On 12/12/2017 9:12 PM, Ed Pawlowski wrote:
> On 12/12/2017 8:25 PM, jmcquown wrote:
>
>>>
>> I've been through one.Â* It was unpleasant because my ex harrassed me
>> for two years afterwards.Â* I finally had to have him thrown in jail.
>>
>> Jill
>
> Do we get a choice?Â* Jail would be preferable to living with a couple of
> people here.

LOL I'm sure if you had an ex-wife who vandalized your car and was
alternately threatening then cajoling, you'd have tossed her in jail, too.

He called me at work constantly. I got permission from my boss to tap
my desk phone and record the conversations. He even had his mother
calling me. This nightmare that went on for two years after the divorce
was final. I documented everything. Look what he did to my brand new
car a year after the divorce:

https://s8.postimg.org/efo0mki5h/car.jpg

Later he sent me a "remorse" letter:

https://s8.postimg.org/6bfwhc3at/letter.jpg

Don't let anyone tell you spelling doesn't count. He misspelled
"I'm" on the car door and in the letter. Spelling sure counted with the
judge! That combined with the tape of his threatening phone calls got
him sentenced to 11 months, 29 days. (That sentence was better than 12
months; it meant no early release for good behavior.) He and his family
knew not to mess with me after that.

Jill