"?about it" > wrote in message alkaboutparenting.com>...
> I know a girl with an almost 4 year old. She does not work. Her
husband does not work. He used to have a high paying job, but was
fired when the company was sold over 3 years ago. They had just bought
a new $360k house right before he was fired. They defaulted on
payments on everything, and lost it all about a year ago. He worked a
temp job, but was mysteriously "let go" after a few weeks (more like a
month). He hasn't worked since, and neither does she. They have been
living like gypsies for the past year, and after insulting everyone
who has generously taken them and their rowdy dog in, they have no
other place to turn but her parents. These parents have taken them in
approximately 5 times in the past 3 years, and this girl and husband
wind up leaving after about a week because they make outlandish
complaints about these people that have been saints to them. Now they
moved temporarilly in with one of his relatives after noting that her
parents would never see their grandchild again. One of the reasons
this girl left her parent's house at a previous time was because she
noticed on her father's computer "DYFUS" in the address bar. She
jumpped to conclusions and thought he was going to take her child
away. He wasn't. He was trying to see if anyone else could, and wanted
to protect her and the child. NOW, I wanted to know if anyone knew of
any laws in NJ indicating that if the parents haven't worked and are
not providing a stable environment for the child (ie: moving
constantly) and please note this child has not recieved ANY
immunization shots due to his father's "conspiricy theory". Can this
child be taken away from the parents while living in NJ? I have a
feeling they may be moving to Plordia, soon so that this girl's
husband can totaly remove her from her family. Any ideas? Insight? The
husband has a VERY hot temper, and after leaving her parent's house
the last time, tore a door off the hinges and punched holes in the
wall. It isn't the first time he has couse physical damage in anger.

WHY DON'T YOU MIND YOUR OWN BUSINESS? AT LEAST THE PARENTS ARENT OUT
ON THE STREET SELLING THEIR BODIES FOR 50 CENTS LIKE YOU DO! YEAH,
THAT'S ALL YOUR WORTH! YOU JUST LOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOVE IT WHEN YOU GET TO
HAVE SEX WITH UNDERAGE BOYS, DON'T YOU AMY?
EWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWW!