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On 8/10/2016 9:05 AM, Cindy Hamilton wrote:
> They do that in the U.S., too, as well as working evenings on > lesson plans, grading, etc. Here teachers have sections of their day to do things like that, they aren't booked solid all day. It's up to them to decide if they'd rather correct papers at home. nancy |
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On Wednesday, August 10, 2016 at 12:40:58 AM UTC-6, sf wrote:
> On Tue, 9 Aug 2016 22:01:45 -0400, jmcquown > > wrote: > > > I've never encountered a problem if you ask up front to keep up with who > > ordered what. Kind of tacky, but I understand not wanting to pay for a > > "grazer" who won't put in their fare share of the bill. > > The restaurant I'm talking about won't do individual tickets for a > group, and it doesn't have an Olive Garden type system that separates > out orders on one bill. > So...don't patronize that restaurant...or make up your own itemized list amongst your group. What's so difficult about that? ==== |
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On 8/9/2016 11:59 PM, Ed Pawlowski wrote:
> On 8/9/2016 10:01 PM, jmcquown wrote: > >>> >> I don't throw in money to pay for someone who had an extra appetizer or >> a cup of soup. Separate checks or how to divide the bill is well >> established before walking into a restaurant. > My guidelines are simple and it does not matter who eats what or the > cost of it. > I pay 100% > You pay 100% > We split 50-50 > > Most times it is only two couples making it simple as we've probably > done it before. That's how it is with me, I don't like nitpicking around the check, oh, you had the soup, that's a dollar more than my salad. I'll just pay or the other person will pay, or we'll split it. I don't eat out with people whom I begrudge buying a drink or whatever. A work situation is harder, it's what comes of having social functions with a bunch of people who are just random people thrown together by employment. Maybe you've become actual friends with one or two. In the group there's always someone who takes advantage, in my experience, and they mess it up for everyone. nancy |
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On 8/10/2016 2:21 AM, sf wrote:
> On Tue, 9 Aug 2016 23:59:44 -0400, Ed Pawlowski > wrote: > >> Most times it is only two couples making it simple as we've probably >> done it before. > > The situation isn't a couples thing. It's a gathering of ex-coworkers > who get together to socialize over brunch every so often. > Same idea. if six people eat breakfast one will have a coffee and pastry, another will have the super omelette, everyone else will have a $6 to $7 dish. Total it up, add 20%, divide by six. If you are worried about paying an extra $1.30 you probably are not enjoying the outing. |
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On Wed, 10 Aug 2016 15:54:22 +1000, Bruce >
wrote: >In article >, says... >> >> I don't throw in money to pay for someone who had an extra appetizer >> or a cup of soup. Separate checks or how to divide the bill is well >> established before walking into a restaurant. > >I only understand this kind of money pinching from people who are poor. >A cup of soup, give me a break. In my experience it's generally poor people who are generous and it's wealthy people who are misers/schnorers. Even as a kid delivering newpapers, groceries, or whatever it was regular working people who were good tippers, wealthy people would stiff me. Wealthy people are used to having others do for them, hardworking people are much more in touch with values and tipped well. I don't eat out anymore but when I was still working and went out with friends we'd split the check down the middle, didn't matter who had what, with true friends over time it all evened out. Those who took advantage weren't friends very long. Where I worked the whole shop would plan a holiday dinner, usually at a local catering place, we'd all decide on menu options and the total cost would be split evenly among all who chose to attend and money collected in advance (which of course is indeed separate checks but without benefit of a CPA), everyone went up to the bar and bought their own drinks. I'd always decline going out with a group where everyone argued over who had what when the check arrived, the pettyness ruined the occasion... and I don't do separate checks either, because then the miserly ingrates argue with the server in front of the entire restaurant, which is very low class and embarrassing... been there, seen that, will never happen again, never separate checks. Anyone invites me to a group meal and says we're doing separate checks, see ya. |
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On Wed, 10 Aug 2016 09:27:03 -0700 (PDT), Roy >
wrote: >On Wednesday, August 10, 2016 at 12:40:58 AM UTC-6, sf wrote: >> On Tue, 9 Aug 2016 22:01:45 -0400, jmcquown > >> wrote: >> >> > I've never encountered a problem if you ask up front to keep up with who >> > ordered what. Kind of tacky, but I understand not wanting to pay for a >> > "grazer" who won't put in their fare share of the bill. It's much less problematic to meet at a diner and dine at the counter... some acquaintances would be wise to ask for separate tables rather than separate checks. >> >> The restaurant I'm talking about won't do individual tickets for a >> group, and it doesn't have an Olive Garden type system that separates >> out orders on one bill. >> >So...don't patronize that restaurant...or make up your own itemized list amongst your group. What's so difficult about that? Better they rethink being a group... people like that are not friends, they are barely acquaintances... they'd be happier meeting at a cafeteria, something like the Golden Corral. |
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In article >, gravesend10
@verizon.net says... > > On Wed, 10 Aug 2016 15:54:22 +1000, Bruce > > wrote: > > >In article >, says... > >> > >> I don't throw in money to pay for someone who had an extra appetizer > >> or a cup of soup. Separate checks or how to divide the bill is well > >> established before walking into a restaurant. > > > >I only understand this kind of money pinching from people who are poor. > >A cup of soup, give me a break. > > In my experience it's generally poor people who are generous and it's > wealthy people who are misers/schnorers. Schnorer is now my Yiddish word of the month. It almost sounds like what it means. > Even as a kid delivering > newpapers, groceries, or whatever it was regular working people who > were good tippers, wealthy people would stiff me. Wealthy people are > used to having others do for them, hardworking people are much more in > touch with values and tipped well. I don't eat out anymore but when > I was still working and went out with friends we'd split the check > down the middle, didn't matter who had what, with true friends over > time it all evened out. That's it. Schnorers waste half their life counting their pennies. > Those who took advantage weren't friends very > long. Where I worked the whole shop would plan a holiday dinner, > usually at a local catering place, we'd all decide on menu options and > the total cost would be split evenly among all who chose to attend and > money collected in advance (which of course is indeed separate checks > but without benefit of a CPA), everyone went up to the bar and bought > their own drinks. I'd always decline going out with a group where > everyone argued over who had what when the check arrived, the > pettyness ruined the occasion... and I don't do separate checks > either, because then the miserly ingrates argue with the server in > front of the entire restaurant, which is very low class and > embarrassing... been there, seen that, will never happen again, never > separate checks. Anyone invites me to a group meal and says we're > doing separate checks, see ya. I agree. |
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On 8/10/2016 3:01 PM, Brooklyn1 wrote:
> On Wed, 10 Aug 2016 15:54:22 +1000, Bruce > > wrote: > >> In article >, says... >>> >>> I don't throw in money to pay for someone who had an extra appetizer >>> or a cup of soup. Separate checks or how to divide the bill is well >>> established before walking into a restaurant. >> >> I only understand this kind of money pinching from people who are poor. >> A cup of soup, give me a break. > (sorry to piggy-back, Sheldon) Classic Bruce snippage and useless editorializing. You don't understand there is often *someone* in a group of co-workers eating out together who try to take advantage? Guess you've never gone out to lunch in a large group. Most restaurants don't have a problem with separate checks. The people who have dined with a person who orders more food and drinks might have a problem. It is not difficult for a server to handle separate checks. You start taking orders clockwise at the first chair at the table. Switch order tickets, next order. You count the chairs and keep the tickets in that order. Time to pay the bill, no one is paying for something they didn't eat or drink. No one has to try to divvy up the bill. It's simple. It's fair. Jill |
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On Wed, 10 Aug 2016 06:05:43 -0700 (PDT), Cindy Hamilton
> wrote: >On Wednesday, August 10, 2016 at 8:26:26 AM UTC-4, Janet wrote: >> In article >, gravesend10 >> @verizon.net says... >> > >> > Ed Pawlowski wrote: >> > >Julie Bove wrote: >> > > >> > >> My friend in TX works for a good restaurant, but... They frequently have >> > >> her doing the catering stuff instead of working in the actual restaurant >> > >> and she gets no tips for that. >> > >> >> > >> Don't the teachers where you are have to go to school during the summer? >> > >> Here they do. Perhaps not every year but every so often. >> > > >> > >Some do. More education = more money. >> > >> > Here the school district won't hire a teacher with just a BA in >> > education, without a Masters no interview. Many of the teachers here >> > opt to teach summer school. Many go to school at night and work >> > towards another degree. Teachers work a short day and have lots of >> > time off, they have plenty of time to take classes. >> >> <snort> short day? >> >> Pupils here work a short school day. Teachers here work a long day, >> setting out their room before the first class, marking pupils work, >> keeping records, preparing material for the next day. > >They do that in the U.S., too, as well as working evenings on >lesson plans, grading, etc. Sheldon doesn't know what he's >talking about. Bullshit... I was married to a teacher for years, socialized with many. Teachers today try to sell that ancient history bill of goods you described but nothing is further from the truth. The hardest work teaches have been doing for the past thirty years is meeting at their favorite watering hole ten minutes after the 3 PM bell and hoisting glasses up until they have to rush home and pop the family dinner in the microwave. Teachers have free periods every day and also student study periods to supervise/babysit, plenty of time to prepare the little that needs any prep... for years now it's all on computer. At home maybe one evening a week they spend ane hour grading one page essays. Too bad yoose two are living a hundred years ago in the days of one room school houses with one school marm who filled fourteen ink wells. You'e talking about when I started grade school, long, LONG before chalk boards, we had black boards. I believe the day will arrive soon when there are no more school buildings to support and Teacher will be an obsolete occupation, education will all be home schooling on a screen. |
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On 2016-08-10 12:43 PM, Nancy Young wrote:
> On 8/9/2016 11:59 PM, Ed Pawlowski wrote: > > A work situation is harder, it's what comes of having social functions > with a bunch of people who are just random people thrown together > by employment. Maybe you've become actual friends with one or two. > In the group there's always someone who takes advantage, in my > experience, and they mess it up for everyone. > Funny how that works in work group situations. There is always one who, if he/she expects an even split, will be sure to order more or more expensive, and expect others to subsidize them. Then there are those who, if being expected to pay their fair share, will try to pay less. That leaves the person handling things to make up the difference. All the more reason for separate checks. I know it is more work for servers, but they are the people dealing with the diners and handling the money and what they expect a tip for. |
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In article >, says...
> > On 8/10/2016 3:01 PM, Brooklyn1 wrote: > > On Wed, 10 Aug 2016 15:54:22 +1000, Bruce > > > wrote: > > > >> In article >, says... > >>> > >>> I don't throw in money to pay for someone who had an extra appetizer > >>> or a cup of soup. Separate checks or how to divide the bill is well > >>> established before walking into a restaurant. > >> > >> I only understand this kind of money pinching from people who are poor. > >> A cup of soup, give me a break. > > > (sorry to piggy-back, Sheldon) > > Classic Bruce snippage and useless editorializing. Thanks, I didn't know I had a classic style ![]() > You don't understand > there is often *someone* in a group of co-workers eating out together > who try to take advantage? As I said, I can understand it in a work situation, especially a recurring one. Among friends it's different. > Guess you've never gone out to lunch in a > large group. Most restaurants don't have a problem with separate > checks. The people who have dined with a person who orders more food > and drinks might have a problem. > > It is not difficult for a server to handle separate checks. You start > taking orders clockwise at the first chair at the table. Switch order > tickets, next order. You count the chairs and keep the tickets in that > order. I wasn't talking from the point of view of the server. > Time to pay the bill, no one is paying for something they didn't eat or > drink. No one has to try to divvy up the bill. It's simple. It's fair. If this kind of stuff worries you a lot, you should always divide the bill. |
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Nancy Young wrote:
>Cindy Hamilton wrote: > >> They do that in the U.S., too, as well as working evenings on >> lesson plans, grading, etc. > >Here teachers have sections of their day to do things >like that, they aren't booked solid all day. It's up to >them to decide if they'd rather correct papers at home. Thank you, Nancy. |
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On Wed, 10 Aug 2016 13:22:44 -0400, Ed Pawlowski > wrote:
> On 8/10/2016 2:21 AM, sf wrote: > > On Tue, 9 Aug 2016 23:59:44 -0400, Ed Pawlowski > wrote: > > > >> Most times it is only two couples making it simple as we've probably > >> done it before. > > > > The situation isn't a couples thing. It's a gathering of ex-coworkers > > who get together to socialize over brunch every so often. > > > > Same idea. if six people eat breakfast one will have a coffee and > pastry, another will have the super omelette, everyone else will have a > $6 to $7 dish. Total it up, add 20%, divide by six. > > If you are worried about paying an extra $1.30 you probably are not > enjoying the outing. It was a hell of a lot more than $1.30. -- I love cooking with wine. Sometimes I even put it in the food. |
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On Wed, 10 Aug 2016 13:26:23 +0100, Janet > wrote:
> In article >, gravesend10 > @verizon.net says... > > > > Ed Pawlowski wrote: > > >Julie Bove wrote: > > > > > >> My friend in TX works for a good restaurant, but... They frequently have > > >> her doing the catering stuff instead of working in the actual restaurant > > >> and she gets no tips for that. > > >> > > >> Don't the teachers where you are have to go to school during the summer? > > >> Here they do. Perhaps not every year but every so often. > > > > > >Some do. More education = more money. > > > > Here the school district won't hire a teacher with just a BA in > > education, without a Masters no interview. Many of the teachers here > > opt to teach summer school. Many go to school at night and work > > towards another degree. Teachers work a short day and have lots of > > time off, they have plenty of time to take classes. > > <snort> short day? > > Pupils here work a short school day. Teachers here work a long day, > setting out their room before the first class, marking pupils work, > keeping records, preparing material for the next day. > He's out of touch with reality. -- I love cooking with wine. Sometimes I even put it in the food. |
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On Wed, 10 Aug 2016 06:05:43 -0700 (PDT), Cindy Hamilton
> wrote: > IIRC, Michigan teachers have to take some sort of course work in the > summer to keep their certification, although it might be that once > they've attained a level of experience or education that is waived. No. Continuing education is required, just like is for doctors and nurses. -- I love cooking with wine. Sometimes I even put it in the food. |
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On Wed, 10 Aug 2016 10:47:04 -0400, Nancy Young
> wrote: > On 8/10/2016 9:05 AM, Cindy Hamilton wrote: > > > They do that in the U.S., too, as well as working evenings on > > lesson plans, grading, etc. > > Here teachers have sections of their day to do things > like that, they aren't booked solid all day. It's up to > them to decide if they'd rather correct papers at home. > It's not like that everywhere, especially at the elementary level. At the upper levels, there's always more work to do than time allotted to do it in. -- I love cooking with wine. Sometimes I even put it in the food. |
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![]() "sf" > wrote in message ... > On Wed, 10 Aug 2016 13:26:23 +0100, Janet > wrote: > >> In article >, gravesend10 >> @verizon.net says... >> > >> > Ed Pawlowski wrote: >> > >Julie Bove wrote: >> > > >> > >> My friend in TX works for a good restaurant, but... They frequently >> > >> have >> > >> her doing the catering stuff instead of working in the actual >> > >> restaurant >> > >> and she gets no tips for that. >> > >> >> > >> Don't the teachers where you are have to go to school during the >> > >> summer? >> > >> Here they do. Perhaps not every year but every so often. >> > > >> > >Some do. More education = more money. >> > >> > Here the school district won't hire a teacher with just a BA in >> > education, without a Masters no interview. Many of the teachers here >> > opt to teach summer school. Many go to school at night and work >> > towards another degree. Teachers work a short day and have lots of >> > time off, they have plenty of time to take classes. >> >> <snort> short day? >> >> Pupils here work a short school day. Teachers here work a long day, >> setting out their room before the first class, marking pupils work, >> keeping records, preparing material for the next day. >> > He's out of touch with reality. I suppose it depends on what they are teaching and where. I know people who have taught a single class per day at the community college. I guess you could call that a short day but it's not enough to live off of. |
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On 8/11/2016 12:05 AM, sf wrote:
> On Wed, 10 Aug 2016 10:47:04 -0400, Nancy Young > > wrote: > >> On 8/10/2016 9:05 AM, Cindy Hamilton wrote: >> >>> They do that in the U.S., too, as well as working evenings on >>> lesson plans, grading, etc. >> >> Here teachers have sections of their day to do things >> like that, they aren't booked solid all day. It's up to >> them to decide if they'd rather correct papers at home. >> > It's not like that everywhere, especially at the elementary level. At > the upper levels, there's always more work to do than time allotted to > do it in. > My D-I-L is an elementary school teacher. She puts in long hours especially at report card time. Graham |
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On 8/11/2016 9:21 AM, graham wrote:
> On 8/11/2016 12:05 AM, sf wrote: >> On Wed, 10 Aug 2016 10:47:04 -0400, Nancy Young >> > wrote: >> >>> On 8/10/2016 9:05 AM, Cindy Hamilton wrote: >>> >>>> They do that in the U.S., too, as well as working evenings on >>>> lesson plans, grading, etc. >>> >>> Here teachers have sections of their day to do things >>> like that, they aren't booked solid all day. It's up to >>> them to decide if they'd rather correct papers at home. >>> >> It's not like that everywhere, especially at the elementary level. At >> the upper levels, there's always more work to do than time allotted to >> do it in. >> > My D-I-L is an elementary school teacher. She puts in long hours > especially at report card time. It was the same in my job. My hours could be excrutiating at tax time and I was also on call 24/7. nancy |
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On Thu, 11 Aug 2016 07:21:06 -0600, graham > wrote:
>On 8/11/2016 12:05 AM, sf wrote: >> On Wed, 10 Aug 2016 10:47:04 -0400, Nancy Young >> > wrote: >> >>> On 8/10/2016 9:05 AM, Cindy Hamilton wrote: >>> >>>> They do that in the U.S., too, as well as working evenings on >>>> lesson plans, grading, etc. >>> >>> Here teachers have sections of their day to do things >>> like that, they aren't booked solid all day. It's up to >>> them to decide if they'd rather correct papers at home. >>> >> It's not like that everywhere, especially at the elementary level. At >> the upper levels, there's always more work to do than time allotted to >> do it in. >> >My D-I-L is an elementary school teacher. She puts in long hours >especially at report card time. That's what they tell people who don't know... how long do you think it takes to fill in say 20-30 report cards... I've seen it done many times for 5th grade, no more than one minute each.... sometimes it's done in the bathroom while sitting on the toilet, why waste time when they can multi-task. I was married to a 5th grade teacher, I know very well what their work day is like... their most difficult function is Parent's Teacher's day, but that's only once a year and for less hours than a regular teaching day... it's dreaded because some parents can be undisaplined, explains why their little monster fails everything. I hung out with lots of grade school teachers, they tend to keep with other grade school teachers, no one else would tolerate them... they've never had to operate in the real world, they've been in academia all their lives, institutionalized from kindergarten till retirement, the spoiled brats don't know anything else. Very often their students are more intelligent. |
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On Thu, 11 Aug 2016 09:43:31 -0400, Nancy Young
> wrote: >On 8/11/2016 9:21 AM, graham wrote: >> On 8/11/2016 12:05 AM, sf wrote: >>> On Wed, 10 Aug 2016 10:47:04 -0400, Nancy Young >>> > wrote: >>> >>>> On 8/10/2016 9:05 AM, Cindy Hamilton wrote: >>>> >>>>> They do that in the U.S., too, as well as working evenings on >>>>> lesson plans, grading, etc. >>>> >>>> Here teachers have sections of their day to do things >>>> like that, they aren't booked solid all day. It's up to >>>> them to decide if they'd rather correct papers at home. >>>> >>> It's not like that everywhere, especially at the elementary level. At >>> the upper levels, there's always more work to do than time allotted to >>> do it in. >>> >> My D-I-L is an elementary school teacher. She puts in long hours >> especially at report card time. > >It was the same in my job. My hours could be excrutiating at >tax time and I was also on call 24/7. > >nancy I don't know what your job was but I do know that preparing taxes is a lot more difficult and far more time consuming than filling out report cards. It only takes about one minute to fill out a report card... the grades and attendance are kept in a journal all along, only needs to be transfered, and at the end a one sentence comment. |
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On 8/11/2016 2:45 AM, Julie Bove wrote:
> > > I suppose it depends on what they are teaching and where. I know people > who have taught a single class per day at the community college. I guess > you could call that a short day but it's not enough to live off of. Average professor wage at UCONN is $187,000. Working at that rate one day a week is $37,000. If your spouse works or you are getting other income, you can get by. |
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