My niece is getting married, and I'm currently
thinking about giving the Waring WCT704 toaster.
It has two long wide slots which can do four
slices of regular bread at once, or a couple
slices of crudely thick-sliced rustic bread.

I don't know whether my niece cooks, but it's
doubtful because her mother doesn't. Therefore
a toaster oven or microwave oven might not be
useful. And they might already have a microwave,
but not a mighty toaster like the WCT704.

They're Mormons, so no coffee gadgets.

I gave some thought to a SodaStream, but I can't
be sure that would be used. That's more of a
foodie type item. Same thing for a juicer or
water distiller. For sure, no deep fryer or
sous vide cooker. I did consider a Ronco
rotissiere, but that's probably too far out
of the box.

A toaster might be the closest thing that would
actually get used. I'm thinking toaster + a
good bread knife.

I'd like to hear suggestions. Does anyone know
of an unexpected gift that would be spectacularly
useful for a young couple? (Not necessarily
food-related, of course.)

On Sat, 24 May 2014 21:54:40 -0800, Mark Thorson >
wrote:

> My niece is getting married,
<snip>
>
> I don't know whether my niece cooks,
<snip>
>
> They're Mormons, so no coffee gadgets.
>
> I gave some thought to a SodaStream, but I can't
> be sure that would be used. That's more of a
> foodie type item. Same thing for a juicer or
> water distiller. For sure, no deep fryer or
> sous vide cooker. I did consider a Ronco
> rotissiere, but that's probably too far out
> of the box.
>
> A toaster might be the closest thing that would
> actually get used. I'm thinking toaster + a
> good bread knife.
>
> I'd like to hear suggestions.

Listen to yourself! Go to their registry and pick something from
that. If they have a toaster and bread knife on it, buy EXACTLY what
they have listed. Do not deviate from what they say they want.

> Does anyone know
> of an unexpected gift that would be spectacularly
> useful for a young couple? (Not necessarily
> food-related, of course.)

How about a silk filled bed pillows? They are beyond wonderful.


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Good Friends.
Good Memories.

"sf" > wrote in message
...
> On Sat, 24 May 2014 21:54:40 -0800, Mark Thorson >
> wrote:
>
>> My niece is getting married,
> <snip>
>>
>> I don't know whether my niece cooks,
> <snip>
>>
>> They're Mormons, so no coffee gadgets.
>>
>> I gave some thought to a SodaStream, but I can't
>> be sure that would be used. That's more of a
>> foodie type item. Same thing for a juicer or
>> water distiller. For sure, no deep fryer or
>> sous vide cooker. I did consider a Ronco
>> rotissiere, but that's probably too far out
>> of the box.
>>
>> A toaster might be the closest thing that would
>> actually get used. I'm thinking toaster + a
>> good bread knife.
>>
>> I'd like to hear suggestions.
>
> Listen to yourself! Go to their registry and pick something from
> that. If they have a toaster and bread knife on it, buy EXACTLY what
> they have listed. Do not deviate from what they say they want.
>
>> Does anyone know
>> of an unexpected gift that would be spectacularly
>> useful for a young couple? (Not necessarily
>> food-related, of course.)
>
> How about a silk filled bed pillows? They are beyond wonderful.

Never heard of those. Where do you get them? Are they expensive?

I got some a year or two ago at Costco that are memory foam on one side and
cooling gel on the other. Haven't really needed the cooling gel much
though. They came in a two pack. I gave one to my dad but he hated it. I
would have gladly taken it back as a spare but he gave it to my mom and I
think she got rid of it.

On Sun, 25 May 2014 02:12:08 -0700, "Julie Bove"
> wrote:

> > How about a silk filled bed pillows? They are beyond wonderful.
>
> Never heard of those. Where do you get them?

I bought mine in China, but you can Google has lots of places to buy
them over the internet including Amazon.

> Are they expensive?

Depends on what you call expensive, but they are not cheap by any
stretch of the imagination.



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Good Friends.
Good Memories.

"sf" > wrote in message
...
> On Sun, 25 May 2014 02:12:08 -0700, "Julie Bove"
> > wrote:
>
>> > How about a silk filled bed pillows? They are beyond wonderful.
>>
>> Never heard of those. Where do you get them?
>
> I bought mine in China, but you can Google has lots of places to buy
> them over the internet including Amazon.
>
>> Are they expensive?
>
> Depends on what you call expensive, but they are not cheap by any
> stretch of the imagination.
>
Okay. Probably not for me then.

Julie Bove wrote:
>
> "sf" > wrote in message
> >
> > How about a silk filled bed pillows? They are beyond wonderful.
>
> Never heard of those. Where do you get them? Are they expensive?

They're Mormons. No sex toys.

"Sqwertz" > wrote in message
...
> On Sat, 24 May 2014 22:26:43 -0700, sf wrote:
>
>> On Sat, 24 May 2014 21:54:40 -0800, Mark Thorson >
>> wrote:
>>
>>> I'd like to hear suggestions.
>>
>> Listen to yourself! Go to their registry and pick something from
>> that. If they have a toaster and bread knife on it, buy EXACTLY what
>> they have listed. Do not deviate from what they say they want.
>
> Totally **** that idea.
>
> The whole idea of wedding registries is highly controversial and
> impersonal. And that somebody insists so boldly as the only option is
> Lou Decruss.

It may be impersonal but it is preferable to getting a bunch of crap that
you would never use. One of my friends got a crystal server for Ritz
crackers. It held a whole roll. Whoever gave it to her either really loved
Ritz crackers or got a good deal on it. She got all kinds of seemingly
useless kitchen stuff that was not on the registry list. Oh and she married
a chef. He did the catering at their reception. So he likely had all of
the kitchen stuff that he needed.

I'm all for giving the person something that they really want or need. And
if they don't really need anything? Or I can't afford what they want? Then
money it is. Impersonal? Yes. Will be used? Yes!

Julie Bove wrote:
>
> It may be impersonal but it is preferable to getting a bunch of crap that
> you would never use. One of my friends got a crystal server for Ritz
> crackers. It held a whole roll. Whoever gave it to her either really loved
> Ritz crackers or got a good deal on it. She got all kinds of seemingly

If everybody stopped doing that,
there'd be lots less stuff on eBay.

"Mark Thorson" > wrote in message
...
> Julie Bove wrote:
>>
>> It may be impersonal but it is preferable to getting a bunch of crap that
>> you would never use. One of my friends got a crystal server for Ritz
>> crackers. It held a whole roll. Whoever gave it to her either really
>> loved
>> Ritz crackers or got a good deal on it. She got all kinds of seemingly
>
> If everybody stopped doing that,
> there'd be lots less stuff on eBay.

Very true. I try to pick gifts carefully. I just hope that what I buy
doesn't wind up on Ebay right away. And while I don't sell stuff on Ebay, a
lot of what I used to get went straight into the give away bin. I think
people have wised up now. Just because I like cats, doesn't mean that if it
is shaped like a cat, I will like it. Just because I like purple, doesn't
mean that I want one in purple.

Sqwertz wrote:
> On Sun, 25 May 2014 02:15:40 -0700, Julie Bove wrote:
>
>> It may be impersonal but it is preferable to getting a bunch of crap that
>> you would never use. One of my friends got a crystal server for Ritz
>> crackers. It held a whole roll. Whoever gave it to her either really loved
>> Ritz crackers or got a good deal on it.
>
> Obviously if you suck at buying practical presents, are a moron, or
> are a re-gifter then please - yes - stick to the registry.
>
> -sw

This reminds me of one of the best Spongebob Squarepants episodes ever.
Squidward pretends to dislike Crabby Patties, which is supposedly
impossible because they are an "absolute good" (according to Spongebob).
Squidward finally gives in and tastes just a tiny nibble of a Crabby
Patty and he is suprised to find that not only does he like them, but
he craves them, and must now hide this craving from Spongebob or he
will lose face for falsely proclaiming his distate for Crabby Patties.

Anyhow long story short, if you read Steve's posts with Squidward's
voice they are really, really funny.

On 2014-05-26, tert in seattle > wrote:

> Anyhow long story short, if you read Steve's posts with Squidward's
> voice they are really, really funny.

ROFL!!.....

Sorry Steve, but it works.

nb

"Sqwertz" > wrote in message
...
> On 26 May 2014 04:17:03 GMT, notbob wrote:
>
>> On 2014-05-26, tert in seattle > wrote:
>>
>>> Anyhow long story short, if you read Steve's posts with Squidward's
>>> voice they are really, really funny.
>>
>> ROFL!!.....
>>
>> Sorry Steve, but it works.
>
> Another grown man who even knows who Squidwqard is? At least Tert has
> an out by having a younsgster in the house. What's your excuse?

Hey! My dad watched it. And by choice!

On 2014-05-26, Sqwertz > wrote:
>
> Another grown man who even knows who Squidwqard is? At least Tert has
> an out by having a younsgster in the house. What's your excuse?

Two youngsters! What's yers?

nb

Sqwertz wrote:
> On 26 May 2014 04:17:03 GMT, notbob wrote:
>
>> On 2014-05-26, tert in seattle > wrote:
>>
>>> Anyhow long story short, if you read Steve's posts with Squidward's
>>> voice they are really, really funny.
>>
>> ROFL!!.....
>>
>> Sorry Steve, but it works.
>
> Another grown man who even knows who Squidwqard is? At least Tert has
> an out by having a younsgster in the house. What's your excuse?
>
> -sw

entirely predictable response

"tert in seattle" > wrote in message
...
> Sqwertz wrote:
>> On Sun, 25 May 2014 02:15:40 -0700, Julie Bove wrote:
>>
>>> It may be impersonal but it is preferable to getting a bunch of crap
>>> that
>>> you would never use. One of my friends got a crystal server for Ritz
>>> crackers. It held a whole roll. Whoever gave it to her either really
>>> loved
>>> Ritz crackers or got a good deal on it.
>>
>> Obviously if you suck at buying practical presents, are a moron, or
>> are a re-gifter then please - yes - stick to the registry.
>>
>> -sw
>
> This reminds me of one of the best Spongebob Squarepants episodes ever.
> Squidward pretends to dislike Crabby Patties, which is supposedly
> impossible because they are an "absolute good" (according to Spongebob).
> Squidward finally gives in and tastes just a tiny nibble of a Crabby
> Patty and he is suprised to find that not only does he like them, but
> he craves them, and must now hide this craving from Spongebob or he
> will lose face for falsely proclaiming his distate for Crabby Patties.
>
> Anyhow long story short, if you read Steve's posts with Squidward's
> voice they are really, really funny.

Squidward was my favorite character on that show. Reminds me of a couple of
my friends.

"Sqwertz" > wrote in message
...
> On Mon, 26 May 2014 03:51:11 +0000 (UTC), tert in seattle wrote:
>
>> This reminds me of one of the best Spongebob Squarepants episodes ever.
>> Squidward pretends to dislike Crabby Patties, which is supposedly
>> impossible because they are an "absolute good" (according to Spongebob).
>> Squidward finally gives in and tastes just a tiny nibble of a Crabby
>> Patty and he is suprised to find that not only does he like them, but
>> he craves them, and must now hide this craving from Spongebob or he
>> will lose face for falsely proclaiming his distate for Crabby Patties.
>>
>> Anyhow long story short, if you read Steve's posts with Squidward's
>> voice they are really, really funny.
>
> Just how much pot DO you smoke, Tert? You must be a pretty heavy user
> if you have all the Spongebob episodes memorized and rated.

I don't normally watch that show myself and don't even know if it is still
on. But Angela used to watch it and so did my dad. I do remember that
episode well.

Julie Bove wrote:
>
> "Sqwertz" > wrote in message
> ...
>> On Mon, 26 May 2014 03:51:11 +0000 (UTC), tert in seattle wrote:
>>
>>> This reminds me of one of the best Spongebob Squarepants episodes ever.
>>> Squidward pretends to dislike Crabby Patties, which is supposedly
>>> impossible because they are an "absolute good" (according to Spongebob).
>>> Squidward finally gives in and tastes just a tiny nibble of a Crabby
>>> Patty and he is suprised to find that not only does he like them, but
>>> he craves them, and must now hide this craving from Spongebob or he
>>> will lose face for falsely proclaiming his distate for Crabby Patties.
>>>
>>> Anyhow long story short, if you read Steve's posts with Squidward's
>>> voice they are really, really funny.
>>
>> Just how much pot DO you smoke, Tert? You must be a pretty heavy user
>> if you have all the Spongebob episodes memorized and rated.
>
> I don't normally watch that show myself and don't even know if it is still
> on. But Angela used to watch it and so did my dad. I do remember that
> episode well.

hmm.. I wonder how much pot Angela must smoke

Sqwertz > wrote in
:

> On Sat, 24 May 2014 22:26:43 -0700, sf wrote:
>
>> On Sat, 24 May 2014 21:54:40 -0800, Mark Thorson >
>> wrote:
>>
>>> I'd like to hear suggestions.
>>
>> Listen to yourself! Go to their registry and pick something from
>> that. If they have a toaster and bread knife on it, buy EXACTLY what
>> they have listed. Do not deviate from what they say they want.
>
> Totally **** that idea.
>
> The whole idea of wedding registries is highly controversial and
> impersonal.
>
It's offensive. I would *never* buy anything on a wedding registry, but I
*might* some time in the future, check off items anonymously. Anyone who
uses one of those deserves it.
>
> -sw



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You're admitting that there must be something wrong.
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In article >,
says...
>
> Sqwertz > wrote in
> :
>
> > On Sat, 24 May 2014 22:26:43 -0700, sf wrote:
> >
> >> On Sat, 24 May 2014 21:54:40 -0800, Mark Thorson >
> >> wrote:
> >>
> >>> I'd like to hear suggestions.
> >>
> >> Listen to yourself! Go to their registry and pick something from
> >> that. If they have a toaster and bread knife on it, buy EXACTLY what
> >> they have listed. Do not deviate from what they say they want.
> >
> > Totally **** that idea.
> >
> > The whole idea of wedding registries is highly controversial and
> > impersonal.
> >
> It's offensive. I would *never* buy anything on a wedding registry, but I
> *might* some time in the future, check off items anonymously. Anyone who
> uses one of those deserves it.
> >
> > -sw

Get what you are given and be grateful for it?

Well it's one way of wasting your money and burdening the couple with a
load of crap they do not want.

But then as most modern weddings are just an expensive circus show
perhaps this is all just a consequence, whichever side of the gift
debate you occupy.

I think my middle-aged friends who married recently had the best idea.
They said "if you must give us a gift then please give us cash" and they
spent it all on a month long honeymoon visiting all the sights of
Europe. Fabulous!

Yellow > wrote in
T:

> In article >,
> says...
>>
>> Sqwertz > wrote in
>> :
>>
>> > On Sat, 24 May 2014 22:26:43 -0700, sf wrote:
>> >
>> >> On Sat, 24 May 2014 21:54:40 -0800, Mark Thorson
>> >> > wrote:
>> >>
>> >>> I'd like to hear suggestions.
>> >>
>> >> Listen to yourself! Go to their registry and pick something from
>> >> that. If they have a toaster and bread knife on it, buy EXACTLY
>> >> what they have listed. Do not deviate from what they say they
>> >> want.
>> >
>> > Totally **** that idea.
>> >
>> > The whole idea of wedding registries is highly controversial and
>> > impersonal.
>> >
>> It's offensive. I would *never* buy anything on a wedding registry,
>> but I *might* some time in the future, check off items anonymously.
>> Anyone who uses one of those deserves it.
>> >
>> > -sw
>
> Get what you are given and be grateful for it?
>
> Well it's one way of wasting your money and burdening the couple with
> a load of crap they do not want.
>
> But then as most modern weddings are just an expensive circus show
> perhaps this is all just a consequence, whichever side of the gift
> debate you occupy.
>
> I think my middle-aged friends who married recently had the best idea.
> They said "if you must give us a gift then please give us cash" and
> they spent it all on a month long honeymoon visiting all the sights of
> Europe. Fabulous!
>
Cash is fine--especially with the, "if you must" words--and what a great
think to do with it, but the wedding registry is just crappy.


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--Bryan
You can cover up your guts, but when you cover up your nuts
You're admitting that there must be something wrong.
-The Who https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1FSZhCKbQZc

On 5/25/2014 8:10 AM, Yellow wrote:

> I think my middle-aged friends who married recently had the best idea.
> They said "if you must give us a gift then please give us cash" and they
> spent it all on a month long honeymoon visiting all the sights of
> Europe. Fabulous!
>

Friends my age got married two years (almost) ago. They had each been
keeping house and probably didn't need anything so we asked them what
their favorite charity was and we made a nice donation to that charity
in honor of their marriage.

--
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Way-the-heck-south Texas
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"Janet Wilder" > wrote in message
eb.com...
> On 5/25/2014 8:10 AM, Yellow wrote:
>
>> I think my middle-aged friends who married recently had the best idea.
>> They said "if you must give us a gift then please give us cash" and they
>> spent it all on a month long honeymoon visiting all the sights of
>> Europe. Fabulous!
>>
>
> Friends my age got married two years (almost) ago. They had each been
> keeping house and probably didn't need anything so we asked them what
> their favorite charity was and we made a nice donation to that charity in
> honor of their marriage.
>

maybe to a spousal abuse shelter?

In article >, ost
says...
>
> On Sat, 24 May 2014 22:26:43 -0700, sf wrote:
>
> > On Sat, 24 May 2014 21:54:40 -0800, Mark Thorson >
> > wrote:
> >
> >> I'd like to hear suggestions.
> >
> > Listen to yourself! Go to their registry and pick something from
> > that. If they have a toaster and bread knife on it, buy EXACTLY what
> > they have listed. Do not deviate from what they say they want.
>
> Totally **** that idea.
>
> The whole idea of wedding registries is highly controversial and
> impersonal.

True; but these days when people marry later, IME most couples either
already live together OR are merging two separate abodes into one, so
usually one or both of them already have a domestic gadget or tool for
everything. The last thing they want is for their friends and relatives
to waste money on six more toasters.

Guest are more likely to know what the pair like to to do, eat or
drink. How about a gift token for match/theatre/cinema tickets or
dinner/lunch, or a bottle/case of their favourite drink.

Janet UK

"Mark Thorson" > wrote in message
...
> My niece is getting married, and I'm currently
> thinking about giving the Waring WCT704 toaster.
> It has two long wide slots which can do four
> slices of regular bread at once, or a couple
> slices of crudely thick-sliced rustic bread.
>
> I don't know whether my niece cooks, but it's
> doubtful because her mother doesn't. Therefore
> a toaster oven or microwave oven might not be
> useful. And they might already have a microwave,
> but not a mighty toaster like the WCT704.
>
> They're Mormons, so no coffee gadgets.
>
> I gave some thought to a SodaStream, but I can't
> be sure that would be used. That's more of a
> foodie type item. Same thing for a juicer or
> water distiller. For sure, no deep fryer or
> sous vide cooker. I did consider a Ronco
> rotissiere, but that's probably too far out
> of the box.
>
> A toaster might be the closest thing that would
> actually get used. I'm thinking toaster + a
> good bread knife.
>
> I'd like to hear suggestions. Does anyone know
> of an unexpected gift that would be spectacularly
> useful for a young couple? (Not necessarily
> food-related, of course.)

I don't know how it is where you are, but here, it is much more common to
simply give money. Most people have all of the things that they need by the
time they are married. She may well already have a toaster. And she may
not even eat toast. A lot of people don't.

When I got married, I got mostly money because most people knew I was moving
right away to another state. I did get a nice set of fancy towels in a
cream color so they would pretty much go in any bathroom. I did use those a
lot, mainly just putting them out when we had visitors. But now some 19
years later, they don't look as good as the once did and we are actually
using them.

Things I didn't use at all or rarely used were a crystal salad bowl, and a
crystal candy dish. I already had tons of candy dishes and bowls that were
big and nice enough to serve a salad in, should I ever have the need to do
that. Although the crystal bowl was pretty, it was very heavy to have to
hoist up and down off of the shelf and the silver plated serving pieces that
came with it required polishing. So not for me. I also got some kitchen
towels and pot holders which I did use. Those things don't last forever.

Other things that I really never used were a fancy photo album (I think they
either made it or bought it at a craft fair) and some fancy picture frames.
I am simply not a picture person and I am pretty picky about my frames. I
don't necessarily think that all of the frames in the house have to match,
but I like them to at least coordinate. Mine are either oak, oak and gold
or gold. I was gifted with white ceramic ones, presumably to put the
wedding pics in. But since ours was a very rushed wedding, and we didn't
have a professional photographer, they are not things that I want to
display.

My mom often gives heating pads which I think is a rather odd wedding gift.
Not sure of her reasoning on that but she did say once that she would bet
they didn't have one. It would seem to me that if they didn't have one,
they didn't need one. I've had one forever. I used to get a lot of ear
infections and they are soothing for that.

A couple of things that I personally would have liked to get were a
Crock-Pot (I did actually get one not long after we were married as a
Christmas present) and a fondue pot. But... I do like to cook!

"Julie Bove" > wrote in message
...

> A couple of things that I personally would have liked to get were a
> Crock-Pot (I did actually get one not long after we were married as a
> Christmas present) and a fondue pot. But... I do like to cook!

I always give money, it's never been returned. ;-)

Cheri

"Cheri" wrote:
>"Julie Bove" wrote:
>
>> A couple of things that I personally would have liked to get were a
>> Crock-Pot (I did actually get one not long after we were married as a
>> Christmas present) and a fondue pot. But... I do like to cook!
>
>I always give money, it's never been returned. ;-)

Me too.

On Sun, 25 May 2014 05:37:19 -0700, "Cheri" >
wrote:
>
> I always give money, it's never been returned. ;-)
>
IMO, gifts from the registry and money are in the same category, but
it's easier to do a registry gift because it's done over the internet
and I don't need to go out and find a card. I especially love
registry gifts for people I don't know very well (children of
friends). It's hard enough to chose the right gift for my own
children and nearly impossible to chose for someone else's. IMO if
they don't like the gift *they* picked out, then they can return it
for money... I didn't put any effort into choosing it, so I'm not
vested in any way and I don't care.



--

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Good Friends.
Good Memories.

"Cheri" > wrote in message
...
>
> "Julie Bove" > wrote in message
> ...
>
>> A couple of things that I personally would have liked to get were a
>> Crock-Pot (I did actually get one not long after we were married as a
>> Christmas present) and a fondue pot. But... I do like to cook!
>
> I always give money, it's never been returned. ;-)

I'm to the point where I prefer that myself. Gift cards can be okay but I
have gotten some for stores where I never shop and when I have tried to shop
there, I saw nothing that I wanted. So money works the best. I just hate
it when the giver demands that I tell them what I spent the money on. And
then gets mad at me when I say something like... I bought groceries! Heck,
sometimes you are to the point where that is all that you need. I guess
people have in their minds that you will spend the money on some extravagant
thing that you otherwise wouldn't have bought for yourself. That's just not
me.

"Julie Bove" > wrote in message
...
>
> "Cheri" > wrote in message
> ...
>>
>> "Julie Bove" > wrote in message
>> ...
>>
>>> A couple of things that I personally would have liked to get were a
>>> Crock-Pot (I did actually get one not long after we were married as a
>>> Christmas present) and a fondue pot. But... I do like to cook!
>>
>> I always give money, it's never been returned. ;-)
>
> I'm to the point where I prefer that myself. Gift cards can be okay but I
> have gotten some for stores where I never shop and when I have tried to
> shop there, I saw nothing that I wanted. So money works the best. I just
> hate it when the giver demands that I tell them what I spent the money on.
> And then gets mad at me when I say something like... I bought groceries!
> Heck, sometimes you are to the point where that is all that you need. I
> guess people have in their minds that you will spend the money on some
> extravagant thing that you otherwise wouldn't have bought for yourself.
> That's just not me.

I can't imagine asking anyone what they spent the money I gave them on. If
they volunteer that would be one thing, but otherwise out of my hand to
theirs, and their business what they spend it on.

Cheri

"Cheri" > wrote in message
...
>
> "Julie Bove" > wrote in message
> ...
>>
>> "Cheri" > wrote in message
>> ...
>>>
>>> "Julie Bove" > wrote in message
>>> ...
>>>
>>>> A couple of things that I personally would have liked to get were a
>>>> Crock-Pot (I did actually get one not long after we were married as a
>>>> Christmas present) and a fondue pot. But... I do like to cook!
>>>
>>> I always give money, it's never been returned. ;-)
>>
>> I'm to the point where I prefer that myself. Gift cards can be okay but
>> I have gotten some for stores where I never shop and when I have tried to
>> shop there, I saw nothing that I wanted. So money works the best. I
>> just hate it when the giver demands that I tell them what I spent the
>> money on. And then gets mad at me when I say something like... I bought
>> groceries! Heck, sometimes you are to the point where that is all that
>> you need. I guess people have in their minds that you will spend the
>> money on some extravagant thing that you otherwise wouldn't have bought
>> for yourself. That's just not me.
>
> I can't imagine asking anyone what they spent the money I gave them on. If
> they volunteer that would be one thing, but otherwise out of my hand to
> theirs, and their business what they spend it on.

They have even given it to me with the stipulation that I *have* to spend it
on myself. This after I was given a gift card and couldn't find a thing at
that store that I wanted or needed. But... Angela's birthday is about a
month after mine so I bought her something for her birthday. When the giver
asked me what I used the gift card on and I told her, she told me that I
shouldn't have done that.

When I was a kid and someone gave us money, my parents always made us go out
and spend it then write to the giver and tell them specifically what we
bought and that if we had to kick in some of our own money, we were to tell
them this as well. I always dreaded both tasks.

Mark Thorson > wrote in :

> My niece is getting married, and I'm currently
> thinking about giving the Waring WCT704 toaster.
> It has two long wide slots which can do four
> slices of regular bread at once, or a couple
> slices of crudely thick-sliced rustic bread.
>
> I don't know whether my niece cooks, but it's
> doubtful because her mother doesn't. Therefore
> a toaster oven or microwave oven might not be
> useful. And they might already have a microwave,
> but not a mighty toaster like the WCT704.
>
> They're Mormons, so no coffee gadgets.
>
> I gave some thought to a SodaStream, but I can't
> be sure that would be used. That's more of a
> foodie type item. Same thing for a juicer or
> water distiller. For sure, no deep fryer or
> sous vide cooker. I did consider a Ronco
> rotissiere, but that's probably too far out
> of the box.
>
> A toaster might be the closest thing that would
> actually get used. I'm thinking toaster + a
> good bread knife.
>
> I'd like to hear suggestions. Does anyone know
> of an unexpected gift that would be spectacularly
> useful for a young couple? (Not necessarily
> food-related, of course.)
>

You can sometimes find one of these new-in-box. They are spectacular.
http://www.amazon.com/Cuisinart-LPP-...uicer/product-
reviews/B00000J9DV

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You can cover up your guts, but when you cover up your nuts
You're admitting that there must be something wrong.
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Winters_Lackey wrote:
>
> You can sometimes find one of these new-in-box. They are spectacular.
> http://www.amazon.com/Cuisinart-LPP-...uicer/product-
> reviews/B00000J9DV

No, too foodie. People who don't cook
will make toast, but they have no use
for a machine that processes fresh fruit
or vegetables.

"Mark Thorson" > wrote in message
...
> My niece is getting married, and I'm currently
> thinking about giving the Waring WCT704 toaster.
> It has two long wide slots which can do four
> slices of regular bread at once, or a couple
> slices of crudely thick-sliced rustic bread.
>
> I don't know whether my niece cooks, but it's
> doubtful because her mother doesn't. Therefore
> a toaster oven or microwave oven might not be
> useful. And they might already have a microwave,
> but not a mighty toaster like the WCT704.
>
> They're Mormons, so no coffee gadgets.
>
> I gave some thought to a SodaStream, but I can't
> be sure that would be used. That's more of a
> foodie type item. Same thing for a juicer or
> water distiller. For sure, no deep fryer or
> sous vide cooker. I did consider a Ronco
> rotissiere, but that's probably too far out
> of the box.
>
> A toaster might be the closest thing that would
> actually get used. I'm thinking toaster + a
> good bread knife.
>
> I'd like to hear suggestions. Does anyone know
> of an unexpected gift that would be spectacularly
> useful for a young couple? (Not necessarily
> food-related, of course.)

The whole point of a bridal registry is so they do no get unexpected gifts
or more than one of the same gift. But even when you buy them a gift on the
registry you are taking your chances as I learned from bitter experience
years ago when the bride spat in my face during her reception line because
she was offended by the gift I gave her which was on her list yet not
sufficiently expensive enough for her. So by sticking to the registry you
at least have plausible deniability when she hates your gift.

My advice: stay home. If you can't afford something expensive don't bother.

In article >, says...
>
> "Mark Thorson" > wrote in message
> ...
> > My niece is getting married, and I'm currently
> > thinking about giving the Waring WCT704 toaster.
> > It has two long wide slots which can do four
> > slices of regular bread at once, or a couple
> > slices of crudely thick-sliced rustic bread.
> >
> > I don't know whether my niece cooks, but it's
> > doubtful because her mother doesn't. Therefore
> > a toaster oven or microwave oven might not be
> > useful. And they might already have a microwave,
> > but not a mighty toaster like the WCT704.
> >
> > They're Mormons, so no coffee gadgets.
> >
> > I gave some thought to a SodaStream, but I can't
> > be sure that would be used. That's more of a
> > foodie type item. Same thing for a juicer or
> > water distiller. For sure, no deep fryer or
> > sous vide cooker. I did consider a Ronco
> > rotissiere, but that's probably too far out
> > of the box.
> >
> > A toaster might be the closest thing that would
> > actually get used. I'm thinking toaster + a
> > good bread knife.
> >
> > I'd like to hear suggestions. Does anyone know
> > of an unexpected gift that would be spectacularly
> > useful for a young couple? (Not necessarily
> > food-related, of course.)
>
> The whole point of a bridal registry is so they do no get unexpected gifts
> or more than one of the same gift. But even when you buy them a gift on the
> registry you are taking your chances as I learned from bitter experience
> years ago when the bride spat in my face during her reception line because
> she was offended by the gift I gave her which was on her list yet not
> sufficiently expensive enough for her. So by sticking to the registry you
> at least have plausible deniability when she hates your gift.
>
> My advice: stay home. If you can't afford something expensive don't bother.

Ouch!

I'd have taken my gift back and got a refund.

"Yellow" > wrote in message
T...
> In article >, says...
>>
>> "Mark Thorson" > wrote in message
>> ...
>> > My niece is getting married, and I'm currently
>> > thinking about giving the Waring WCT704 toaster.
>> > It has two long wide slots which can do four
>> > slices of regular bread at once, or a couple
>> > slices of crudely thick-sliced rustic bread.
>> >
>> > I don't know whether my niece cooks, but it's
>> > doubtful because her mother doesn't. Therefore
>> > a toaster oven or microwave oven might not be
>> > useful. And they might already have a microwave,
>> > but not a mighty toaster like the WCT704.
>> >
>> > They're Mormons, so no coffee gadgets.
>> >
>> > I gave some thought to a SodaStream, but I can't
>> > be sure that would be used. That's more of a
>> > foodie type item. Same thing for a juicer or
>> > water distiller. For sure, no deep fryer or
>> > sous vide cooker. I did consider a Ronco
>> > rotissiere, but that's probably too far out
>> > of the box.
>> >
>> > A toaster might be the closest thing that would
>> > actually get used. I'm thinking toaster + a
>> > good bread knife.
>> >
>> > I'd like to hear suggestions. Does anyone know
>> > of an unexpected gift that would be spectacularly
>> > useful for a young couple? (Not necessarily
>> > food-related, of course.)
>>
>> The whole point of a bridal registry is so they do no get unexpected
>> gifts
>> or more than one of the same gift. But even when you buy them a gift on
>> the
>> registry you are taking your chances as I learned from bitter experience
>> years ago when the bride spat in my face during her reception line
>> because
>> she was offended by the gift I gave her which was on her list yet not
>> sufficiently expensive enough for her. So by sticking to the registry
>> you
>> at least have plausible deniability when she hates your gift.
>>
>> My advice: stay home. If you can't afford something expensive don't
>> bother.
>
> Ouch!
>
> I'd have taken my gift back and got a refund.

At the time I was known for making a lot of money and having expensive
taste. Which was true but I didn't even know this gal. She was the sister
of my girlfriend. I met her two times in 3 years. But I was expected to
buy her something expensive nonetheless. When I say spat in my face I mean
she all BUT spat in my face. She was ****ED.

Other have said it best; just give cash. And don't scrimp on the envelope.
Get a nice embossed one. No spit to close it. Use sealing wax.

On 5/25/2014 8:26 AM, Paul M. Cook wrote:

> At the time I was known for making a lot of money and having expensive
> taste. Which was true but I didn't even know this gal. She was the sister
> of my girlfriend. I met her two times in 3 years. But I was expected to
> buy her something expensive nonetheless. When I say spat in my face I mean
> she all BUT spat in my face. She was ****ED.


I've never been to a wedding where the bride looks at the gifts.
Usually they are opened after the reception is over.

Are you sure it wasn't a bridal shower? That's when the gifts are
opened in front of every one.


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Way-the-heck-south Texas
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In article om>,
says...

> I've never been to a wedding where the bride looks at the gifts.
> Usually they are opened after the reception is over.

I went to one where all gifts were supposed to be purchased at a gift
registry store and most of it cost many hundreds of pounds. The cheapest
item was £40 for a single cup in the designated coffee set.

At the wedding reception, all the (unwrapped) gifts were laid out on
display with the givers name. How vulgar.

Janet UK

"Janet Wilder" > wrote in message
eb.com...
> On 5/25/2014 8:26 AM, Paul M. Cook wrote:
>
>> At the time I was known for making a lot of money and having expensive
>> taste. Which was true but I didn't even know this gal. She was the
>> sister
>> of my girlfriend. I met her two times in 3 years. But I was expected to
>> buy her something expensive nonetheless. When I say spat in my face I
>> mean
>> she all BUT spat in my face. She was ****ED.
>
>
> I've never been to a wedding where the bride looks at the gifts. Usually
> they are opened after the reception is over.
>
> Are you sure it wasn't a bridal shower? That's when the gifts are opened
> in front of every one.

Apparently they opened them the night before. And I am pretty sure the
bride took a shower before the wedding.



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"Paul M. Cook" wrote:
>
> The whole point of a bridal registry is so they do no get unexpected gifts
> or more than one of the same gift. But even when you buy them a gift on the
> registry you are taking your chances as I learned from bitter experience
> years ago when the bride spat in my face during her reception line because
> she was offended by the gift I gave her which was on her list yet not
> sufficiently expensive enough for her.

No. Come on now,Paul. That can't really happen in real life. The bride
spat in your face at her wedding reception because you gave her a
cheap gift? LOL! What the hell kind of friends you do have?

G.

On 5/25/2014 10:21 AM, Gary wrote:
> "Paul M. Cook" wrote:
>>
>> The whole point of a bridal registry is so they do no get unexpected gifts
>> or more than one of the same gift. But even when you buy them a gift on the
>> registry you are taking your chances as I learned from bitter experience
>> years ago when the bride spat in my face during her reception line because
>> she was offended by the gift I gave her which was on her list yet not
>> sufficiently expensive enough for her.
>
> No. Come on now,Paul. That can't really happen in real life. The bride
> spat in your face at her wedding reception because you gave her a
> cheap gift? LOL! What the hell kind of friends you do have?

Methinks there's more to the story because that is ridiculous.

nancy