today was going rather nicely, but then we were in a car wreck that caused
me to realise some things that i guess i was in denial about, my life will
forever be changed now, we weren't hurt in the accident, but now i have more
stress than the house burning caused, not sure how much more i can take, Lee

On Dec 29, 5:56*am, "Storrmmee" > wrote:
> today was going rather nicely, but then we were in a car wreck that caused
> me to realise some things that i guess i was in denial about, my life will
> forever be changed now, we weren't hurt in the accident, but now i have more
> stress than the house burning caused, not sure how much more i can take, Lee

Look on the bright side. At least you're not a burning duck in a
tornado.

Storrmmee > wrote:

>today was going rather nicely, but then we were in a car wreck that caused
>me to realise some things that i guess i was in denial about, my life will
>forever be changed now, we weren't hurt in the accident, but now i have more
>stress than the house burning caused, not sure how much more i can take, Lee

Yikes, I'm sorry to hear this. I hope you recover soon from the
stress this has caused.


Steve

On Dec 29, 5:56*am, "Storrmmee" > wrote:
> today was going rather nicely, but then we were in a car wreck that caused
> me to realise some things that i guess i was in denial about, my life will
> forever be changed now, we weren't hurt in the accident, but now i have more
> stress than the house burning caused, not sure how much more i can take, Lee

So sorry Lee. Praise God you were not injured.I remember how PTSD'd I
was after my auto accident. Houses and cars are replaceable, people,
not so much so!! Hope you feel a little bit less stressed each day.
Nan in DE

On Dec 29, 12:10*pm, Nan > wrote:
> On Dec 29, 5:56*am, "Storrmmee" > wrote:
>
> > today was going rather nicely, but then we were in a car wreck that caused
> > me to realise some things that i guess i was in denial about, my life will
> > forever be changed now, we weren't hurt in the accident, but now i have more
> > stress than the house burning caused, not sure how much more i can take, Lee
>
> So sorry Lee. Praise God you were not injured.I remember how PTSD'd I
> was after my auto accident. Houses and cars are replaceable, people,
> not so much so!! *Hope you feel a little bit less stressed each day.
> Nan in DE

big deal. A family friend drove across the tracks and got hit by a
train. 6 months in the hospital, and I never heard her whine.

On 12/29/2011 3:56 AM, Storrmmee wrote:
> today was going rather nicely, but then we were in a car wreck that caused
> me to realise some things that i guess i was in denial about, my life will
> forever be changed now, we weren't hurt in the accident, but now i have more
> stress than the house burning caused, not sure how much more i can take, Lee
>
>


One after another after another... I feel for you. Thank goodness that
no one was hurt. Things can be replaced. Stress can be eased. Take one
step at a time.

On Dec 29, 3:51*am, A Moose in Love >
wrote:
> On Dec 29, 5:56*am, "Storrmmee" > wrote:
>
> > today was going rather nicely, but then we were in a car wreck that caused
> > me to realise some things that i guess i was in denial about, my life will
> > forever be changed now, we weren't hurt in the accident, but now i have more
> > stress than the house burning caused, not sure how much more i can take, Lee
>
> Look on the bright side. *At least you're not a burning duck in a
> tornado.

or have a sharp stick in the eye.

On Dec 29, 12:21*pm, A Moose in Love >
wrote:
> On Dec 29, 12:10*pm, Nan > wrote:
>
> > On Dec 29, 5:56*am, "Storrmmee" > wrote:
>
> > > today was going rather nicely, but then we were in a car wreck that caused
> > > me to realise some things that i guess i was in denial about, my life will
> > > forever be changed now, we weren't hurt in the accident, but now i have more
> > > stress than the house burning caused, not sure how much more i can take, Lee
>
> > So sorry Lee. Praise God you were not injured.I remember how PTSD'd I
> > was after my auto accident. Houses and cars are replaceable, people,
> > not so much so!! *Hope you feel a little bit less stressed each day.
> > Nan in DE
>
> big deal. *A family friend drove across the tracks and got hit by a
> train. *6 months in the hospital, and I never heard her whine.

How callous! I hope you are never in a position that makes whining an
understandable reaction.

Jerry
--
Engineering is the art of making what you want from things you can get.

On Dec 29, 5:56*am, "Storrmmee" > wrote:
> today was going rather nicely, but then we were in a car wreck that caused
> me to realise some things that i guess i was in denial about, my life will
> forever be changed now, we weren't hurt in the accident, but now i have more
> stress than the house burning caused, not sure how much more i can take, Lee

I hope your equanimity recovers soon.

Jerry
--
Engineering is the art of making what you want from things you can get.

Storrmmee wrote:
> today was going rather nicely, but then we were in a car wreck that caused
> me to realise some things that i guess i was in denial about, my life will
> forever be changed now, we weren't hurt in the accident, but now i have more
> stress than the house burning caused, not sure how much more i can take, Lee
>
>
I can understand that, Lee. You need to pay attention to things
that you find stressful and figure out how to deal with them. I
am not speaking of things like auto accidents and house fires, but
everyday life, which can also trigger anxiety. At first, you need
to make a conscious effort, but eventually it becomes more natural.

I am glad you were not injured!

--
Jean B.

Storrmmee wrote:
>
> today was going rather nicely, but then we were in a car wreck that caused
> me to realise some things that i guess i was in denial about, my life will
> forever be changed now, we weren't hurt in the accident, but now i have more
> stress than the house burning caused, not sure how much more i can take, Lee

Arrghhh! Car wreck - an instant bad day for everyone involved. Hope all
involved is ok.

Gary

On Thu, 29 Dec 2011 04:56:15 -0600, "Storrmmee"
> wrote:

>today was going rather nicely, but then we were in a car wreck that caused
>me to realise some things that i guess i was in denial about, my life will
>forever be changed now, we weren't hurt in the accident, but now i have more
>stress than the house burning caused, not sure how much more i can take, Lee
>
What happened? You weren't in that 52 car pile-up in LA were you?
Janet US

"Jerry Avins" > wrote in message
...
> On Dec 29, 12:21 pm, A Moose in Love >
> wrote:
>> On Dec 29, 12:10 pm, Nan > wrote:
>>
>> > On Dec 29, 5:56 am, "Storrmmee" > wrote:
>>
>> > > today was going rather nicely, but then we were in a car wreck that
>> > > caused
>> > > me to realise some things that i guess i was in denial about, my life
>> > > will
>> > > forever be changed now, we weren't hurt in the accident, but now i
>> > > have more
>> > > stress than the house burning caused, not sure how much more i can
>> > > take, Lee
>>
>> > So sorry Lee. Praise God you were not injured.I remember how PTSD'd I
>> > was after my auto accident. Houses and cars are replaceable, people,
>> > not so much so!! Hope you feel a little bit less stressed each day.
>> > Nan in DE
>>
>> big deal. A family friend drove across the tracks and got hit by a
>> train. 6 months in the hospital, and I never heard her whine.
>
> How callous! I hope you are never in a position that makes whining an
> understandable reaction.

Of course it was Moose who thought it amusing that someone should have their
house burnt down, which is of course yet another thing that Lee has had to
endure.

I have had very little time for Moose for a long time. That has finished
me. I can only hope that he experiences some of the problems that he sneers
at.

--
http://www.shop.helpforheroes.org.uk/

"Jerry Avins" > wrote in message
...
> On Dec 29, 12:21 pm, A Moose in Love >
> wrote:
>> On Dec 29, 12:10 pm, Nan > wrote:
>>
>> > On Dec 29, 5:56 am, "Storrmmee" > wrote:
>>
>> > > today was going rather nicely, but then we were in a car wreck that
>> > > caused
>> > > me to realise some things that i guess i was in denial about, my life
>> > > will
>> > > forever be changed now, we weren't hurt in the accident, but now i
>> > > have more
>> > > stress than the house burning caused, not sure how much more i can
>> > > take, Lee
>>
>> > So sorry Lee. Praise God you were not injured.I remember how PTSD'd I
>> > was after my auto accident. Houses and cars are replaceable, people,
>> > not so much so!! Hope you feel a little bit less stressed each day.
>> > Nan in DE
>>
>> big deal. A family friend drove across the tracks and got hit by a
>> train. 6 months in the hospital, and I never heard her whine.
>
> How callous! I hope you are never in a position that makes whining an
> understandable reaction.

Of course Moose thinks it amusing that someone should have their
house burnt down, which is of course yet another thing that Lee has had to
endure.

I have had very little time for Moose for a long time. That has finished
me. I can only hope that he experiences some of the problems that he sneers
at.

--
http://www.shop.helpforheroes.org.uk/

On Dec 29, 4:56*am, "Storrmmee" > wrote:
> today was going rather nicely, but then we were in a car wreck that caused
> me to realise some things that i guess i was in denial about, my life will
> forever be changed now, we weren't hurt in the accident, but now i have more
> stress than the house burning caused, not sure how much more i can take, Lee

>
>
Fender bender or was the car totalled?

On Dec 29, 1:14*pm, Jerry Avins > wrote:
> On Dec 29, 12:21*pm, A Moose in Love >
> wrote:
>
>
>
>
>
>
>
>
>
> > On Dec 29, 12:10*pm, Nan > wrote:
>
> > > On Dec 29, 5:56*am, "Storrmmee" > wrote:
>
> > > > today was going rather nicely, but then we were in a car wreck that caused
> > > > me to realise some things that i guess i was in denial about, my life will
> > > > forever be changed now, we weren't hurt in the accident, but now i have more
> > > > stress than the house burning caused, not sure how much more i can take, Lee
>
> > > So sorry Lee. Praise God you were not injured.I remember how PTSD'd I
> > > was after my auto accident. Houses and cars are replaceable, people,
> > > not so much so!! *Hope you feel a little bit less stressed each day..
> > > Nan in DE
>
> > big deal. *A family friend drove across the tracks and got hit by a
> > train. *6 months in the hospital, and I never heard her whine.
>
> How callous! I hope you are never in a position that makes whining an
> understandable reaction.
>
I've been in the shit so deep that you, or even you couldn't
comprehend what I went through.

On Dec 29, 2:59*pm, "Ophelia" > wrote:
> "Jerry Avins" > wrote in message
>
> ...
>
>
>
>
>
>
>
>
>
> > On Dec 29, 12:21 pm, A Moose in Love >
> > wrote:
> >> On Dec 29, 12:10 pm, Nan > wrote:
>
> >> > On Dec 29, 5:56 am, "Storrmmee" > wrote:
>
> >> > > today was going rather nicely, but then we were in a car wreck that
> >> > > caused
> >> > > me to realise some things that i guess i was in denial about, my life
> >> > > will
> >> > > forever be changed now, we weren't hurt in the accident, but now i
> >> > > have more
> >> > > stress than the house burning caused, not sure how much more i can
> >> > > take, Lee
>
> >> > So sorry Lee. Praise God you were not injured.I remember how PTSD'd I
> >> > was after my auto accident. Houses and cars are replaceable, people,
> >> > not so much so!! *Hope you feel a little bit less stressed each day.
> >> > Nan in DE
>
> >> big deal. *A family friend drove across the tracks and got hit by a
> >> train. *6 months in the hospital, and I never heard her whine.
>
> > How callous! I hope you are never in a position that makes whining an
> > understandable reaction.
>
> Of course it was Moose who thought it amusing that someone should have their
> house burnt down, which is of course yet another thing that Lee has had to
> endure.
>
I didn't think it amusing.

On Dec 29, 3:07*pm, "Ophelia" > wrote:
> "Jerry Avins" > wrote in message
>
> ...
>
>
>
>
>
>
>
>
>
> > On Dec 29, 12:21 pm, A Moose in Love >
> > wrote:
> >> On Dec 29, 12:10 pm, Nan > wrote:
>
> >> > On Dec 29, 5:56 am, "Storrmmee" > wrote:
>
> >> > > today was going rather nicely, but then we were in a car wreck that
> >> > > caused
> >> > > me to realise some things that i guess i was in denial about, my life
> >> > > will
> >> > > forever be changed now, we weren't hurt in the accident, but now i
> >> > > have more
> >> > > stress than the house burning caused, not sure how much more i can
> >> > > take, Lee
>
> >> > So sorry Lee. Praise God you were not injured.I remember how PTSD'd I
> >> > was after my auto accident. Houses and cars are replaceable, people,
> >> > not so much so!! *Hope you feel a little bit less stressed each day.
> >> > Nan in DE
>
> >> big deal. *A family friend drove across the tracks and got hit by a
> >> train. *6 months in the hospital, and I never heard her whine.
>
> > How callous! I hope you are never in a position that makes whining an
> > understandable reaction.
>
> Of course Moose thinks it amusing that someone should have their
> house burnt down, which is of course yet another thing that Lee has had to
> endure.
>
> I have had very little time for Moose for a long time. *That has finished
> me. *I can only hope that he experiences some of the problems that he sneers
> at.
>
Moose hasn't done shit to you. Moose has been in the shit like you
don't have a clue.

On 12/29/2011 3:56 AM, Storrmmee wrote:
> today was going rather nicely, but then we were in a car wreck that caused
> me to realise some things that i guess i was in denial about, my life will
> forever be changed now, we weren't hurt in the accident, but now i have more
> stress than the house burning caused, not sure how much more i can take, Lee
>
>


I'm sorry about your accident, Lee. Please take it easy for a few days
until you find some peace of mind.

gloria p

thanks, i will plod on and hope the stress reduces, Lee
"Steve Pope" > wrote in message
...
> Storrmmee > wrote:
>
>>today was going rather nicely, but then we were in a car wreck that caused
>>me to realise some things that i guess i was in denial about, my life will
>>forever be changed now, we weren't hurt in the accident, but now i have
>>more
>>stress than the house burning caused, not sure how much more i can take,
>>Lee
>
> Yikes, I'm sorry to hear this. I hope you recover soon from the
> stress this has caused.
>
>
> Steve

starting to put a plan of action into process is actually helping, and i
thought the ptsd feelings from the house were bad, while this isn't that,
just a bunch of other emotions, Lee
"Nan" > wrote in message
...
On Dec 29, 5:56 am, "Storrmmee" > wrote:
> today was going rather nicely, but then we were in a car wreck that caused
> me to realise some things that i guess i was in denial about, my life will
> forever be changed now, we weren't hurt in the accident, but now i have
> more
> stress than the house burning caused, not sure how much more i can take,
> Lee

So sorry Lee. Praise God you were not injured.I remember how PTSD'd I
was after my auto accident. Houses and cars are replaceable, people,
not so much so!! Hope you feel a little bit less stressed each day.
Nan in DE

thanks, i am only taking one step at a time as if i thought about everything
i would just get overwhelmed, my sister and her new husband, a good guy, are
coming tomorrow to help out, Lee
"Pennyaline" > wrote in message
...
> On 12/29/2011 3:56 AM, Storrmmee wrote:
>> today was going rather nicely, but then we were in a car wreck that
>> caused
>> me to realise some things that i guess i was in denial about, my life
>> will
>> forever be changed now, we weren't hurt in the accident, but now i have
>> more
>> stress than the house burning caused, not sure how much more i can take,
>> Lee
>>
>>
>
>
> One after another after another... I feel for you. Thank goodness that no
> one was hurt. Things can be replaced. Stress can be eased. Take one step
> at a time.

thanks, Lee
"Jerry Avins" > wrote in message
...
On Dec 29, 5:56 am, "Storrmmee" > wrote:
> today was going rather nicely, but then we were in a car wreck that caused
> me to realise some things that i guess i was in denial about, my life will
> forever be changed now, we weren't hurt in the accident, but now i have
> more
> stress than the house burning caused, not sure how much more i can take,
> Lee

I hope your equanimity recovers soon.

Jerry
--
Engineering is the art of making what you want from things you can get.

i am very glad to not be injured, and every day life doesn't usually bother
me, but since the house burnt, it has gotten really bad at times, i am of
course working on it because i know the health issues associated with
stress, Lee

ps thanks
"Jean B." > wrote in message
...
> Storrmmee wrote:
>> today was going rather nicely, but then we were in a car wreck that
>> caused me to realise some things that i guess i was in denial about, my
>> life will forever be changed now, we weren't hurt in the accident, but
>> now i have more stress than the house burning caused, not sure how much
>> more i can take, Lee
> I can understand that, Lee. You need to pay attention to things that you
> find stressful and figure out how to deal with them. I am not speaking of
> things like auto accidents and house fires, but everyday life, which can
> also trigger anxiety. At first, you need to make a conscious effort, but
> eventually it becomes more natural.
>
> I am glad you were not injured!
>
> --
> Jean B.

thankfully nobody got hurt, Lee
"Gary" > wrote in message ...
> Storrmmee wrote:
>>
>> today was going rather nicely, but then we were in a car wreck that
>> caused
>> me to realise some things that i guess i was in denial about, my life
>> will
>> forever be changed now, we weren't hurt in the accident, but now i have
>> more
>> stress than the house burning caused, not sure how much more i can take,
>> Lee
>
> Arrghhh! Car wreck - an instant bad day for everyone involved. Hope all
> involved is ok.
>
> Gary

no, and it wasn't even a serious accident, just made me have a reality
check, Lee
"Janet Bostwick" > wrote in message
...
> On Thu, 29 Dec 2011 04:56:15 -0600, "Storrmmee"
> > wrote:
>
>>today was going rather nicely, but then we were in a car wreck that caused
>>me to realise some things that i guess i was in denial about, my life will
>>forever be changed now, we weren't hurt in the accident, but now i have
>>more
>>stress than the house burning caused, not sure how much more i can take,
>>Lee
>>
> What happened? You weren't in that 52 car pile-up in LA were you?
> Janet US

i wish i could but must keep working and need to get moved, Lee
"gloria.p" > wrote in message
...
> On 12/29/2011 3:56 AM, Storrmmee wrote:
>> today was going rather nicely, but then we were in a car wreck that
>> caused
>> me to realise some things that i guess i was in denial about, my life
>> will
>> forever be changed now, we weren't hurt in the accident, but now i have
>> more
>> stress than the house burning caused, not sure how much more i can take,
>> Lee
>>
>>
>
>
> I'm sorry about your accident, Lee. Please take it easy for a few days
> until you find some peace of mind.
>
> gloria p

Storrmmee wrote:

> thanks, i am only taking one step at a time as if i thought about
> everything i would just get overwhelmed, my sister and her new
> husband, a good guy, are coming tomorrow to help out, Lee

This is the most important thing, having your relatives with you now.
I wish you a quick recovery

On 30/12/2011 8:42 AM, A Moose in Love wrote:
> On Dec 29, 1:14 pm, Jerry > wrote:
>> On Dec 29, 12:21 pm, A Moose in >
>> wrote:
>>
>>
>>
>>
>>
>>
>>
>>
>>
>>> On Dec 29, 12:10 pm, > wrote:
>>
>>>> On Dec 29, 5:56 am, > wrote:
>>
>>>>> today was going rather nicely, but then we were in a car wreck that caused
>>>>> me to realise some things that i guess i was in denial about, my life will
>>>>> forever be changed now, we weren't hurt in the accident, but now i have more
>>>>> stress than the house burning caused, not sure how much more i can take, Lee
>>
>>>> So sorry Lee. Praise God you were not injured.I remember how PTSD'd I
>>>> was after my auto accident. Houses and cars are replaceable, people,
>>>> not so much so!! Hope you feel a little bit less stressed each day..
>>>> Nan in DE
>>
>>> big deal. A family friend drove across the tracks and got hit by a
>>> train. 6 months in the hospital, and I never heard her whine.
>>
>> How callous! I hope you are never in a position that makes whining an
>> understandable reaction.
>>
> I've been in the shit so deep that you, or even you couldn't
> comprehend what I went through.

If you've been in it deep but remain silent, expect no sympathy. On the
other hand, it would seem that if what you've been through is mentioned,
then expect derision from the likes of you. Sounds like a lose - lose to me.

BTW, if your friend drove across tracks with a train approaching, might
I suggest he's not overly bright!

--

Krypsis

thanks, i am calming down, trouble is that makes me more logical, realistic
and sadder, Lee
"ViLco" > wrote in message
...
> Storrmmee wrote:
>
>> thanks, i am only taking one step at a time as if i thought about
>> everything i would just get overwhelmed, my sister and her new
>> husband, a good guy, are coming tomorrow to help out, Lee
>
> This is the most important thing, having your relatives with you now.
> I wish you a quick recovery
>
>

On 12/29/2011 5:56 AM, Storrmmee wrote:

> today was going rather nicely, but then we were in a car wreck that caused
> me to realise some things that i guess i was in denial about, my life will
> forever be changed now, we weren't hurt in the accident, but now i have more
> stress than the house burning caused, not sure how much more i can take, Lee
>
>
I'm glad you're both ok. You hang in there!

On Dec 31, 1:48*am, "Storrmmee" > wrote:
> thanks, i am calming down, trouble is that makes me more logical, realistic
> and sadder, Lee"ViLco" > wrote in message
>
> ...
>
>
>
> > Storrmmee wrote:
>
> >> thanks, i am only taking one step at a time as if i thought about
> >> everything i would just get overwhelmed, my sister and her new
> >> husband, a good guy, are coming tomorrow to help out, Lee
>
> > This is the most important thing, having your relatives with you now.
> > I wish you a quick recovery

I'm sincerely sorry it wasn't more serious. Maybe next time. You
useless top-posting ****.

thanks, Lee
"Cheryl" > wrote in message
...
> On 12/29/2011 5:56 AM, Storrmmee wrote:
>
>> today was going rather nicely, but then we were in a car wreck that
>> caused
>> me to realise some things that i guess i was in denial about, my life
>> will
>> forever be changed now, we weren't hurt in the accident, but now i have
>> more
>> stress than the house burning caused, not sure how much more i can take,
>> Lee
>>
>>
> I'm glad you're both ok. You hang in there!