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On Wednesday, August 10, 2016 at 10:09:49 PM UTC-4, Julie Bove wrote:
> "Dave Smith" > wrote in message > ... > > On 2016-08-10 1:41 PM, jmcquown wrote: > >> On 8/9/2016 7:01 PM, Julie Bove wrote: > >>> Cutting a melon is nothing like that. My husband can eat melons faster > >>> than I can cut them up and he has no patience whatever. For that reason, > >>> I haven't bought any melons this season. > >> > >> Tell him to cut his own damn melons. Is he truly as helpless as you > >> describe? > >> > > Maybe the questions is how slowly she cuts and how much he eats. I cannot > > imagine someone being able to scarf down a piece of melon faster than it > > takes to make a cut. Based on good she his at piling up the bullshit, I > > would expect her to be fast enough with a knife. > > He has been known to eat two entire melons and rapidly. I could not cut them > up quickly enough. He is trying to lose weight. Stuff like that won't help. > He is of the mind that if something is good for you or low in calories, then > you should eat a lot of it, provided that you like it. Just another reason I > dislike bringing melons home. He seems to eat other fruits at a slower rate, > but not always. I've had entire bags of cherries and grapes disappear before > anyone else got a shot at them. And sometime between when she bought it and > this morning, he ate an apple that Angela bought for herself. She didn't > hide it because he said that kind of apples (red Delicious) were disgusting > and he wouldn't touch them. This after those being the only kind of apple he > would touch. I can't explain it but I know she won't be happy when she comes > home. She only bought the one and took her time picking it out. Honestly, I think Mr. and Mrs. Bove were made for each other. Perfectly matched in every way. Cindy Hamilton |
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Janet wrote:
> > says... > > I also know that you have no > > clue what sorts of things he does to me! > > Of course we do; you mention often enough, the numerous ways he treats > you like dirt, plays mind games with insatiable demands, gives you the > run around, is rude, lazy, and inconsiderate around the home or when > you're ill or need help. "you have no clue what sort of things he does to me" Oh man.... "DANGER, WILL ROBINSON!" We've heard enough bad and now she's saying that's just the tip of the iceberg? Scary. |
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On 8/11/2016 8:07 AM, Janet wrote:
> In article >, says... >> >> "Cheri" > wrote in message >> ... >>> >>> "Julie Bove" > wrote in message >>> ... >>>> >>>> "jmcquown" > wrote in message >>>> news 
>>>>> On 8/10/2016 2:36 PM, Julie Bove wrote:>>>>>> >>>>>> "jmcquown" > wrote in message >>>>>> ... >>>>>>> On 8/9/2016 7:01 PM, Julie Bove wrote: >>>>>>>> Cutting a melon is nothing like that. My husband can >>>>>>>> eat melons faster than I can cut them up and he has no >>>>>>>> patience whatever. For that reason, I haven't bought >>>>>>>> any melons this season. >>>>>>> >>>>>>> Tell him to cut his own damn melons. Is he truly as >>>>>>> helpless as you describe? >>>>>> >>>>>> I don't even want to imagine the mess he would leave me if >>>>>> he did do this. >>>>> >>>>> So, he can't wipe juice off a surface, either? Wow. That's >>>>> just sad. >>>> >>>> Well, he certainly wouldn't! >>> >>> Julie, do you really think it's fair to keep posting disparaging >>> remarks about your husband? > > .. and her daughter, parents, brother, employers, > friends.....everyone Julie knows, she endlessly chips away at. They > have no skills, no integrity, they are lazy demanding incompetents > and Julie is a martyr to all of them. ^^^^^^ *"they" ^^^^^^ > None of us have ever heard his side of the story, which > I imagine would be totally different, at any rate I'm sure > you wouldn't appreciate him doing the same to you. JMO >> >> I'm to the point of not even caring. In case you haven't noticed, >> the majority here are posting disparaging remarks about him and >> other family members and they don't even know them at all! > > They only repeat the disparaging information you provide on a daily > basis. > >> I also know that you have no clue what sorts of things he does to >> me! > > Of course we do; you mention often enough, the numerous ways he treats > you like dirt, plays mind games with insatiable demands, gives you the > run around, is rude, lazy, and inconsiderate around the home or when > you're ill or need help. One thing's for sure, *"they" have bove very well trained, just like a dog (think come hither or go younder on demand, do this, do that, etc.)! Bove is at their becks and calls for 'service' 24/7/365. There's nothing like an unpaid live-in maid, housekeeper, nanny, driver, gopher, etc. Just don't require bove to fix/replace anything simple like door knobs and locks, then she's less than moronically useless. Sky ================================ Kitchen Rule #1 - Use the timer! Kitchen Rule #2 - Cook's choice! ================================ |
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"Gary" wrote in message ...
Janet wrote: > > says... > > I also know that you have no > > clue what sorts of things he does to me! > > Of course we do; you mention often enough, the numerous ways he treats > you like dirt, plays mind games with insatiable demands, gives you the > run around, is rude, lazy, and inconsiderate around the home or when > you're ill or need help. "you have no clue what sort of things he does to me" Oh man.... "DANGER, WILL ROBINSON!" We've heard enough bad and now she's saying that's just the tip of the iceberg? Scary. ---------------- Would you like such a life? If not why not? If you did have it would you like people constantly making fun of you or being nasty about it? -- http://www.helpforheroes.org.uk |
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On 8/11/2016 10:44 AM, Sky wrote:
> Just don't require bove to fix/replace anything simple like door > knobs and locks, then she's less than moronically useless. She just posted about changing a door knob. She said "we" (RFC) made it sound so easy. But it didn't fit! Took her two days! Guess what? When you go to buy a door knob you take measurements. Check the size of the face plate, the strike plate, etc. If necessary take the old knob set with you to the hardware store and ask for help finding one to replace it. All it takes is common sense and a screwdriver. Truly.  Jill |
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"Ophelia" > wrote in message ... > "Gary" wrote in message ... > > Janet wrote: >> >> says... >> > I also know that you have no >> > clue what sorts of things he does to me! >> >> Of course we do; you mention often enough, the numerous ways he treats >> you like dirt, plays mind games with insatiable demands, gives you the >> run around, is rude, lazy, and inconsiderate around the home or when >> you're ill or need help. > > "you have no clue what sort of things he does to me" > Oh man.... "DANGER, WILL ROBINSON!" > > We've heard enough bad and now she's saying that's just the tip of the > iceberg? Scary. > ---------------- > > Would you like such a life? If not why not? If you did have it would you > like people constantly making fun of you or being nasty about it? How would people even know if it wasn't posted constantly? Anyone can make someone else look bad when only one side is heard. Cheri |
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"Cheri" wrote in message ...
"Ophelia" > wrote in message ... > "Gary" wrote in message ... > > Janet wrote: >> >> says... >> > I also know that you have no >> > clue what sorts of things he does to me! >> >> Of course we do; you mention often enough, the numerous ways he treats >> you like dirt, plays mind games with insatiable demands, gives you the >> run around, is rude, lazy, and inconsiderate around the home or when >> you're ill or need help. > > "you have no clue what sort of things he does to me" > Oh man.... "DANGER, WILL ROBINSON!" > > We've heard enough bad and now she's saying that's just the tip of the > iceberg? Scary. > ---------------- > > Would you like such a life? If not why not? If you did have it would you > like people constantly making fun of you or being nasty about it? How would people even know if it wasn't posted constantly? Anyone can make someone else look bad when only one side is heard. Cheri ---------------- True enough, but even given that, why would anybody take so much pleasure it using it to get at her? I just think it is sad. We all know Julie but it takes a twisted mind to get so much pleasure out of goading her. -- http://www.helpforheroes.org.uk |
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"Ophelia" > wrote in message ... > "Cheri" wrote in message ... > > > "Ophelia" > wrote in message > ... >> "Gary" wrote in message ... >> >> Janet wrote: >>> >>> says... >>> > I also know that you have no >>> > clue what sorts of things he does to me! >>> >>> Of course we do; you mention often enough, the numerous ways he treats >>> you like dirt, plays mind games with insatiable demands, gives you the >>> run around, is rude, lazy, and inconsiderate around the home or when >>> you're ill or need help. >> >> "you have no clue what sort of things he does to me" >> Oh man.... "DANGER, WILL ROBINSON!" >> >> We've heard enough bad and now she's saying that's just the tip of the >> iceberg? Scary. >> ---------------- >> >> Would you like such a life? If not why not? If you did have it would you >> like people constantly making fun of you or being nasty about it? > > How would people even know if it wasn't posted constantly? Anyone can make > someone else look bad when only one side is heard. > > Cheri > > ---------------- > > True enough, but even given that, why would anybody take so much pleasure > it > using it to get at her? I just think it is sad. We all know Julie but it > takes a twisted mind to get so much pleasure out of goading her. Yes, it does. Cheri |
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Cheri wrote:
> > "Ophelia" wrote: > > Would you like such a life? If not why not? If you did have it would you > > like people constantly making fun of you or being nasty about it? > > How would people even know if it wasn't posted constantly? Anyone can make > someone else look bad when only one side is heard. She opens up "her side" of the marriage so certainly some people will comment. True though that we don't know his side of the story. She does invite comments though, O. According to her, the guy is a tyrant and mentally/emotionally abusive as hell. The white glove test won me over years ago. Then the dinners on demand so she has to cook his meals in advance just so she can feed him within minutes of showing up unannounced. Do you do that for your husband? |
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On 8/11/2016 9:04 AM, Gary wrote:
> Cheri wrote: >> >> "Ophelia" wrote: >>> Would you like such a life? If not why not? If you did have it would you >>> like people constantly making fun of you or being nasty about it? >> >> How would people even know if it wasn't posted constantly? Anyone can make >> someone else look bad when only one side is heard. > > She opens up "her side" of the marriage so certainly some people will > comment. True though that we don't know his side of the story. She does > invite comments though, O. According to her, the guy is a tyrant and > mentally/emotionally abusive as hell. The white glove test won me over > years ago. Then the dinners on demand so she has to cook his meals in > advance just so she can feed him within minutes of showing up > unannounced. > > Do you do that for your husband? > does she? |
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"Gary" > wrote in message ... > Cheri wrote: >> >> "Ophelia" wrote: >> > Would you like such a life? If not why not? If you did have it would >> > you >> > like people constantly making fun of you or being nasty about it? >> >> How would people even know if it wasn't posted constantly? Anyone can >> make >> someone else look bad when only one side is heard. > > She opens up "her side" of the marriage so certainly some people will > comment. True though that we don't know his side of the story. She does > invite comments though, O. According to her, the guy is a tyrant and > mentally/emotionally abusive as hell. The white glove test won me over > years ago. Then the dinners on demand so she has to cook his meals in > advance just so she can feed him within minutes of showing up > unannounced. > > Do you do that for your husband? Of course. LOL Seriously, I just think that if you are living with someone, using their income as well as yours and availing yourself of anything else they might bring to the relationship, you at least owe it to them to not be bad mouthing them on social media, if it's that bad...leave them and make it on your own with no excuses as to why you can't, otherwise just shut up about it. My opinion only. Cheri |
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"Gary" wrote in message ...
Cheri wrote: > > "Ophelia" wrote: > > Would you like such a life? If not why not? If you did have it would > > you > > like people constantly making fun of you or being nasty about it? > > How would people even know if it wasn't posted constantly? Anyone can make > someone else look bad when only one side is heard. She opens up "her side" of the marriage so certainly some people will comment. True though that we don't know his side of the story. She does invite comments though, O. According to her, the guy is a tyrant and mentally/emotionally abusive as hell. The white glove test won me over years ago. Then the dinners on demand so she has to cook his meals in advance just so she can feed him within minutes of showing up unannounced. Do you do that for your husband? -------------------- Are you asking me? No of course not, but not everyone is me. Bullying makes me feel sick and that is what is going on here. Grab or even invent a reason and bully away wooopeeee! -- http://www.helpforheroes.org.uk |
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"Gary" wrote in message ...
Cheri wrote: > > "Ophelia" wrote: > > Would you like such a life? If not why not? If you did have it would > > you > > like people constantly making fun of you or being nasty about it? > > How would people even know if it wasn't posted constantly? Anyone can make > someone else look bad when only one side is heard. She opens up "her side" of the marriage so certainly some people will comment. True though that we don't know his side of the story. She does invite comments though, O. According to her, the guy is a tyrant and mentally/emotionally abusive as hell. The white glove test won me over years ago. Then the dinners on demand so she has to cook his meals in advance just so she can feed him within minutes of showing up unannounced. Do you do that for your husband? -------------------- Are you asking me? No of course not, but not everyone is me. Bullying makes me feel sick and that is what is going on here. Grab or even invent a reason and bully away wooopeeee! -- http://www.helpforheroes.org.uk |
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On Thu, 11 Aug 2016, Ophelia wrote: > "Gary" wrote in message ... > > Cheri wrote: >> >> "Ophelia" wrote: >> > Would you like such a life? If not why not? If you did have it would >> > you >> > like people constantly making fun of you or being nasty about it? >> >> How would people even know if it wasn't posted constantly? Anyone can make >> someone else look bad when only one side is heard. > > She opens up "her side" of the marriage so certainly some people will > comment. True though that we don't know his side of the story. She does > invite comments though, O. According to her, the guy is a tyrant and > mentally/emotionally abusive as hell. The white glove test won me over > years ago. Then the dinners on demand so she has to cook his meals in > advance just so she can feed him within minutes of showing up > unannounced. > > Do you do that for your husband? > > -------------------- > > Are you asking me? No of course not, but not everyone is me. > > Bullying makes me feel sick and that is what is going on here. Grab or even > invent a reason and bully away wooopeeee! It's not bullying. She opens the way for commentary by sharing TMI, then gets annoyed that people have something to say about it. |
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"barbie gee" wrote in message
hcrg.pbz... On Thu, 11 Aug 2016, Ophelia wrote: > "Gary" wrote in message ... > > Cheri wrote: >> >> "Ophelia" wrote: >> > Would you like such a life? If not why not? If you did have it would >> > you >> > like people constantly making fun of you or being nasty about it? >> >> How would people even know if it wasn't posted constantly? Anyone can >> make >> someone else look bad when only one side is heard. > > She opens up "her side" of the marriage so certainly some people will > comment. True though that we don't know his side of the story. She does > invite comments though, O. According to her, the guy is a tyrant and > mentally/emotionally abusive as hell. The white glove test won me over > years ago. Then the dinners on demand so she has to cook his meals in > advance just so she can feed him within minutes of showing up > unannounced. > > Do you do that for your husband? > > -------------------- > > Are you asking me? No of course not, but not everyone is me. > > Bullying makes me feel sick and that is what is going on here. Grab or > even > invent a reason and bully away wooopeeee! It's not bullying. She opens the way for commentary by sharing TMI, then gets annoyed that people have something to say about it. -------------- So are you saying that ALL the responses are kind and well meant ?? That there is NO bullying ??? I am out of this. -- http://www.helpforheroes.org.uk |
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"Gary" > wrote in message ... > Janet wrote: >> >> says... >> > I also know that you have no >> > clue what sorts of things he does to me! >> >> Of course we do; you mention often enough, the numerous ways he treats >> you like dirt, plays mind games with insatiable demands, gives you the >> run around, is rude, lazy, and inconsiderate around the home or when >> you're ill or need help. > > "you have no clue what sort of things he does to me" > Oh man.... "DANGER, WILL ROBINSON!" No danger. I just get extemely annoyed at people making stuff up about me. Just like you did right there. If I give details then I am throwing people under the bus. If I don't give details, then people make things up. > > We've heard enough bad and now she's saying that's just the tip of the > iceberg? Scary. I never said that. You did. |
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"Cheri" > wrote in message ... > > "Ophelia" > wrote in message > ... >> "Gary" wrote in message ... >> >> Janet wrote: >>> >>> says... >>> > I also know that you have no >>> > clue what sorts of things he does to me! >>> >>> Of course we do; you mention often enough, the numerous ways he treats >>> you like dirt, plays mind games with insatiable demands, gives you the >>> run around, is rude, lazy, and inconsiderate around the home or when >>> you're ill or need help. >> >> "you have no clue what sort of things he does to me" >> Oh man.... "DANGER, WILL ROBINSON!" >> >> We've heard enough bad and now she's saying that's just the tip of the >> iceberg? Scary. >> ---------------- >> >> Would you like such a life? If not why not? If you did have it would you >> like people constantly making fun of you or being nasty about it? > > How would people even know if it wasn't posted constantly? Anyone can make > someone else look bad when only one side is heard. And it doesn't matter what I say or don't say here, does it? The dogpilers will make me look bad. |
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"Gary" > wrote in message ... > Cheri wrote: >> >> "Ophelia" wrote: >> > Would you like such a life? If not why not? If you did have it would >> > you >> > like people constantly making fun of you or being nasty about it? >> >> How would people even know if it wasn't posted constantly? Anyone can >> make >> someone else look bad when only one side is heard. > > She opens up "her side" of the marriage so certainly some people will > comment. True though that we don't know his side of the story. She does > invite comments though, O. According to her, the guy is a tyrant and > mentally/emotionally abusive as hell. The white glove test won me over > years ago. Then the dinners on demand so she has to cook his meals in > advance just so she can feed him within minutes of showing up > unannounced. > > Do you do that for your husband? Were you ever in the military? I wasn't but I sure as heck met a lot who are/were and the white glove test is very common. |
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"Cheri" > wrote in message ... > > "Gary" > wrote in message > ... >> Cheri wrote: >>> >>> "Ophelia" wrote: >>> > Would you like such a life? If not why not? If you did have it would >>> > you >>> > like people constantly making fun of you or being nasty about it? >>> >>> How would people even know if it wasn't posted constantly? Anyone can >>> make >>> someone else look bad when only one side is heard. >> >> She opens up "her side" of the marriage so certainly some people will >> comment. True though that we don't know his side of the story. She does >> invite comments though, O. According to her, the guy is a tyrant and >> mentally/emotionally abusive as hell. The white glove test won me over >> years ago. Then the dinners on demand so she has to cook his meals in >> advance just so she can feed him within minutes of showing up >> unannounced. >> >> Do you do that for your husband? > > Of course. LOL Seriously, I just think that if you are living with > someone, using their income as well as yours and availing yourself of > anything else they might bring to the relationship, you at least owe it to > them to not be bad mouthing them on social media, if it's that bad...leave > them and make it on your own with no excuses as to why you can't, > otherwise just shut up about it. My opinion only. I could make any sort of comment at all. Wouldn't matter what it was. Someone would twist it into something else. |
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"jmcquown" > wrote in message ... > On 8/11/2016 10:44 AM, Sky wrote: >> Just don't require bove to fix/replace anything simple like door >> knobs and locks, then she's less than moronically useless. > > She just posted about changing a door knob. She said "we" (RFC) made it > sound so easy. But it didn't fit! Took her two days! > > Guess what? When you go to buy a door knob you take measurements. Check > the size of the face plate, the strike plate, etc. If necessary take the > old knob set with you to the hardware store and ask for help finding one > to replace it. All it takes is common sense and a screwdriver. Truly. I didn't go to the store. I ordered it online. And do you really think that they are making knobs like they used to? I couldn't even find a knob like the old one. One that used to be standard. So yes, they have changed the parts and they are not going to fit like they used to. I wanted a new handle for my sliding door. I asked Mr. Handyman to put one on. He could not. Why? That size is no longer being made. I'd have to hunt around for a used one which might not be any better than what I already have. Common sense has little to do with fixing things. People either know how to do it or they don't. And the face plate and strike plate were fine. Those were not the problems. |
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On 8/11/2016 4:09 PM, Sqwertz wrote:
> On Wed, 10 Aug 2016 19:03:50 -0700, Julie Bove wrote: > >> "Dave Smith" > wrote in message >> ... >> >>> Give her a break. He was apparently the best she could find to support >>> her. >> >> FOAD, Dave. FOAD quickly! > > Can I get a FOAD, too? That would just make my day. It needs to be > sincere and said with conviction. Ask Sheldon for some help if you > need to. > > https://www.flickr.com/photos/sqwert...ream/lightbox/ > > -sw > That looks very good! Jill |
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On Thu, 11 Aug 2016 14:03:10 -0500, barbie gee >
wrote: > > >On Thu, 11 Aug 2016, Ophelia wrote: > >> "Gary" wrote in message ... >> >> Cheri wrote: >>> >>> "Ophelia" wrote: >>> > Would you like such a life? If not why not? If you did have it would >>> > you >>> > like people constantly making fun of you or being nasty about it? >>> >>> How would people even know if it wasn't posted constantly? Anyone can make >>> someone else look bad when only one side is heard. >> >> She opens up "her side" of the marriage so certainly some people will >> comment. True though that we don't know his side of the story. She does >> invite comments though, O. According to her, the guy is a tyrant and >> mentally/emotionally abusive as hell. The white glove test won me over >> years ago. Then the dinners on demand so she has to cook his meals in >> advance just so she can feed him within minutes of showing up >> unannounced. >> >> Do you do that for your husband? >> >> -------------------- >> >> Are you asking me? No of course not, but not everyone is me. >> >> Bullying makes me feel sick and that is what is going on here. Grab or even >> invent a reason and bully away wooopeeee! > >It's not bullying. She opens the way for commentary by sharing TMI, then >gets annoyed that people have something to say about it. Can't believe this is still open to debate! |
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In article >, says...
> > On Thu, 11 Aug 2016 14:03:10 -0500, barbie gee > > wrote: > > > > > > >On Thu, 11 Aug 2016, Ophelia wrote: > > > >> "Gary" wrote in message ... > >> > >> Cheri wrote: > >>> > >>> "Ophelia" wrote: > >>> > Would you like such a life? If not why not? If you did have it would > >>> > you > >>> > like people constantly making fun of you or being nasty about it? > >>> > >>> How would people even know if it wasn't posted constantly? Anyone can make > >>> someone else look bad when only one side is heard. > >> > >> She opens up "her side" of the marriage so certainly some people will > >> comment. True though that we don't know his side of the story. She does > >> invite comments though, O. According to her, the guy is a tyrant and > >> mentally/emotionally abusive as hell. The white glove test won me over > >> years ago. Then the dinners on demand so she has to cook his meals in > >> advance just so she can feed him within minutes of showing up > >> unannounced. > >> > >> Do you do that for your husband? > >> > >> -------------------- > >> > >> Are you asking me? No of course not, but not everyone is me. > >> > >> Bullying makes me feel sick and that is what is going on here. Grab or even > >> invent a reason and bully away wooopeeee! > > > >It's not bullying. She opens the way for commentary by sharing TMI, then > >gets annoyed that people have something to say about it. > > Can't believe this is still open to debate! That's because the bullies don't want to admit that they're bullying. |
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On 8/11/2016 12:34 PM, Cheri wrote:
> > Of course. LOL Seriously, I just think that if you are living with > someone, using their income as well as yours and availing yourself of > anything else they might bring to the relationship, you at least owe it > to them to not be bad mouthing them on social media, if it's that > bad...leave them and make it on your own with no excuses as to why you > can't, otherwise just shut up about it. My opinion only. > > Cheri None of us truly know the situation, nor is it any of our business. Maybe this is the outlet Julie needs to help keep her sanity. In any case, it is not very mature to ridicule a person or their family with all the derogatory comments some make. It does not speak well of them either. Accept a person for what they are or ignore or kill file that person. |
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On 8/11/2016 3:03 PM, barbie gee wrote:
> > > On Thu, 11 Aug 2016, Ophelia wrote: > >> "Gary" wrote in message ... >> >> Cheri wrote: >>> >>> "Ophelia" wrote: >>> > Would you like such a life? If not why not? If you did have it would >>> > you >>> > like people constantly making fun of you or being nasty about it? >>> >>> How would people even know if it wasn't posted constantly? Anyone can >>> make >>> someone else look bad when only one side is heard. >> >> She opens up "her side" of the marriage so certainly some people will >> comment. True though that we don't know his side of the story. She does >> invite comments though, O. According to her, the guy is a tyrant and >> mentally/emotionally abusive as hell. The white glove test won me over >> years ago. Then the dinners on demand so she has to cook his meals in >> advance just so she can feed him within minutes of showing up >> unannounced. >> >> Do you do that for your husband? >> >> -------------------- >> >> Are you asking me? No of course not, but not everyone is me. >> >> Bullying makes me feel sick and that is what is going on here. Grab >> or even >> invent a reason and bully away wooopeeee! > > It's not bullying. She opens the way for commentary by sharing TMI, > then gets annoyed that people have something to say about it. > > Yes, at times it is TMI, but mature people ignore or turn away. If you jump in, you are bullying. |
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On 8/11/2016 12:34 PM, Cheri wrote:
> Of course. LOL Seriously, I just think that if you are living with > someone, using their income as well as yours and availing yourself of > anything else they might bring to the relationship, you at least owe it > to them to not be bad mouthing them on social media, if it's that > bad...leave them and make it on your own with no excuses as to why you > can't, otherwise just shut up about it. My opinion only. > > Cheri I agree completely, Cheri. She rarely has anything positive to say about him, pretty much calls him lazy. That's what opens up these comments. Jill |
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On 8/11/2016 3:03 PM, barbie gee wrote:
> It's not bullying. She opens the way for commentary by sharing TMI, > then gets annoyed that people have something to say about it. > She tells us all this stuff that makes him sound like he cannot (and will not) lift a finger. Can't cut a melon! Can't mop up some spilled juice. Can't heat a can of soup. We're supposed to think she's a martyr? The long suffering wife? Sorry, I don't think so. Jill |
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On 2016-08-11 9:08 PM, jmcquown wrote:
> On 8/11/2016 12:34 PM, Cheri wrote: >> Of course. LOL Seriously, I just think that if you are living with >> someone, using their income as well as yours and availing yourself of >> anything else they might bring to the relationship, you at least owe it >> to them to not be bad mouthing them on social media, if it's that >> bad...leave them and make it on your own with no excuses as to why you >> can't, otherwise just shut up about it. My opinion only. >> >> Cheri > > I agree completely, Cheri. She rarely has anything positive to say > about him, pretty much calls him lazy. That's what opens up these > comments. > > A number of people have dumped in him based on the stories that Bove has related here. Given her record of lying, there is a good chance that she made up those stories about him. |
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On 2016-08-11 9:13 PM, jmcquown wrote:
> On 8/11/2016 3:03 PM, barbie gee wrote: >> It's not bullying. She opens the way for commentary by sharing TMI, >> then gets annoyed that people have something to say about it. >> > She tells us all this stuff that makes him sound like he cannot (and > will not) lift a finger. Can't cut a melon! Can't mop up some spilled > juice. Can't heat a can of soup. > > We're supposed to think she's a martyr? The long suffering wife? Sorry, > I don't think so. > I can only imagine what h has endured. |
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On 8/11/2016 4:21 PM, Sqwertz wrote:
> On Thu, 11 Aug 2016 12:40:14 -0700, Julie Bove wrote: > >> Were you ever in the military? I wasn't but I sure as heck met a lot who >> are/were and the white glove test is very common. > > Then he of all people should know to clean up after his own ass. > > -sw > My father was career military and he certainly knew how to clean up after himself. In the military, if you can't make your bunk or spit-shine your shoes or clean a bathroom... you got the worst possible jobs or did not make it through boot camp. White glove tests? Does she expect us to believe her husband is pulling that? Posting negative things about him constantly is on her. Somehow I cannot see her getting off the couch long enough to dust, much less worry about white glove tests. But oh, if she puts up with that sort of crap... someone should inform here there is this thing called "divorce". Jill |
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On 2016-08-12 10:24 AM, Janet wrote:
> In article >, says... >> I could make any sort of comment at all. Wouldn't matter what it was. >> Someone would twist it into something else. > > Then don't make any comments about your husband, family, friends. > Stop forever whining on with negative remarks about them. > When Bove talks about twisting her comments into something out she is talking about people repeating what she said. |
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On 2016-08-12 10:42 AM, Janet wrote:
> In article >, > says... >> Yes, at times it is TMI, but mature people ignore or turn away. If >> you jump in, you are bullying. > > You just said "Maybe this is the outlet Julie needs to help keep her > sanity." > > If Julie just needed to get it all off her chest she could write a > private diary. Instead, she chooses to exhibit it all to strangers. There is a very simple reason for that. She craves the attention. She airs all her dirty laundry in her quest for attention. One has to consider a couple of possibilities here. There is no doubt that there is a vortex of dysfunction on her family situation. It looks like she is trying to deflect the blame on her husband and her daughter. He is the guy she married and who she has stayed with. He works long hard hours while she is up all night posting on various groups and then sleeps most of the day. Just imagine what his input would be on these patters. The daughter is the product of her parenting. No need to say any more on that. > > You're withholding the acknowledgement and feedback that she is very > clearly looking for. Bingo. She is a narcissist, an attention whore of the first order. She just wants every thread to be about her so she can be the centre of attention. She craves the feedback. It doesn't matter if it is positive or negative, so long as people reply and talk about her. Bad comments are better than no comments at all. > > Silently ignoring a cry for help, is emotional abuse, you mean old > bully. That is not too far off the mark. |
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