On Nov 18, 10:06*am, "Julie Bove" > wrote:
> "Dave Smith" > wrote in message
>
> .com...
>
> > On 18/11/2011 2:43 AM, Julie Bove wrote:
>
> >>> I would believe it. Have you not been following her Poor Julie posts. No
> >>> flour, no pans, husband buys his own meals in a restaurants..... without
> >>> her.... she takes her daughter to restaurants even though the kid
> >>> behaves
> >>> so badly, insulting and abusing her..... but she is still motivated to
> >>> post 50 *messages a day in cooking news group.
>
> >> WTF? *Now you're making stuff up.
>
> > What part did I make up. Those are all things that you have told us....
> > though your stories tend to evolve.
>
> My husband buys his own meals in restaurants? *Where or when did I say that?
> I didn't! *And I posted one thing about my daughter a long time ago but you
> just latched onto that and ran with it.

"It freaking drives me nuts when my husband calls while I am making
dinner or
just after I have made it to tell me that he won't be home for
dinner. Of
course if he had to work late, I wouldn't be upset. But that's never
the
case. He just decides to go somewhere else on a whim. That leaves me
with
a portion of food that may or may not be eaten on another day. And
most
likely not. Sometimes he does this several days in a row and then he
blames
me for cooking too much food!"

"That would never work. If he is home, he wants his food
immediately. And
that wouldn't stop him from leaving to go elsewhere to eat."

"Yes. It has gotten to the point where I don't like dining with her.
Everything I do while eating is wrong. I am holding the fork wrong.
Inserting the fork in my mouth wrong. Taking too large of a bite. Or
too
small of a bite. Or a misshapen bite. Or too much salsa on my chip.
Or
not enough. Or the chip was too large. Or too small. Or the wrong
shape.
Or I am holding my mouth wrong. Or my eyes are looking at the wrong
thing.
Or there is something wrong with my hair. Or my clothes.

She rolls her eyes. Slaps the table or pounds the table waaaaay too
loudly.
Kicks me in the shins. Throws stuff in my food. Takes my food always
from
me. And shouts, "Motherrrrrrrrrrr!" repeatedly to the point where the
other
diners turn and stare. And then she says they are staring at me.


Of course she doesn't do this at home. Only when we are out
somewhere.


And just think... I will have a teenager soon. Oh the joy! "

On 18/11/2011 10:06 AM, Julie Bove wrote:

>>>> so badly, insulting and abusing her..... but she is still motivated to
>>>> post 50 messages a day in cooking news group.
>>>
>>> WTF? Now you're making stuff up.
>>
>> What part did I make up. Those are all things that you have told us....
>> though your stories tend to evolve.
>
> My husband buys his own meals in restaurants? Where or when did I say that?

It was about a month or two ago. You were complaining that you never
know what time he is going to be home and that he often grabs something
to eat on the way.


> I didn't! And I posted one thing about my daughter a long time ago but you
> just latched onto that and ran with it.

Of course. You were complaining that your daughter behaved so badly in
the restaurant, that she was so rude and insulting to you that you were
tempted to walk out and leave here there alone. That left the normal
people here wondering why you would even take a kid into a restaurant
when it acts so inappropriately... but surprise surprise, you had a
reason for that..... IIRC is was because dance lessons cut short your
time, though you later revealed that she hasn`t been dancing for some
time.

On 18/11/2011 10:29 AM, BillyZoom wrote:
> On Nov 18, 10:06 am, "Julie > wrote:
>> "Dave > wrote in message
>>
>> .com...
>>
>>> On 18/11/2011 2:43 AM, Julie Bove wrote:
>>
>>>>> I would believe it. Have you not been following her Poor Julie posts. No
>>>>> flour, no pans, husband buys his own meals in a restaurants..... without
>>>>> her.... she takes her daughter to restaurants even though the kid
>>>>> behaves
>>>>> so badly, insulting and abusing her..... but she is still motivated to
>>>>> post 50 messages a day in cooking news group.
>>
>>>> WTF? Now you're making stuff up.
>>
>>> What part did I make up. Those are all things that you have told us....
>>> though your stories tend to evolve.
>>
>> My husband buys his own meals in restaurants? Where or when did I say that?
>> I didn't! And I posted one thing about my daughter a long time ago but you
>> just latched onto that and ran with it.
>
> "It freaking drives me nuts when my husband calls while I am making
> dinner or
> just after I have made it to tell me that he won't be home for
> dinner. Of
> course if he had to work late, I wouldn't be upset. But that's never
> the
> case. He just decides to go somewhere else on a whim. That leaves me
> with
> a portion of food that may or may not be eaten on another day. And
> most
> likely not. Sometimes he does this several days in a row and then he
> blames
> me for cooking too much food!"
>
> "That would never work. If he is home, he wants his food
> immediately. And
> that wouldn't stop him from leaving to go elsewhere to eat."

Thanks for doing the leg work on that one. I didn`t think that I was
imagining that she had said that, but I was not going to go back through
several thousands of her posts to prove that she had indeed posted that.
She is not the first person in use net to have accused me of lying
about something that they had said when they did in fast say it.



>
> "Yes. It has gotten to the point where I don't like dining with her.
> Everything I do while eating is wrong. I am holding the fork wrong.
> Inserting the fork in my mouth wrong. Taking too large of a bite. Or
> too
> small of a bite. Or a misshapen bite. Or too much salsa on my chip.
> Or
> not enough. Or the chip was too large. Or too small. Or the wrong
> shape.
> Or I am holding my mouth wrong. Or my eyes are looking at the wrong
> thing.
> Or there is something wrong with my hair. Or my clothes.
>
> She rolls her eyes. Slaps the table or pounds the table waaaaay too
> loudly.
> Kicks me in the shins. Throws stuff in my food. Takes my food always
> from
> me. And shouts, "Motherrrrrrrrrrr!" repeatedly to the point where the
> other
> diners turn and stare. And then she says they are staring at me.
>


Yep. Can you imagine what a joy it is to be in a restaurant with a kid
like that, or worse, to be in a restaurant where someone else`s kid is
acting like that. If my son acted like that in a restaurant it would be
a long time before he ever saw the inside of one again.


But..... apparently the restaurant meals were necessary because of time
restraints due to her schedule with school and dance lessons, though it
was later revealed that the princess has not been dancing for a while
due to an injury.


>
> Of course she doesn't do this at home. Only when we are out
> somewhere.
>
>
> And just think... I will have a teenager soon. Oh the joy! "

"Dave Smith" > wrote in message
om...
> On 18/11/2011 10:29 AM, BillyZoom wrote:
>> On Nov 18, 10:06 am, "Julie > wrote:
>>> "Dave > wrote in message
>>>
>>> .com...
>>>
>>>> On 18/11/2011 2:43 AM, Julie Bove wrote:
>>>
>>>>>> I would believe it. Have you not been following her Poor Julie posts.
>>>>>> No
>>>>>> flour, no pans, husband buys his own meals in a restaurants.....
>>>>>> without
>>>>>> her.... she takes her daughter to restaurants even though the kid
>>>>>> behaves
>>>>>> so badly, insulting and abusing her..... but she is still motivated
>>>>>> to
>>>>>> post 50 messages a day in cooking news group.
>>>
>>>>> WTF? Now you're making stuff up.
>>>
>>>> What part did I make up. Those are all things that you have told us....
>>>> though your stories tend to evolve.
>>>
>>> My husband buys his own meals in restaurants? Where or when did I say
>>> that?
>>> I didn't! And I posted one thing about my daughter a long time ago but
>>> you
>>> just latched onto that and ran with it.
>>
>> "It freaking drives me nuts when my husband calls while I am making
>> dinner or
>> just after I have made it to tell me that he won't be home for
>> dinner. Of
>> course if he had to work late, I wouldn't be upset. But that's never
>> the
>> case. He just decides to go somewhere else on a whim. That leaves me
>> with
>> a portion of food that may or may not be eaten on another day. And
>> most
>> likely not. Sometimes he does this several days in a row and then he
>> blames
>> me for cooking too much food!"
>>
>> "That would never work. If he is home, he wants his food
>> immediately. And
>> that wouldn't stop him from leaving to go elsewhere to eat."
>
> Thanks for doing the leg work on that one. I didn`t think that I was
> imagining that she had said that, but I was not going to go back through
> several thousands of her posts to prove that she had indeed posted that.
> She is not the first person in use net to have accused me of lying
> about something that they had said when they did in fast say it.


How's this for legwork:

http://www.medkb.com/Uwe/Forum.aspx/...843/Julie-Bove

Evelyn - 18 Jan 2009 14:41 GMT
> To me they are looking at it all wrong.

In the past I seldom replied to Julie, but occasionally she posted something
I felt I could offer something towards. She ALWAYS rejects out of hand,
whatever advice anyone offers. I have never seen her respond favorably to
any persons advice or even offer thanks for caring to write. It is always
the same thing, a rejection with a complicated explanation of her self
imposed lifestyle and food restrictions.

That made me realize that it is some kind of a game with her; a game where
she takes power by rejecting others who reach out to her. I simply
unmasked the game by calling her on the anomalies in her own postings. So
now I am a bad guy? I don't think so.

All this came about on alt.food.diabetic, which is a food newsgroup. She
said certain things, and I challenged her on the comments she'd made, using
her own words and her own admissions to point out that there was no sense in
what she said. This morning she denies it all, but it is there for all to
see.

I don't believe it is supportive or helping, to let those things go
unchallenged. You gave a prime example in "the sky is blue" analogy.
When I challenged her, she responded saying that she HAS no philosophy.....
which would even more, indicate a game-playing scenario.

For people with neurotic food issues, it is all about controlling their
world, and all about manipulating people. And then getting mad when people
don't want to be manipulated.

I will probably not reply to Julie again, unless she lies about what
happened again.....

On Nov 18, 2:45*pm, "Pico Rico" > wrote:
> "Dave Smith" > wrote in message
>
> om...
>
>
>
>
>
> > On 18/11/2011 10:29 AM, BillyZoom wrote:
> >> On Nov 18, 10:06 am, "Julie > *wrote:
> >>> "Dave > *wrote in message
>
> ing.com...
>
> >>>> On 18/11/2011 2:43 AM, Julie Bove wrote:
>
> >>>>>> I would believe it. Have you not been following her Poor Julie posts.
> >>>>>> No
> >>>>>> flour, no pans, husband buys his own meals in a restaurants.....
> >>>>>> without
> >>>>>> her.... she takes her daughter to restaurants even though the kid
> >>>>>> behaves
> >>>>>> so badly, insulting and abusing her..... but she is still motivated
> >>>>>> to
> >>>>>> post 50 *messages a day in cooking news group.
>
> >>>>> WTF? *Now you're making stuff up.
>
> >>>> What part did I make up. Those are all things that you have told us.....
> >>>> though your stories tend to evolve.
>
> >>> My husband buys his own meals in restaurants? *Where or when did I say
> >>> that?
> >>> I didn't! *And I posted one thing about my daughter a long time ago but
> >>> you
> >>> just latched onto that and ran with it.
>
> >> "It freaking drives me nuts when my husband calls while I am making
> >> dinner or
> >> just after I have made it to tell me that he won't be home for
> >> dinner. *Of
> >> course if he had to work late, I wouldn't be upset. *But that's never
> >> the
> >> case. *He just decides to go somewhere else on a whim. *That leaves me
> >> with
> >> a portion of food that may or may not be eaten on another day. *And
> >> most
> >> likely not. *Sometimes he does this several days in a row and then he
> >> blames
> >> me for cooking too much food!"
>
> >> "That would never work. *If he is home, he wants his food
> >> immediately. *And
> >> that wouldn't stop him from leaving to go elsewhere to eat."
>
> > Thanks for doing the leg work on that one. I didn`t think that I was
> > imagining that she had said that, but I was not going to go back through
> > several thousands of her posts to prove that she had indeed posted that..
> > *She is not the first person in use net to have accused me of lying
> > about something that they had said *when they did in fast say it.
>
> How's this for legwork:
>
> http://www.medkb.com/Uwe/Forum.aspx/...843/Julie-Bove
>
> *Evelyn - 18 Jan 2009 14:41 GMT
>
> > To me they are looking at it all wrong.
>
> In the past I seldom replied to Julie, but occasionally she posted something
> I felt I could offer something towards. *She ALWAYS rejects out of hand,
> whatever advice anyone offers. * I have never seen her respond favorably to
> any persons advice or even offer thanks for caring to write. * It is always
> the same thing, a rejection with a complicated explanation of her self
> imposed lifestyle and food restrictions.
>
> That made me realize that it is some kind of a game with her; a game where
> she takes power by rejecting others who reach out to her. * I simply
> unmasked the game by calling her on the anomalies in her own postings. *So
> now I am a bad guy? * I don't think so.
>
> All this came about on alt.food.diabetic, which is a food newsgroup. *She
> said certain things, and I challenged her on the comments she'd made, using
> her own words and her own admissions to point out that there was no sense in
> what she said. * *This morning she denies it all, but it is there for all to
> see.
>
> I don't believe it is supportive or helping, to let those things go
> unchallenged. * You gave a prime example in *"the sky is blue" analogy.
> When I challenged her, she responded saying that she HAS no philosophy......
> which would even more, indicate a game-playing scenario.
>
> For people with neurotic food issues, it is all about controlling their
> world, and all about manipulating people. * And then getting mad when people
> don't want to be manipulated.
>
> I will probably not reply to Julie again, unless she lies about what
> happened again.....- Hide quoted text -
>
> - Show quoted text -

Classic!

"BillyZoom" > wrote in message
...
On Nov 18, 10:06 am, "Julie Bove" > wrote:
> "Dave Smith" > wrote in message
>
> .com...
>
> > On 18/11/2011 2:43 AM, Julie Bove wrote:
>
> >>> I would believe it. Have you not been following her Poor Julie posts.
> >>> No
> >>> flour, no pans, husband buys his own meals in a restaurants.....
> >>> without
> >>> her.... she takes her daughter to restaurants even though the kid
> >>> behaves
> >>> so badly, insulting and abusing her..... but she is still motivated to
> >>> post 50 messages a day in cooking news group.
>
> >> WTF? Now you're making stuff up.
>
> > What part did I make up. Those are all things that you have told us....
> > though your stories tend to evolve.
>
> My husband buys his own meals in restaurants? Where or when did I say
> that?
> I didn't! And I posted one thing about my daughter a long time ago but you
> just latched onto that and ran with it.

"It freaking drives me nuts when my husband calls while I am making
dinner or
just after I have made it to tell me that he won't be home for
dinner. Of
course if he had to work late, I wouldn't be upset. But that's never
the
case. He just decides to go somewhere else on a whim. That leaves me
with
a portion of food that may or may not be eaten on another day. And
most
likely not. Sometimes he does this several days in a row and then he
blames
me for cooking too much food!"

"That would never work. If he is home, he wants his food
immediately. And
that wouldn't stop him from leaving to go elsewhere to eat."

"Yes. It has gotten to the point where I don't like dining with her.
Everything I do while eating is wrong. I am holding the fork wrong.
Inserting the fork in my mouth wrong. Taking too large of a bite. Or
too
small of a bite. Or a misshapen bite. Or too much salsa on my chip.
Or
not enough. Or the chip was too large. Or too small. Or the wrong
shape.
Or I am holding my mouth wrong. Or my eyes are looking at the wrong
thing.
Or there is something wrong with my hair. Or my clothes.

She rolls her eyes. Slaps the table or pounds the table waaaaay too
loudly.
Kicks me in the shins. Throws stuff in my food. Takes my food always
from
me. And shouts, "Motherrrrrrrrrrr!" repeatedly to the point where the
other
diners turn and stare. And then she says they are staring at me.


Of course she doesn't do this at home. Only when we are out
somewhere.


And just think... I will have a teenager soon. Oh the joy! "


I said "go somewhere else". I didn't say go to a restaurant. And my
daughter did that once. And ya'll are latching onto those things and not
letting them go. Frankly I find it weird, I mean very weird that you know
and remember so much about my life. Why is that? You say that you hate me.
Now frankly I don't hate anyone. But there are people I dislike. And I sure
don't keep tabs on their lives!

"Dave Smith" > wrote in message
om...
> On 18/11/2011 10:29 AM, BillyZoom wrote:
>> On Nov 18, 10:06 am, "Julie > wrote:
>>> "Dave > wrote in message
>>>
>>> .com...
>>>
>>>> On 18/11/2011 2:43 AM, Julie Bove wrote:
>>>
>>>>>> I would believe it. Have you not been following her Poor Julie posts.
>>>>>> No
>>>>>> flour, no pans, husband buys his own meals in a restaurants.....
>>>>>> without
>>>>>> her.... she takes her daughter to restaurants even though the kid
>>>>>> behaves
>>>>>> so badly, insulting and abusing her..... but she is still motivated
>>>>>> to
>>>>>> post 50 messages a day in cooking news group.
>>>
>>>>> WTF? Now you're making stuff up.
>>>
>>>> What part did I make up. Those are all things that you have told us....
>>>> though your stories tend to evolve.
>>>
>>> My husband buys his own meals in restaurants? Where or when did I say
>>> that?
>>> I didn't! And I posted one thing about my daughter a long time ago but
>>> you
>>> just latched onto that and ran with it.
>>
>> "It freaking drives me nuts when my husband calls while I am making
>> dinner or
>> just after I have made it to tell me that he won't be home for
>> dinner. Of
>> course if he had to work late, I wouldn't be upset. But that's never
>> the
>> case. He just decides to go somewhere else on a whim. That leaves me
>> with
>> a portion of food that may or may not be eaten on another day. And
>> most
>> likely not. Sometimes he does this several days in a row and then he
>> blames
>> me for cooking too much food!"
>>
>> "That would never work. If he is home, he wants his food
>> immediately. And
>> that wouldn't stop him from leaving to go elsewhere to eat."
>
> Thanks for doing the leg work on that one. I didn`t think that I was
> imagining that she had said that, but I was not going to go back through
> several thousands of her posts to prove that she had indeed posted that.
> She is not the first person in use net to have accused me of lying about
> something that they had said when they did in fast say it.
>
>
>
>>
>> "Yes. It has gotten to the point where I don't like dining with her.
>> Everything I do while eating is wrong. I am holding the fork wrong.
>> Inserting the fork in my mouth wrong. Taking too large of a bite. Or
>> too
>> small of a bite. Or a misshapen bite. Or too much salsa on my chip.
>> Or
>> not enough. Or the chip was too large. Or too small. Or the wrong
>> shape.
>> Or I am holding my mouth wrong. Or my eyes are looking at the wrong
>> thing.
>> Or there is something wrong with my hair. Or my clothes.
>>
>> She rolls her eyes. Slaps the table or pounds the table waaaaay too
>> loudly.
>> Kicks me in the shins. Throws stuff in my food. Takes my food always
>> from
>> me. And shouts, "Motherrrrrrrrrrr!" repeatedly to the point where the
>> other
>> diners turn and stare. And then she says they are staring at me.
>>
>
>
> Yep. Can you imagine what a joy it is to be in a restaurant with a kid
> like that, or worse, to be in a restaurant where someone else`s kid is
> acting like that. If my son acted like that in a restaurant it would be a
> long time before he ever saw the inside of one again.
>
>
> But..... apparently the restaurant meals were necessary because of time
> restraints due to her schedule with school and dance lessons, though it
> was later revealed that the princess has not been dancing for a while due
> to an injury.

BS. That was not in the same time frame.

>> Of course she doesn't do this at home. Only when we are out
>> somewhere.
>>
>>
>> And just think... I will have a teenager soon. Oh the joy! "

And I do have a teenager. So? Don't forget I am in contact with many other
kids her age. And her behavior is no different than that of most other kids
her age.

Apparently ya'll have angels in your house. *shrugs* Whatever.

"Pico Rico" > wrote in message
...
>
> "Dave Smith" > wrote in message
> om...
>> On 18/11/2011 10:29 AM, BillyZoom wrote:
>>> On Nov 18, 10:06 am, "Julie > wrote:
>>>> "Dave > wrote in message
>>>>
>>>> .com...
>>>>
>>>>> On 18/11/2011 2:43 AM, Julie Bove wrote:
>>>>
>>>>>>> I would believe it. Have you not been following her Poor Julie
>>>>>>> posts.
>>>>>>> No
>>>>>>> flour, no pans, husband buys his own meals in a restaurants.....
>>>>>>> without
>>>>>>> her.... she takes her daughter to restaurants even though the kid
>>>>>>> behaves
>>>>>>> so badly, insulting and abusing her..... but she is still motivated
>>>>>>> to
>>>>>>> post 50 messages a day in cooking news group.
>>>>
>>>>>> WTF? Now you're making stuff up.
>>>>
>>>>> What part did I make up. Those are all things that you have told
>>>>> us....
>>>>> though your stories tend to evolve.
>>>>
>>>> My husband buys his own meals in restaurants? Where or when did I say
>>>> that?
>>>> I didn't! And I posted one thing about my daughter a long time ago but
>>>> you
>>>> just latched onto that and ran with it.
>>>
>>> "It freaking drives me nuts when my husband calls while I am making
>>> dinner or
>>> just after I have made it to tell me that he won't be home for
>>> dinner. Of
>>> course if he had to work late, I wouldn't be upset. But that's never
>>> the
>>> case. He just decides to go somewhere else on a whim. That leaves me
>>> with
>>> a portion of food that may or may not be eaten on another day. And
>>> most
>>> likely not. Sometimes he does this several days in a row and then he
>>> blames
>>> me for cooking too much food!"
>>>
>>> "That would never work. If he is home, he wants his food
>>> immediately. And
>>> that wouldn't stop him from leaving to go elsewhere to eat."
>>
>> Thanks for doing the leg work on that one. I didn`t think that I was
>> imagining that she had said that, but I was not going to go back through
>> several thousands of her posts to prove that she had indeed posted that.
>> She is not the first person in use net to have accused me of lying
>> about something that they had said when they did in fast say it.
>
>
> How's this for legwork:
>
> http://www.medkb.com/Uwe/Forum.aspx/...843/Julie-Bove
>
> Evelyn - 18 Jan 2009 14:41 GMT
>> To me they are looking at it all wrong.
>
> In the past I seldom replied to Julie, but occasionally she posted
> something
> I felt I could offer something towards. She ALWAYS rejects out of hand,
> whatever advice anyone offers. I have never seen her respond favorably
> to
> any persons advice or even offer thanks for caring to write. It is
> always
> the same thing, a rejection with a complicated explanation of her self
> imposed lifestyle and food restrictions.
>
> That made me realize that it is some kind of a game with her; a game where
> she takes power by rejecting others who reach out to her. I simply
> unmasked the game by calling her on the anomalies in her own postings. So
> now I am a bad guy? I don't think so.
>
> All this came about on alt.food.diabetic, which is a food newsgroup. She
> said certain things, and I challenged her on the comments she'd made,
> using
> her own words and her own admissions to point out that there was no sense
> in
> what she said. This morning she denies it all, but it is there for all
> to
> see.
>
> I don't believe it is supportive or helping, to let those things go
> unchallenged. You gave a prime example in "the sky is blue" analogy.
> When I challenged her, she responded saying that she HAS no
> philosophy.....
> which would even more, indicate a game-playing scenario.
>
> For people with neurotic food issues, it is all about controlling their
> world, and all about manipulating people. And then getting mad when
> people
> don't want to be manipulated.
>
> I will probably not reply to Julie again, unless she lies about what
> happened again.....

I don't even know what you're talking about. But if you don't reply to me
it will probably make me happy!

"Dave Smith" > wrote in message
om...
> On 18/11/2011 10:06 AM, Julie Bove wrote:
>
>>>>> so badly, insulting and abusing her..... but she is still motivated to
>>>>> post 50 messages a day in cooking news group.
>>>>
>>>> WTF? Now you're making stuff up.
>>>
>>> What part did I make up. Those are all things that you have told us....
>>> though your stories tend to evolve.
>>
>> My husband buys his own meals in restaurants? Where or when did I say
>> that?
>
> It was about a month or two ago. You were complaining that you never know
> what time he is going to be home and that he often grabs something to eat
> on the way.

Well those certainly were not my words! Because that isn't what he does!
>
>
>> I didn't! And I posted one thing about my daughter a long time ago but
>> you
>> just latched onto that and ran with it.
>
> Of course. You were complaining that your daughter behaved so badly in the
> restaurant, that she was so rude and insulting to you that you were
> tempted to walk out and leave here there alone. That left the normal
> people here wondering why you would even take a kid into a restaurant when
> it acts so inappropriately... but surprise surprise, you had a reason for
> that..... IIRC is was because dance lessons cut short your time, though
> you later revealed that she hasn`t been dancing for some time.

Yeah, so?

And later? Yeah! Later. We learned of her injury in June.

Why don't you take up some other hobby other than trying to keep track of my
life. Cuz you're doing a **** poor job of it.

On 11/18/2011 4:17 PM, Julie Bove wrote:
> Why don't you take up some other hobby other than trying to keep track of my
> life. Cuz you're doing a **** poor job of it.


If you don't want people to talk about your private life, why do you
post about it here in a cooking group?

When you hang your dirty laundry out in public, don't act surprised when
people talk about it.

George L

On Nov 18, 5:12*pm, "Julie Bove" > wrote:
> "BillyZoom" > wrote in message
>
> ...
> On Nov 18, 10:06 am, "Julie Bove" > wrote:
>
>
>
>
>
> > "Dave Smith" > wrote in message
>
> g.com...
>
> > > On 18/11/2011 2:43 AM, Julie Bove wrote:
>
> > >>> I would believe it. Have you not been following her Poor Julie posts.
> > >>> No
> > >>> flour, no pans, husband buys his own meals in a restaurants.....
> > >>> without
> > >>> her.... she takes her daughter to restaurants even though the kid
> > >>> behaves
> > >>> so badly, insulting and abusing her..... but she is still motivated to
> > >>> post 50 messages a day in cooking news group.
>
> > >> WTF? Now you're making stuff up.
>
> > > What part did I make up. Those are all things that you have told us.....
> > > though your stories tend to evolve.
>
> > My husband buys his own meals in restaurants? Where or when did I say
> > that?
> > I didn't! And I posted one thing about my daughter a long time ago but you
> > just latched onto that and ran with it.
>
> "It freaking drives me nuts when my husband calls while I am making
> dinner or
> just after I have made it to tell me that he won't be home for
> dinner. *Of
> course if he had to work late, I wouldn't be upset. *But that's never
> the
> case. *He just decides to go somewhere else on a whim. *That leaves me
> with
> a portion of food that may or may not be eaten on another day. *And
> most
> likely not. *Sometimes he does this several days in a row and then he
> blames
> me for cooking too much food!"
>
> "That would never work. *If he is home, he wants his food
> immediately. *And
> that wouldn't stop him from leaving to go elsewhere to eat."
>
> "Yes. *It has gotten to the point where I don't like dining with her.
> Everything I do while eating is wrong. *I am holding the fork wrong.
> Inserting the fork in my mouth wrong. *Taking too large of a bite. *Or
> too
> small of a bite. *Or a misshapen bite. *Or too much salsa on my chip.
> Or
> not enough. *Or the chip was too large. *Or too small. *Or the wrong
> shape.
> Or I am holding my mouth wrong. *Or my eyes are looking at the wrong
> thing.
> Or there is something wrong with my hair. *Or my clothes.
>
> She rolls her eyes. *Slaps the table or pounds the table waaaaay too
> loudly.
> Kicks me in the shins. *Throws stuff in my food. *Takes my food always
> from
> me. *And shouts, "Motherrrrrrrrrrr!" repeatedly to the point where the
> other
> diners turn and stare. *And then she says they are staring at me.
>
> Of course she doesn't do this at home. *Only when we are out
> somewhere.
>
> And just think... *I will have a teenager soon. *Oh the joy! "
>
> I said "go somewhere else". *I didn't say go to a restaurant. *And my
> daughter did that once. *And ya'll are latching onto those things and not
> letting them go. *Frankly I find it weird, I mean very weird that you know
> and remember so much about my life. *Why is that? *You say that you hate me.
> Now frankly I don't hate anyone. *But there are people I dislike. And I sure
> don't keep tabs on their lives!- Hide quoted text -
>
> - Show quoted text -

So you're saying he just randomly shows up somewhere to eat for free?
Girlfriend? BOYfriend?

"George Leppla" > wrote in message
...
> On 11/18/2011 4:17 PM, Julie Bove wrote:
>> Why don't you take up some other hobby other than trying to keep track of
>> my
>> life. Cuz you're doing a **** poor job of it.
>
>
> If you don't want people to talk about your private life, why do you post
> about it here in a cooking group?
>
> When you hang your dirty laundry out in public, don't act surprised when
> people talk about it.

Why shouldn't I be surprised? I just can't understand taking something a
person posted something like a year ago and still going on about it that
much later. See... When something happens to me, it happens and then it's
usually over. But it's never over for a select few here. They just keep
posting and posting about it. I should think they would have better things
to do. But apparently not. These people claim they can't remember my food
allergies. And I wouldn't expect them to. But they can remember other
facts of my life? That's really pretty creepy. And sad.

"Julie Bove" > wrote in message
...
>
> I don't even know what you're talking about. But if you don't reply to me
> it will probably make me happy!

One should always be wary of the clown who claims
not to want others to laugh at her...

pavane

On Nov 18, 5:42*pm, "Julie Bove" > wrote:
> "George Leppla" > wrote in message
>
> ...
>
> > On 11/18/2011 4:17 PM, Julie Bove wrote:
> >> Why don't you take up some other hobby other than trying to keep track of
> >> my
> >> life. *Cuz you're doing a **** poor job of it.
>
> > If you don't want people to talk about your private life, why do you post
> > about it here in a cooking group?
>
> > When you hang your dirty laundry out in public, don't act surprised when
> > people talk about it.
>
> Why shouldn't I be surprised? *I just can't understand taking something a
> person posted something like a year ago and still going on about it that
> much later. *See... *When something happens to me, it happens and then it's
> usually over. *But it's never over for a select few here. *They just keep
> posting and posting about it. *I should think they would have better things
> to do. *But apparently not. *These people claim they can't remember my food
> allergies. *And I wouldn't expect them to. *But they can remember other
> facts of my life? *That's really pretty creepy. *And sad.

I think we remember those things because they're creepy and sad. And
people mostly only bring them up when you say something contradictory
or deny you ever said something. That's the problem with making shit
up for attention. It's hard to remember your lies.

Also, when someone asks for more details, you're bound to slip up
eventually and give yourself away. Like, for instance, if a person
were to say he had a chain pizza with custom ingredients on it that
was delivered frozen in the MIDDLE. That would be a lie. When pressed,
that person would likely eventually say something that glaringly gave
him away as a LIAR.

On 18/11/2011 5:12 PM, Julie Bove wrote:

> "It freaking drives me nuts when my husband calls while I am making
> dinner or
> just after I have made it to tell me that he won't be home for
> dinner. Of
> course if he had to work late, I wouldn't be upset. But that's never
> the
> case. He just decides to go somewhere else on a whim. That leaves me
> with
> a portion of food that may or may not be eaten on another day. And
> most
> likely not. Sometimes he does this several days in a row and then he
> blames
> me for cooking too much food!"
>
> "That would never work. If he is home, he wants his food
> immediately. And
> that wouldn't stop him from leaving to go elsewhere to eat."
>
> "Yes. It has gotten to the point where I don't like dining with her.
> Everything I do while eating is wrong. I am holding the fork wrong.
> Inserting the fork in my mouth wrong. Taking too large of a bite. Or
> too
> small of a bite. Or a misshapen bite. Or too much salsa on my chip.
> Or
> not enough. Or the chip was too large. Or too small. Or the wrong
> shape.
> Or I am holding my mouth wrong. Or my eyes are looking at the wrong
> thing.
> Or there is something wrong with my hair. Or my clothes.
>
> She rolls her eyes. Slaps the table or pounds the table waaaaay too
> loudly.
> Kicks me in the shins. Throws stuff in my food. Takes my food always
> from
> me. And shouts, "Motherrrrrrrrrrr!" repeatedly to the point where the
> other
> diners turn and stare. And then she says they are staring at me.
>
>
> Of course she doesn't do this at home. Only when we are out
> somewhere.
>
>
> And just think... I will have a teenager soon. Oh the joy! "
>
>
> I said "go somewhere else". I didn't say go to a restaurant. And my
> daughter did that once. And ya'll are latching onto those things and not
> letting them go. Frankly I find it weird, I mean very weird that you know
> and remember so much about my life. Why is that? You say that you hate me.
> Now frankly I don't hate anyone. But there are people I dislike. And I sure
> don't keep tabs on their lives!


Maybe the reason we remember so much is that the stories are so bizarre.

I don't remember reading anyone posting here that you hated. We have
referred to the dysfunction.

On 18/11/2011 5:14 PM, Julie Bove wrote:

>>
>> But..... apparently the restaurant meals were necessary because of time
>> restraints due to her schedule with school and dance lessons, though it
>> was later revealed that the princess has not been dancing for a while due
>> to an injury.
>
> BS. That was not in the same time frame.



Excuse the hell out of me for confusing the time lines on your stories.


>
>>> Of course she doesn't do this at home. Only when we are out
>>> somewhere.
>>>
>>>
>>> And just think... I will have a teenager soon. Oh the joy! "
>
> And I do have a teenager. So? Don't forget I am in contact with many other
> kids her age. And her behavior is no different than that of most other kids
> her age.

Her behaviour sure as hell is not like my son's was at that age. He
never had the MacDonald's experience with me because I don't do the fast
food thing. He came to real restaurants with me, and he behaved.



> Apparently ya'll have angels in your house. *shrugs* Whatever.
>



Yea yeah... whatever... the admonition of the idiots.

On 18/11/2011 5:15 PM, Julie Bove wrote:

>> For people with neurotic food issues, it is all about controlling their
>> world, and all about manipulating people. And then getting mad when
>> people
>> don't want to be manipulated.
>>
>> I will probably not reply to Julie again, unless she lies about what
>> happened again.....
>
> I don't even know what you're talking about. But if you don't reply to me
> it will probably make me happy!
>
>

Oh no it won't. You live for the attention. If you can't get a response
you will post something even more bizarre.

On 18/11/2011 5:17 PM, Julie Bove wrote:

>> Of course. You were complaining that your daughter behaved so badly in the
>> restaurant, that she was so rude and insulting to you that you were
>> tempted to walk out and leave here there alone. That left the normal
>> people here wondering why you would even take a kid into a restaurant when
>> it acts so inappropriately... but surprise surprise, you had a reason for
>> that..... IIRC is was because dance lessons cut short your time, though
>> you later revealed that she hasn`t been dancing for some time.
>
> Yeah, so?
>
> And later? Yeah! Later. We learned of her injury in June.
>
> Why don't you take up some other hobby other than trying to keep track of my
> life. Cuz you're doing a **** poor job of it.
>
>


Yeah. Right. I confess that it is difficult to keep up with the ever
changing story. You post something, and when people respond you start
altering the facts.

On 18/11/2011 5:42 PM, Julie Bove wrote:

>>
>> If you don't want people to talk about your private life, why do you post
>> about it here in a cooking group?
>>
>> When you hang your dirty laundry out in public, don't act surprised when
>> people talk about it.
>
> Why shouldn't I be surprised? I just can't understand taking something a
> person posted something like a year ago and still going on about it that
> much later. See... When something happens to me, it happens and then it's
> usually over. But it's never over for a select few here. They just keep
> posting and posting about it. I should think they would have better things
> to do. But apparently not. These people claim they can't remember my food
> allergies. And I wouldn't expect them to. But they can remember other
> facts of my life? That's really pretty creepy. And sad.
>
>

Excuse the hell out of us, but we have brains. When we read things we
tend to understand what we read and to remember some of it. When we
post things we may not remember every word that we post, but since they
are based on our experiences and on truth, then we have some
recollection. I suppose that we could follow your example and post
bizarre rubbish, and then when it meets criticism we can try to alter
the story to make it more palatable, or just deny that we ever said it.

"Dave Smith" > wrote in message
. com...
> On 18/11/2011 5:14 PM, Julie Bove wrote:
>
>>>
>>> But..... apparently the restaurant meals were necessary because of time
>>> restraints due to her schedule with school and dance lessons, though it
>>> was later revealed that the princess has not been dancing for a while
>>> due
>>> to an injury.
>>
>> BS. That was not in the same time frame.
>
>
>
> Excuse the hell out of me for confusing the time lines on your stories.
>
>
>>
>>>> Of course she doesn't do this at home. Only when we are out
>>>> somewhere.
>>>>
>>>>
>>>> And just think... I will have a teenager soon. Oh the joy! "
>>
>> And I do have a teenager. So? Don't forget I am in contact with many
>> other
>> kids her age. And her behavior is no different than that of most other
>> kids
>> her age.
>
> Her behaviour sure as hell is not like my son's was at that age. He never
> had the MacDonald's experience with me because I don't do the fast food
> thing. He came to real restaurants with me, and he behaved.
>
>
>
>> Apparently ya'll have angels in your house. *shrugs* Whatever.
>>
>
>
>
> Yea yeah... whatever... the admonition of the idiots.
>

"Dave Smith" > wrote in message
. com...
> On 18/11/2011 5:14 PM, Julie Bove wrote:
>
>>>
>>> But..... apparently the restaurant meals were necessary because of time
>>> restraints due to her schedule with school and dance lessons, though it
>>> was later revealed that the princess has not been dancing for a while
>>> due
>>> to an injury.
>>
>> BS. That was not in the same time frame.
>
>
>
> Excuse the hell out of me for confusing the time lines on your stories.
>
>
>>
>>>> Of course she doesn't do this at home. Only when we are out
>>>> somewhere.
>>>>
>>>>
>>>> And just think... I will have a teenager soon. Oh the joy! "
>>
>> And I do have a teenager. So? Don't forget I am in contact with many
>> other
>> kids her age. And her behavior is no different than that of most other
>> kids
>> her age.
>
> Her behaviour sure as hell is not like my son's was at that age. He never
> had the MacDonald's experience with me because I don't do the fast food
> thing. He came to real restaurants with me, and he behaved.

It's McDonalds. And I notice that you spell as though you are Canadian or
British. Maybe that's the difference.

>> Apparently ya'll have angels in your house. *shrugs* Whatever.
>>
>
>
>
> Yea yeah... whatever... the admonition of the idiots.

Uh huh.

"Dave Smith" > wrote in message
. com...
> On 18/11/2011 5:15 PM, Julie Bove wrote:
>
>>> For people with neurotic food issues, it is all about controlling their
>>> world, and all about manipulating people. And then getting mad when
>>> people
>>> don't want to be manipulated.
>>>
>>> I will probably not reply to Julie again, unless she lies about what
>>> happened again.....
>>
>> I don't even know what you're talking about. But if you don't reply to
>> me
>> it will probably make me happy!
>>
>>
>
> Oh no it won't. You live for the attention. If you can't get a response
> you will post something even more bizarre.

Riiiiiiiiiiiiiight.

"Dave Smith" > wrote in message
om...
> On 18/11/2011 5:17 PM, Julie Bove wrote:
>
>>> Of course. You were complaining that your daughter behaved so badly in
>>> the
>>> restaurant, that she was so rude and insulting to you that you were
>>> tempted to walk out and leave here there alone. That left the normal
>>> people here wondering why you would even take a kid into a restaurant
>>> when
>>> it acts so inappropriately... but surprise surprise, you had a reason
>>> for
>>> that..... IIRC is was because dance lessons cut short your time, though
>>> you later revealed that she hasn`t been dancing for some time.
>>
>> Yeah, so?
>>
>> And later? Yeah! Later. We learned of her injury in June.
>>
>> Why don't you take up some other hobby other than trying to keep track of
>> my
>> life. Cuz you're doing a **** poor job of it.
>>
>>
>
>
> Yeah. Right. I confess that it is difficult to keep up with the ever
> changing story. You post something, and when people respond you start
> altering the facts.

Riiiiiiiiiiiiiiight. You don't even know the facts. But then I wouldn't
expect you to.

"Dave Smith" > wrote in message
. com...
> On 18/11/2011 5:42 PM, Julie Bove wrote:
>
>>>
>>> If you don't want people to talk about your private life, why do you
>>> post
>>> about it here in a cooking group?
>>>
>>> When you hang your dirty laundry out in public, don't act surprised when
>>> people talk about it.
>>
>> Why shouldn't I be surprised? I just can't understand taking something a
>> person posted something like a year ago and still going on about it that
>> much later. See... When something happens to me, it happens and then
>> it's
>> usually over. But it's never over for a select few here. They just keep
>> posting and posting about it. I should think they would have better
>> things
>> to do. But apparently not. These people claim they can't remember my
>> food
>> allergies. And I wouldn't expect them to. But they can remember other
>> facts of my life? That's really pretty creepy. And sad.
>>
>>
>
> Excuse the hell out of us, but we have brains. When we read things we tend
> to understand what we read and to remember some of it. When we post
> things we may not remember every word that we post, but since they are
> based on our experiences and on truth, then we have some recollection. I
> suppose that we could follow your example and post bizarre rubbish, and
> then when it meets criticism we can try to alter the story to make it
> more palatable, or just deny that we ever said it.

Henceforth I am going to deny that I ever read one of her posts, or replied.

On 18/11/2011 6:27 PM, Julie Bove wrote:

>> Yeah. Right. I confess that it is difficult to keep up with the ever
>> changing story. You post something, and when people respond you start
>> altering the facts.
>
> Riiiiiiiiiiiiiiight. You don't even know the facts. But then I wouldn't
> expect you to.
>
>

Of course I don't know the facts. They keep changing.

"Dave Smith" > wrote in message
m...
> On 18/11/2011 6:27 PM, Julie Bove wrote:
>
>>> Yeah. Right. I confess that it is difficult to keep up with the ever
>>> changing story. You post something, and when people respond you start
>>> altering the facts.
>>
>> Riiiiiiiiiiiiiiight. You don't even know the facts. But then I wouldn't
>> expect you to.
>>
>>
>
> Of course I don't know the facts. They keep changing.

and that's a fact!

can't wait for thanksgiving day

On Fri, 18 Nov 2011 14:14:29 -0800, "Julie Bove"
> wrote:

>
>"Dave Smith" > wrote in message
. com...
>> On 18/11/2011 10:29 AM, BillyZoom wrote:
>>> On Nov 18, 10:06 am, "Julie > wrote:
>>>> "Dave > wrote in message
>>>>
>>>> .com...
>>>>
>>>>> On 18/11/2011 2:43 AM, Julie Bove wrote:
>>>>
>>>>>>> I would believe it. Have you not been following her Poor Julie posts.
>>>>>>> No
>>>>>>> flour, no pans, husband buys his own meals in a restaurants.....
>>>>>>> without
>>>>>>> her.... she takes her daughter to restaurants even though the kid
>>>>>>> behaves
>>>>>>> so badly, insulting and abusing her..... but she is still motivated
>>>>>>> to
>>>>>>> post 50 messages a day in cooking news group.
>>>>
>>>>>> WTF? Now you're making stuff up.
>>>>
>>>>> What part did I make up. Those are all things that you have told us....
>>>>> though your stories tend to evolve.
>>>>
>>>> My husband buys his own meals in restaurants? Where or when did I say
>>>> that?
>>>> I didn't! And I posted one thing about my daughter a long time ago but
>>>> you
>>>> just latched onto that and ran with it.
>>>
>>> "It freaking drives me nuts when my husband calls while I am making
>>> dinner or
>>> just after I have made it to tell me that he won't be home for
>>> dinner. Of
>>> course if he had to work late, I wouldn't be upset. But that's never
>>> the
>>> case. He just decides to go somewhere else on a whim. That leaves me
>>> with
>>> a portion of food that may or may not be eaten on another day. And
>>> most
>>> likely not. Sometimes he does this several days in a row and then he
>>> blames
>>> me for cooking too much food!"
>>>
>>> "That would never work. If he is home, he wants his food
>>> immediately. And
>>> that wouldn't stop him from leaving to go elsewhere to eat."
>>
>> Thanks for doing the leg work on that one. I didn`t think that I was
>> imagining that she had said that, but I was not going to go back through
>> several thousands of her posts to prove that she had indeed posted that.
>> She is not the first person in use net to have accused me of lying about
>> something that they had said when they did in fast say it.
>>
>>
>>
>>>
>>> "Yes. It has gotten to the point where I don't like dining with her.
>>> Everything I do while eating is wrong. I am holding the fork wrong.
>>> Inserting the fork in my mouth wrong. Taking too large of a bite. Or
>>> too
>>> small of a bite. Or a misshapen bite. Or too much salsa on my chip.
>>> Or
>>> not enough. Or the chip was too large. Or too small. Or the wrong
>>> shape.
>>> Or I am holding my mouth wrong. Or my eyes are looking at the wrong
>>> thing.
>>> Or there is something wrong with my hair. Or my clothes.
>>>
>>> She rolls her eyes. Slaps the table or pounds the table waaaaay too
>>> loudly.
>>> Kicks me in the shins. Throws stuff in my food. Takes my food always
>>> from
>>> me. And shouts, "Motherrrrrrrrrrr!" repeatedly to the point where the
>>> other
>>> diners turn and stare. And then she says they are staring at me.
>>>
>>
>>
>> Yep. Can you imagine what a joy it is to be in a restaurant with a kid
>> like that, or worse, to be in a restaurant where someone else`s kid is
>> acting like that. If my son acted like that in a restaurant it would be a
>> long time before he ever saw the inside of one again.
>>
>>
>> But..... apparently the restaurant meals were necessary because of time
>> restraints due to her schedule with school and dance lessons, though it
>> was later revealed that the princess has not been dancing for a while due
>> to an injury.
>
>BS. That was not in the same time frame.
>
>>> Of course she doesn't do this at home. Only when we are out
>>> somewhere.
>>>
>>>
>>> And just think... I will have a teenager soon. Oh the joy! "
>
>And I do have a teenager. So? Don't forget I am in contact with many other
>kids her age. And her behavior is no different than that of most other kids
>her age.
>
>Apparently ya'll have angels in your house. *shrugs* Whatever.
>



Kids are a product of their enviroment, mine are grown with kids of
their own. They never gave us a problem, their kids are not a problem,
what's that say about your daughter Julie?

On Fri, 18 Nov 2011 15:26:43 -0800, "Julie Bove"
> wrote:

>
>"Dave Smith" > wrote in message
.com...
>> On 18/11/2011 5:14 PM, Julie Bove wrote:
>>
>>>>
>>>> But..... apparently the restaurant meals were necessary because of time
>>>> restraints due to her schedule with school and dance lessons, though it
>>>> was later revealed that the princess has not been dancing for a while
>>>> due
>>>> to an injury.
>>>
>>> BS. That was not in the same time frame.
>>
>>
>>
>> Excuse the hell out of me for confusing the time lines on your stories.
>>
>>
>>>
>>>>> Of course she doesn't do this at home. Only when we are out
>>>>> somewhere.
>>>>>
>>>>>
>>>>> And just think... I will have a teenager soon. Oh the joy! "
>>>
>>> And I do have a teenager. So? Don't forget I am in contact with many
>>> other
>>> kids her age. And her behavior is no different than that of most other
>>> kids
>>> her age.
>>
>> Her behaviour sure as hell is not like my son's was at that age. He never
>> had the MacDonald's experience with me because I don't do the fast food
>> thing. He came to real restaurants with me, and he behaved.
>
>It's McDonalds. And I notice that you spell as though you are Canadian or
>British. Maybe that's the difference.


His nationality has nothing to do with you spinning your web of
innuendo.


>
>>> Apparently ya'll have angels in your house. *shrugs* Whatever.
>>>
>>
>>
>>
>> Yea yeah... whatever... the admonition of the idiots.
>
>Uh huh.
>

at least you're honest

On Fri, 18 Nov 2011 18:06:05 -0500, Dave Smith
> wrote:

>On 18/11/2011 5:15 PM, Julie Bove wrote:
>
>>> For people with neurotic food issues, it is all about controlling their
>>> world, and all about manipulating people. And then getting mad when
>>> people
>>> don't want to be manipulated.
>>>
>>> I will probably not reply to Julie again, unless she lies about what
>>> happened again.....
>>
>> I don't even know what you're talking about. But if you don't reply to me
>> it will probably make me happy!
>>
>>
>
>Oh no it won't. You live for the attention. If you can't get a response
>you will post something even more bizarre.


Somewhat as a few here do ;-)

julie,

think of it this way... you are providing a service to these people...
anyone who can keep that close of tabs on someone in a news group surely has
little else to fill their days... I mean really, if i were as irritated with
someone on a group as these seem to be with you i would just block, even
being entertained by someone would not make me keep that close of records.
lol, Lee
"Julie Bove" > wrote in message
...
>
> "BillyZoom" > wrote in message
> ...
> On Nov 18, 10:06 am, "Julie Bove" > wrote:
>> "Dave Smith" > wrote in message
>>
>> .com...
>>
>> > On 18/11/2011 2:43 AM, Julie Bove wrote:
>>
>> >>> I would believe it. Have you not been following her Poor Julie posts.
>> >>> No
>> >>> flour, no pans, husband buys his own meals in a restaurants.....
>> >>> without
>> >>> her.... she takes her daughter to restaurants even though the kid
>> >>> behaves
>> >>> so badly, insulting and abusing her..... but she is still motivated
>> >>> to
>> >>> post 50 messages a day in cooking news group.
>>
>> >> WTF? Now you're making stuff up.
>>
>> > What part did I make up. Those are all things that you have told us....
>> > though your stories tend to evolve.
>>
>> My husband buys his own meals in restaurants? Where or when did I say
>> that?
>> I didn't! And I posted one thing about my daughter a long time ago but
>> you
>> just latched onto that and ran with it.
>
> "It freaking drives me nuts when my husband calls while I am making
> dinner or
> just after I have made it to tell me that he won't be home for
> dinner. Of
> course if he had to work late, I wouldn't be upset. But that's never
> the
> case. He just decides to go somewhere else on a whim. That leaves me
> with
> a portion of food that may or may not be eaten on another day. And
> most
> likely not. Sometimes he does this several days in a row and then he
> blames
> me for cooking too much food!"
>
> "That would never work. If he is home, he wants his food
> immediately. And
> that wouldn't stop him from leaving to go elsewhere to eat."
>
> "Yes. It has gotten to the point where I don't like dining with her.
> Everything I do while eating is wrong. I am holding the fork wrong.
> Inserting the fork in my mouth wrong. Taking too large of a bite. Or
> too
> small of a bite. Or a misshapen bite. Or too much salsa on my chip.
> Or
> not enough. Or the chip was too large. Or too small. Or the wrong
> shape.
> Or I am holding my mouth wrong. Or my eyes are looking at the wrong
> thing.
> Or there is something wrong with my hair. Or my clothes.
>
> She rolls her eyes. Slaps the table or pounds the table waaaaay too
> loudly.
> Kicks me in the shins. Throws stuff in my food. Takes my food always
> from
> me. And shouts, "Motherrrrrrrrrrr!" repeatedly to the point where the
> other
> diners turn and stare. And then she says they are staring at me.
>
>
> Of course she doesn't do this at home. Only when we are out
> somewhere.
>
>
> And just think... I will have a teenager soon. Oh the joy! "
>
>
> I said "go somewhere else". I didn't say go to a restaurant. And my
> daughter did that once. And ya'll are latching onto those things and not
> letting them go. Frankly I find it weird, I mean very weird that you know
> and remember so much about my life. Why is that? You say that you hate
> me. Now frankly I don't hate anyone. But there are people I dislike. And
> I sure don't keep tabs on their lives!
>

"Storrmmee" > wrote in message
...
> julie,
>
> think of it this way... you are providing a service to these people...
> anyone who can keep that close of tabs on someone in a news group surely
> has little else to fill their days... I mean really, if i were as
> irritated with someone on a group as these seem to be with you i would
> just block, even being entertained by someone would not make me keep that
> close of records. lol, Lee

Indeed!

On 21/11/2011 8:38 AM, Storrmmee wrote:

> think of it this way... you are providing a service to these people...
> anyone who can keep that close of tabs on someone in a news group surely has
> little else to fill their days... I mean really, if i were as irritated with
> someone on a group as these seem to be with you i would just block, even
> being entertained by someone would not make me keep that close of records.
> lol, Lee


That is one way to think of it. Another way is to consider the fact that
she craves attention and seems to go out of her way to get it. The
pattern is obvious. She mentions something that troubles her. Other
people reply with helpful hints and suggestions. She then rejects all
advice offered and makes up excuses. I don't think that anyone here is
as obsessed with her anywhere near as much as she is obsessed with every
thread being about her.

She keeps making up the excuses to justify the dysfunction and it
becomes entertaining and amusing. Her tale about her husband and his
turkey legs is a prime example. Heck. she had previously complained
that her husband sometimes goes to restaurants on his own to eat. When I
mentioned that she got defensive and denied having written that. Billy
Zoom did the leg work to dig up her post where she aired that complain.
He story kept changing. First, her husband ticks her off by calling to
say he will be home late from work, or he goes out to eat on a whim.
Then she says he is hardly ever home because he works in another state.

You don't to worry about Julie being offended. She lives for the
attention. She spins so many tales that she starts confusing them, but
it helps with the drama.

On Nov 21, 8:38*am, "Storrmmee" > wrote:
> julie,
>
> think of it this way... you are providing a service to these people...
> anyone who can keep that close of tabs on someone in a news group surely has
> little else to fill their days... I mean really, if i were as irritated with
> someone on a group as these seem to be with you i would just block, even
> being entertained by someone would not make me keep that close of records..
> lol, Lee"Julie Bove" > wrote in message
>
> ...
>
>
>
>
>
> > "BillyZoom" > wrote in message
> ...
> > On Nov 18, 10:06 am, "Julie Bove" > wrote:
> >> "Dave Smith" > wrote in message
>
> ng.com...
>
> >> > On 18/11/2011 2:43 AM, Julie Bove wrote:
>
> >> >>> I would believe it. Have you not been following her Poor Julie posts.
> >> >>> No
> >> >>> flour, no pans, husband buys his own meals in a restaurants.....
> >> >>> without
> >> >>> her.... she takes her daughter to restaurants even though the kid
> >> >>> behaves
> >> >>> so badly, insulting and abusing her..... but she is still motivated
> >> >>> to
> >> >>> post 50 messages a day in cooking news group.
>
> >> >> WTF? Now you're making stuff up.
>
> >> > What part did I make up. Those are all things that you have told us.....
> >> > though your stories tend to evolve.
>
> >> My husband buys his own meals in restaurants? Where or when did I say
> >> that?
> >> I didn't! And I posted one thing about my daughter a long time ago but
> >> you
> >> just latched onto that and ran with it.
>
> > "It freaking drives me nuts when my husband calls while I am making
> > dinner or
> > just after I have made it to tell me that he won't be home for
> > dinner. *Of
> > course if he had to work late, I wouldn't be upset. *But that's never
> > the
> > case. *He just decides to go somewhere else on a whim. *That leaves me
> > with
> > a portion of food that may or may not be eaten on another day. *And
> > most
> > likely not. *Sometimes he does this several days in a row and then he
> > blames
> > me for cooking too much food!"
>
> > "That would never work. *If he is home, he wants his food
> > immediately. *And
> > that wouldn't stop him from leaving to go elsewhere to eat."
>
> > "Yes. *It has gotten to the point where I don't like dining with her.
> > Everything I do while eating is wrong. *I am holding the fork wrong.
> > Inserting the fork in my mouth wrong. *Taking too large of a bite. *Or
> > too
> > small of a bite. *Or a misshapen bite. *Or too much salsa on my chip.
> > Or
> > not enough. *Or the chip was too large. *Or too small. *Or the wrong
> > shape.
> > Or I am holding my mouth wrong. *Or my eyes are looking at the wrong
> > thing.
> > Or there is something wrong with my hair. *Or my clothes.
>
> > She rolls her eyes. *Slaps the table or pounds the table waaaaay too
> > loudly.
> > Kicks me in the shins. *Throws stuff in my food. *Takes my food always
> > from
> > me. *And shouts, "Motherrrrrrrrrrr!" repeatedly to the point where the
> > other
> > diners turn and stare. *And then she says they are staring at me.
>
> > Of course she doesn't do this at home. *Only when we are out
> > somewhere.
>
> > And just think... *I will have a teenager soon. *Oh the joy! "
>
> > I said "go somewhere else". *I didn't say go to a restaurant. *And my
> > daughter did that once. *And ya'll are latching onto those things and not
> > letting them go. *Frankly I find it weird, I mean very weird that you know
> > and remember so much about my life. *Why is that? *You say that you hate
> > me. Now frankly I don't hate anyone. *But there are people I dislike. And
> > I sure don't keep tabs on their lives!

Or maybe you'd take the time to learn how to not top post.

Dave Smith wrote:
>
>That is one way to think of it. Another way is to consider the fact that
>she craves attention and seems to go out of her way to get it. The
>pattern is obvious. She mentions something that troubles her. Other
>people reply with helpful hints and suggestions. She then rejects all
>advice offered and makes up excuses. I don't think that anyone here is
>as obsessed with her anywhere near as much as she is obsessed with every
>thread being about her.
>
>She keeps making up the excuses to justify the dysfunction and it
>becomes entertaining and amusing. Her tale about her husband and his
>turkey legs is a prime example. Heck. she had previously complained
>that her husband sometimes goes to restaurants on his own to eat. When I
>mentioned that she got defensive and denied having written that. Billy
>Zoom did the leg work to dig up her post where she aired that complain.
> He story kept changing. First, her husband ticks her off by calling to
>say he will be home late from work, or he goes out to eat on a whim.
>Then she says he is hardly ever home because he works in another state.
>
>You don't to worry about Julie being offended. She lives for the
>attention. She spins so many tales that she starts confusing them, but
>it helps with the drama.

Apparently Dave is one of Julie's main drama queens or he'd not be so
obssessed with her every post. Mentally balanced people manage to
ignore the particular machinations of others that frustrate them.

On Nov 21, 4:15*pm, Brooklyn1 <Gravesend1> wrote:
> Dave Smith wrote:
>
> >That is one way to think of it. Another way is to consider the fact that
> >she craves attention and seems to go out of her way to get it. The
> >pattern is obvious. *She mentions something that troubles her. Other
> >people reply with helpful hints and suggestions. She then rejects all
> >advice offered and makes up excuses. *I don't think that anyone here is
> >as obsessed with her anywhere near as much as she is obsessed with every
> >thread being about her.
>
> >She keeps making up the excuses to justify the dysfunction and it
> >becomes entertaining and amusing. *Her tale about her husband and his
> >turkey legs is a prime example. *Heck. she had previously complained
> >that her husband sometimes goes to restaurants on his own to eat. When I
> >mentioned that she got defensive and denied having written that. Billy
> >Zoom did the leg work to dig up her post where she aired that complain.
> > *He story kept changing. First, her husband ticks her off by calling to
> >say he will be home late from work, or he goes out to eat on a whim.
> >Then she says he is hardly ever home because he works in another state.
>
> >You don't to worry about Julie being offended. She lives for the
> >attention. *She spins so many tales that she starts confusing them, but
> >it helps with the drama.
>
> Apparently Dave is one of Julie's main drama queens or he'd not be so
> obssessed with her every post. *Mentally balanced people manage to
> ignore the particular machinations of others that frustrate them.

Why don't you eat a cock, cat lady. Nobody here likes you either.