a healthy 40-50
minute walk as exercise). Jim works from home. We can manage with one
car as long as the weather stays this nice.

--Lia

  #78 (permalink)   Report Post  
Peter Aitken
 
Posts: n/a
Default

"baker" > wrote in message
...
> sf > wrote in news:jb2sm0p0h39p8duh1892dipfc028759fkh@
> 4ax.com:
>
> > On Wed, 13 Oct 2004 12:13:20 GMT, baker >
> > wrote:
> >
> >> They chose to work there.

> >
> > Said like a holier than thou person with job choice.

>
> Did you choose the jobs you've had, or were they chosen for you?
>


For a lot of people, job choice consists of chosing between McDonalds and
Burger King. It's easy to say that they should "get an education and better
themselves" and many do, but others do not have the chance. It's also
undeniably true that many people simnply don't have the smarts or the
ambition to do so, but that's no reason why they should be sentenced to
living in poverty their whole lives. Anyone who is willing to work and play
by the rules should be able to make a decent life for themselves and their
family. A country that can afford to pay executives tens of millions a year
can surely afford a little more at the other end of the scale.


--
Peter Aitken

Remove the crap from my email address before using.


  #79 (permalink)   Report Post  
The Ranger
 
Posts: n/a
Default

On Wed, 13 Oct 2004 10:42:15 -0400, "Saerah"
> wrote:
> The Ranger wrote in message ...
> > On Wed, 13 Oct 2004 12:53:19 GMT, "Jack Schidt®" > wrote:
> > > My remark wasn't in support of tipping a counterperson
> > > but rather a response to the way $7 an hour was
> > > presented as a kingly sum of money.
> > >

> > But it _is_ a nice wage, commensurate with the
> > level of work required and (usually) the level of
> > education said grunt has attained.
> >

> i know quite a few people with college degrees who
> are working in retail, making not much more.


I did, too; right out of college. The same numbers were recruited
for insurance sales, too; those companies would only _look_ at
applicants with university degrees. In a buyer's market, the
employer decides what he will, or will not, hire and the minimum
requirements from said applicants.

> > Graveyard and <Parentitis Flare-up on the other
> > early-am shift title> get paid slightly more because
> > of the hours needed but US$7.00 for simple counter
> > help is quite high. Especially with today's cash registers;
> > scan the item (or punch a specific key), punch in the
> > amount tendered, and give back the correct change
> > stated on the display. How much effort is required
> > from that? Certainly not a BS in EE... You have to be
> > able to breath or smile, usually not both simultaneously;
> > that's a bonus but you don't pay extra for that.
> >

> It's not a living wage. whats the point of paying people
> at all if they can't live on what you pay them?


That is _not_ the employer's problem. There are alternatives
available, whether _you_ like them or not.

The Ranger
  #80 (permalink)   Report Post  
The Ranger
 
Posts: n/a
Default

On Thu, 14 Oct 2004 05:07:25 GMT, sf > wrote:
> On Wed, 13 Oct 2004 12:13:20 GMT, baker > wrote:
> > They chose to work there.
> >

> Said like a holier than thou person with job choice.


Everybody has choices...

The Ranger
Reply
Thread Tools Search this Thread
Search this Thread:

Advanced Search
Display Modes

Posting Rules

Smilies are On
[IMG] code is On
HTML code is Off
Trackbacks are On
Pingbacks are On
Refbacks are On


Similar Threads
Thread Thread Starter Forum Replies Last Post
Tipping at the bar asdf Beer 19 26-11-2006 07:34 AM
Tipping my be out???? Richard Neidich Wine 27 22-09-2005 04:04 AM
Tipping - was Tipping on Wine Dick R. Wine 21 26-08-2004 04:05 AM
Tipping limey General Cooking 5 09-03-2004 08:30 AM
? about tipping JANIC412 General Cooking 5 17-10-2003 11:47 AM


All times are GMT +1. The time now is 10:41 PM.

Powered by vBulletin® Copyright ©2000 - 2025, Jelsoft Enterprises Ltd.
Copyright ©2004-2025 FoodBanter.com.
The comments are property of their posters.
 

About Us

"It's about Food and drink"