On Wed 08 Jun 2005 08:23:29p, Damsel wrote in rec.food.cooking:

> The surgery was successful.
>
> There are medication issues.
>
> This has been the longest day of my life.
>
> Thanks everyone. That's all I've got for now.
>
> Carol
>

WHOOPIE!!!

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On Wed, 8 Jun 2005, Damsel wrote:

> The surgery was successful.
>
> There are medication issues.
>
> This has been the longest day of my life.
>
> Thanks everyone. That's all I've got for now.
>
> Carol



Glad to hear it went well. Been waiting on that report.

Elaine




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> On Wed 08 Jun 2005 08:23:29p, Damsel wrote in rec.food.cooking:
>
>> The surgery was successful.
>>
>> There are medication issues.
>>
>> This has been the longest day of my life.
>>
>> Thanks everyone. That's all I've got for now.
>>
>> Carol
>>
>
Try and get some rest Carol, you need to look after yourself too.
Glad everything's gone well.
Take care both of you.
Sarah

"Damsel" > wrote in message
...
> The surgery was successful.
>
> There are medication issues.
>
> This has been the longest day of my life.
>
> Thanks everyone. That's all I've got for now.

Warm hugs

O

Damsel > wrote:

>The surgery was successful.

Yes!

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The Doc says my brain waves closely match those of a crazed ferret.
At least now I have an excuse.

He's doing better today. He sat in a lounge chair for a couple hours.
Long enough for him to get some sleep in the chair and me to get a nap in
the bed. I'm home to let the dogs out and take a nap before going back to
the hospital.

Crash walked a few yards with the aid of a walker earlier this afternoon.
He's hoping to do it again this afternoon. He's very motivated to get out
of that hospital bed, so they're thinking he might be released this weekend
instead of Tuesday.

Anyone who hasn't signed the get well card for him may do so he
http://htmlgear.tripod.com/guest/con...lop&i=1&a=sign

Thanks,
Carol

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Say "hi" to Gene when you get back to the hospital. It is good to
hear that he is doing better and that he is cooperating with
everybody, so that he will be able to get out of the hospital as
quickly as possible.

What were the medicinal problems you wrote about, or have they gone away.

Hugs, Margaret

On Wed, 08 Jun 2005 00:57:19 -0500, Damsel > wrote:
>
> Then come back next month and make us some more! <EG>
>
> Carol, who loves potstickers

Thanks, but I'm afraid that's not possible.

Ariane

Are we having fun yet? Okay, here's what's been going on ...

On Wednesday, we had to be at the hospital at 7:15. We did all the pre-op
stuff, and they took him away from me at 8:50. They didn't give him back
to me until 2:50. I sat in the waiting room for nearly 5 hours for a 2
hour operation. By the time I screwed up the courage to go ask about his
status, I was a wreck. As soon as the words were out of my mouth, I
collapsed. I sobbed hysterically and shook. Hard. Seems there had been a
traffic jam, and he didn't get into surgery on time. Anyway, the doctor
said that the surgery was successful, and that he'd be in his room soon.

When I have major surgery, I open my eyes, take note that someone is there
with me, and go to sleep again. No such luck for Crash. He was wide
awake, in excruciating pain, and extremely agitated. Like, they had to put
an alarm on him because he kept trying to escape.

Most of you know that I'm pretty mentally ill. Crash is, too, only worse.
And guess what? NO PSYCH MEDS! They cut him off of high doses of the 4
medications that keep him relatively sane. And they're just putting him
back on them this afternoon. The doctor wouldn't listen until I brought it
up with the hospital pharmacist. It pays to talk to the right person. I
wish I had known which strings to pull 48 hours ago!

Despite universal reassurances that this would be a wonderful thing for
him, he's having a ton and a half of pain and has vowed not to go through
with it on the other hip. He'll do it because he has to, but not with the
same level of confidence he had coming into this one. They're talking
about taking him off the morphine-on-demand tomorrow. I hope they don't.

He desperately wants to get up and walk, but they only come in twice a day,
and he hasn't made a lot of progress. On the weekends, they only come in
once a day. They're back to saying he'll be released sometime next week
instead of this weekend. It's so critical that he move certain ways and
completely avoid other positions. And of course, the no-no's are what he
is naturally inclined to do.

When Crash is in pain, he doesn't eat. Period. He lost 10 pounds in the
two weeks just prior to the surgery. He's getting thinner and thinner in
the hospital. One bite per meal is all he's able to get down. He doesn't
even want me to bring take-out to him, and he loves take-out food. (The
hamburgers at the hospital are miserable)

They removed one of his IV bags today, and his catheter. He's practically
a free man.

At home, he watches A&E a lot. Lots of crime shows. In the hospital, he's
watching cartoons. Toon Disney ran several hours of Tarzan cartoons today.
I wish I didn't have that information.

I came home for a short break this afternoon because the cat or one of the
dogs has sought their revenge for our being gone all day by peeing on the
couch. I am not amused. Anyway, I'm trying to spend a little time with
them during the day when I can get away.

I've uploaded a few pictures:
http://pg.photos.yahoo.com/ph/head_trollop/my_photos

That's about it. More when I can.
Carol

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"Damsel" > wrote in message
...
> Are we having fun yet? Okay, here's what's been going on ...
>
> On Wednesday, we had to be at the hospital at 7:15. We did all the pre-op
> stuff, and they took him away from me at 8:50. They didn't give him back
> to me until 2:50. I sat in the waiting room for nearly 5 hours for a 2
> hour operation. By the time I screwed up the courage to go ask about his
> status, I was a wreck. As soon as the words were out of my mouth, I
> collapsed. I sobbed hysterically and shook. Hard. Seems there had been a
> traffic jam, and he didn't get into surgery on time. Anyway, the doctor
> said that the surgery was successful, and that he'd be in his room soon.
>
> When I have major surgery, I open my eyes, take note that someone is there
> with me, and go to sleep again. No such luck for Crash. He was wide
> awake, in excruciating pain, and extremely agitated. Like, they had to put
> an alarm on him because he kept trying to escape.
>
> Most of you know that I'm pretty mentally ill. Crash is, too, only worse.
> And guess what? NO PSYCH MEDS! They cut him off of high doses of the 4
> medications that keep him relatively sane. And they're just putting him
> back on them this afternoon. The doctor wouldn't listen until I brought it
> up with the hospital pharmacist. It pays to talk to the right person. I
> wish I had known which strings to pull 48 hours ago!
>
> Despite universal reassurances that this would be a wonderful thing for
> him, he's having a ton and a half of pain and has vowed not to go through
> with it on the other hip. He'll do it because he has to, but not with the
> same level of confidence he had coming into this one. They're talking
> about taking him off the morphine-on-demand tomorrow. I hope they don't.
>
> He desperately wants to get up and walk, but they only come in twice a day,
> and he hasn't made a lot of progress. On the weekends, they only come in
> once a day. They're back to saying he'll be released sometime next week
> instead of this weekend. It's so critical that he move certain ways and
> completely avoid other positions. And of course, the no-no's are what he
> is naturally inclined to do.
>
> When Crash is in pain, he doesn't eat. Period. He lost 10 pounds in the
> two weeks just prior to the surgery. He's getting thinner and thinner in
> the hospital. One bite per meal is all he's able to get down. He doesn't
> even want me to bring take-out to him, and he loves take-out food. (The
> hamburgers at the hospital are miserable)
>
> They removed one of his IV bags today, and his catheter. He's practically
> a free man.
>
> At home, he watches A&E a lot. Lots of crime shows. In the hospital, he's
> watching cartoons. Toon Disney ran several hours of Tarzan cartoons today.
> I wish I didn't have that information.
>
> I came home for a short break this afternoon because the cat or one of the
> dogs has sought their revenge for our being gone all day by peeing on the
> couch. I am not amused. Anyway, I'm trying to spend a little time with
> them during the day when I can get away.
>
> I've uploaded a few pictures:
> http://pg.photos.yahoo.com/ph/head_trollop/my_photos
>
> That's about it. More when I can.
> Carol
>
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Poor yous, it can only get better.
Don't forget to look after yourself too.
Sarah

Damsel wrote on 10 Jun 2005 in rec.food.cooking

> I've uploaded a few pictures:
> http://pg.photos.yahoo.com/ph/head_trollop/my_photos
>
> That's about it. More when I can.
> Carol
>

Did crash shave his legs ...just for the pictures?

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"Damsel" > wrote in message
...
> Are we having fun yet? Okay, here's what's been going on ...
>
> On Wednesday, we had to be at the hospital at 7:15. We did all the pre-op
> stuff, and they took him away from me at 8:50. They didn't give him back
> to me until 2:50. I sat in the waiting room for nearly 5 hours for a 2
> hour operation. By the time I screwed up the courage to go ask about his
> status, I was a wreck. As soon as the words were out of my mouth, I
> collapsed. I sobbed hysterically and shook. Hard. Seems there had been
a
> traffic jam, and he didn't get into surgery on time. Anyway, the doctor
> said that the surgery was successful, and that he'd be in his room soon.


Man, I am so sorry to hear this, Dams-you must have been scared to death!


>
> When I have major surgery, I open my eyes, take note that someone is there
> with me, and go to sleep again. No such luck for Crash. He was wide
> awake, in excruciating pain, and extremely agitated. Like, they had to
put
> an alarm on him because he kept trying to escape.
>
> Most of you know that I'm pretty mentally ill. Crash is, too, only worse.
> And guess what? NO PSYCH MEDS! They cut him off of high doses of the 4
> medications that keep him relatively sane. And they're just putting him
> back on them this afternoon. The doctor wouldn't listen until I brought
it
> up with the hospital pharmacist. It pays to talk to the right person. I
> wish I had known which strings to pull 48 hours ago!
>
> Despite universal reassurances that this would be a wonderful thing for
> him, he's having a ton and a half of pain and has vowed not to go through
> with it on the other hip. He'll do it because he has to, but not with the
> same level of confidence he had coming into this one. They're talking
> about taking him off the morphine-on-demand tomorrow. I hope they don't.


Do you think that might have been caused by the way they did his
replacement? It's usually bad, but not unGodly bad, from what I've seen.
Not having his regular meds probably isn't helping with it either-your frame
of mind has SO much to do with how you handle pain, IMHO. Crossing my
fingers that they keep him on the morphine till he feels better!



>
> He desperately wants to get up and walk, but they only come in twice a
day,
> and he hasn't made a lot of progress. On the weekends, they only come in
> once a day. They're back to saying he'll be released sometime next week
> instead of this weekend. It's so critical that he move certain ways and
> completely avoid other positions. And of course, the no-no's are what he
> is naturally inclined to do.
>
> When Crash is in pain, he doesn't eat. Period. He lost 10 pounds in the
> two weeks just prior to the surgery. He's getting thinner and thinner in
> the hospital. One bite per meal is all he's able to get down. He doesn't
> even want me to bring take-out to him, and he loves take-out food. (The
> hamburgers at the hospital are miserable)
>
> They removed one of his IV bags today, and his catheter. He's practically
> a free man.
>
> At home, he watches A&E a lot. Lots of crime shows. In the hospital,
he's
> watching cartoons. Toon Disney ran several hours of Tarzan cartoons
today.
> I wish I didn't have that information.
>
> I came home for a short break this afternoon because the cat or one of the
> dogs has sought their revenge for our being gone all day by peeing on the
> couch. I am not amused. Anyway, I'm trying to spend a little time with
> them during the day when I can get away.
>
> I've uploaded a few pictures:
> http://pg.photos.yahoo.com/ph/head_trollop/my_photos


Well, he was in fine form when he went in<LOL> Hoping he's flippin ya off
again real soon!


>
> That's about it. More when I can.
> Carol
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Hugs to you both,
Lynne A

On Fri, 10 Jun 2005 16:48:59 -0500, Damsel >
connected the dots and wrote:

~Are we having fun yet? Okay, here's what's been going on ...
~
~On Wednesday, we had to be at the hospital at 7:15. We did all the
pre-op
~stuff, and they took him away from me at 8:50.
....
Anyway, the doctor
~said that the surgery was successful, and that he'd be in his room
soon.

Glad to hear that.

~When I have major surgery, I open my eyes, take note that someone is
there
~with me, and go to sleep again. No such luck for Crash. He was wide
~awake, in excruciating pain, and extremely agitated. Like, they had
to put
~an alarm on him because he kept trying to escape.
~
~Most of you know that I'm pretty mentally ill. Crash is, too, only
worse.
~And guess what? NO PSYCH MEDS! They cut him off of high doses of
the 4
~medications that keep him relatively sane. And they're just putting
him
~back on them this afternoon. The doctor wouldn't listen until I
brought it
~up with the hospital pharmacist. It pays to talk to the right
person. I
~wish I had known which strings to pull 48 hours ago!

They do that to everyone. You can't bring your meds with you, they
have to dispense them, and then they don't take down the whole list.
It's interesting to me that the pharmacist is the one the doctor
listened to.

~Despite universal reassurances that this would be a wonderful thing
for
~him, he's having a ton and a half of pain and has vowed not to go
through
~with it on the other hip. He'll do it because he has to, but not
with the
~same level of confidence he had coming into this one. They're
talking
~about taking him off the morphine-on-demand tomorrow. I hope they
don't

He's young enough that he should get back most of his mobility, unlike
my Mom, but they lie--it hurts like the dickens afterwards, and it
would be easier for most folks to face if they told you straight out.

~He desperately wants to get up and walk, but they only come in twice
a day,
~and he hasn't made a lot of progress. On the weekends, they only
come in
~once a day. They're back to saying he'll be released sometime next
week
~instead of this weekend. It's so critical that he move certain ways
and
~completely avoid other positions. And of course, the no-no's are
what he
~is naturally inclined to do.

Ask them to show you how to get him up and out of bed. Then you can
take him for short walks, at least to the door of the room or the
bathroom.

~When Crash is in pain, he doesn't eat. Period. He lost 10 pounds in
the
~two weeks just prior to the surgery. He's getting thinner and
thinner in
~the hospital. One bite per meal is all he's able to get down. He
doesn't
~even want me to bring take-out to him, and he loves take-out food.
(The
~hamburgers at the hospital are miserable)

For some reason, probably the methods used for keeping food hot for
the time it takes to get from the kitchen to the last patient, the
food at any hospital is the pits. Try and get him to order soup.
That's one thing that sometimes will go down well.

~I came home for a short break this afternoon because the cat or one
of the
~dogs has sought their revenge for our being gone all day by peeing on
the
~couch. I am not amused. Anyway, I'm trying to spend a little time
with
~them during the day when I can get away.

Poor babies! Is there noone who would come by once a day to give them
a little love and exercize so you don't have to run back and forth?

~I've uploaded a few pictures:
~http://pg.photos.yahoo.com/ph/head_trollop/my_photos

He does look good in that color<g>, but he sure hates getting his
picture taken, doesn't he? Many hugs and backrubs for you, virtually.
Hang in there, Carol, this too shall pass.

maxine in ri

We've been told all along that on the third day (today), he'd be in street
clothes and wouldn't be hooked up to meds of any kind. He's still in
hospital gowns and still hooked up to IVs. Nothing has been said about any
of this changing over the weekend. I don't know how much longer he'll be
in, but I don't think he'll be coming home any time soon. The nursing and
therapy staffs are stretched to the breaking point. And Crash is running
them all ragged.

Our next door neighbors dropped by the hospital while I was home this
afternoon. Their visit was a huge surprise to him. They brought him a
nice card and a bouquet of tulips, carnations, daisies, and a white version
of those flowers that are usually kind of a salmon color with dark spots.
I can't recall their name, but I like them.

When I went back after my break, I stopped at Hardee's to get him something
I knew he liked, so he'd finally eat something. He didn't take a single
bite. It's to the point that, when I call Room Service, I order something
I like, because he probably won't eat anyway. They don't have the
traditional breakfast, lunch and dinner there. They actually have room
service. You can phone them anytime between 7am and 7pm, and they'll have
your food up to you within 30 minutes. Their grilled cheese sandwiches are
good. The burgers contain no meat of any kind, to the best of my
knowledge.

I was there this evening when they changed his dressings for the first time
(yes, I took a picture). It's about a 12-inch incision, held together with
lots of surgical tape. I'm not posting the picture, but I'll be happy to
distribute it in e-mail if anyone is that curious. LOL!

Lynne and Pam (his girlfriends on the side) called tonight. Lynne (a
nursing assistant) said that the reason he's probably experiencing such a
great deal of pain was that they didn't cement the new pieces in, they
pounded them in. This is because he's so young and will undoubtedly have
to have these done at least once more. So he's probably kinda bruised up
inside. Pam and her main squeeze (besides Crash) are coming from Wisconsin
for a visit tomorrow. And taking me out to lunch, like a real person!

When I left at 8, he still hadn't been given his psych meds (grrr!). They
had me bring in all of his meds yesterday (I suppose the doctor didn't take
our word for it that he took them?) If he isn't getting his meds by
tomorrow morning, I'm going to grab his home box (which is in a cabinet
outside his room that is accessible from the hall!) and start giving them
to him myself, and I'm not kidding.

The lighting is too good at that hospital. I came home and dyed my hair.
I'd been growing the salt and pepper out, but it looks so terrible there
that I couldn't face going back without some dark brown covering the
silver. It's temporary stuff this time, but I'm probably just gonna start
trying to be something I'm not (young).

I think that's it for now. Catch you guys later, and thanks so much for
your support. We both appreciate it a lot.

Carol

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On Fri 10 Jun 2005 09:17:38p, Damsel wrote in rec.food.cooking:

<snip>

> When I left at 8, he still hadn't been given his psych meds (grrr!).
> They had me bring in all of his meds yesterday (I suppose the doctor
> didn't take our word for it that he took them?) If he isn't getting his
> meds by tomorrow morning, I'm going to grab his home box (which is in a
> cabinet outside his room that is accessible from the hall!) and start
> giving them to him myself, and I'm not kidding.

<snip>

Although it's standard procedure to withhold psych meds just prior to and
following surgery, it's also part of the reason he's feeling more pain.
The difference in level of awareness abruptly shifts.

They did this with David when he had his quadruple bypass last year. He
didn't get back on his regular meds for 5 days, and during the interim
lived some horrible side effects.

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Wayne Boatwright > said:

>On Fri 10 Jun 2005 09:17:38p, Damsel wrote in rec.food.cooking:
>
><snip>
>
>> When I left at 8, he still hadn't been given his psych meds (grrr!).
>> They had me bring in all of his meds yesterday (I suppose the doctor
>> didn't take our word for it that he took them?) If he isn't getting his
>> meds by tomorrow morning, I'm going to grab his home box (which is in a
>> cabinet outside his room that is accessible from the hall!) and start
>> giving them to him myself, and I'm not kidding.
>
><snip>
>
>Although it's standard procedure to withhold psych meds just prior to and
>following surgery, it's also part of the reason he's feeling more pain.
>The difference in level of awareness abruptly shifts.

No one said a word about this to us!

>They did this with David when he had his quadruple bypass last year. He
>didn't get back on his regular meds for 5 days, and during the interim
>lived some horrible side effects.

5 days??? That poor man. That must have been horrible for both of you!

I should have stayed in commando mode. On Wednesday night, I was stomping
up and down the hall, raising hell and threatening legal action. Crash's
evening nurse pretty much told me to shut up and stay that way. When I
left that night, she told me that Crash's doctor was up at the desk, but
that I was not to speak to him. Whatever possessed me to listen to that
bitch?

Well, now I know how to get everything coordinated for the next surgery.
I don't know if I posted this earlier or not. The reason I was able to
talk to the hospital pharmacist was that he visited Crash's room along with
the nutritionist and a social worker. There were FLAMES coming out of the
social worker's eyes when I mentioned that Crash's psych meds were being
withheld. We'll probably see her 2-3 weeks before the next procedure so
she can coordinate Crash's care with his psychiatrist and with the hospital
staff. Crash should be given Ativan before he even goes to his room.

G'night all!
Carol

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On Fri, 10 Jun 2005 16:48:59 -0500, Damsel wrote:

> I sat in the waiting room for nearly 5 hours for a 2
> hour operation. By the time I screwed up the courage to go ask about his
> status, I was a wreck. As soon as the words were out of my mouth, I
> collapsed. I sobbed hysterically and shook.

((((( That's awful! )))))

> Hard. Seems there had been a traffic jam, and he didn't get into surgery on time.

You had every right to be concerned. They should have kept you posted
about the delayed start time.

On Fri, 10 Jun 2005 23:49:39 -0500, Damsel wrote:

> Crash should be given Ativan before he even goes to his room.

Ativan? I took it (and now Klonopin) for pain! Withdrawal from even
minor doses can be a major problem. I wonder why that issue wasn't
addressed too?

http://www.breggin.com/minortranqs.html

Individuals who take only one pill daily for sleep or anxiety are not
exempt from withdrawal problems. In my private practice during the
last few years I have worked with several people who were unable to
stop taking a once-a-day standard dose of Xanax, Ativan, Klonopin, or
other minor tranquilizers. In each case, the attempt to stop the
medication led to a disturbing degree of anxiety or insomnia within
twenty-four hours. The problem seemed to be caused by rebound anxiety
or rebound insomnia (see ahead). In a personal communication in late
December 1990, internist John Steinberg confirmed that patients taking
one Xanax tablet each day for several weeks can become addicted.
Steinberg is medical director of the Chemical Dependency Program at
the Greater Baltimore Medical Center and president of the Maryland
Society of Addiction Medicine. He points to research that Xanax and
other short-acting benzodiazepines can cause a reactive hyperactivity
of the receptors that they block. The hyperactive receptors then
require one or more doses of Xanax each day or they produce anxiety
and emotional discomfort. Steinberg calls the impact of Xanax "a
fundamental change in the homeostasis of the brain." After the patient
stops taking the Xanax, according to Steinberg, it takes the brain six
to eighteen months to recover. Xanax patients should be warned, he
says, that it can take a long time to get over painful withdrawal
symptoms. Since doctors frequently don't realize this, they, too, are
likely to be confused and to continue the drug in the hope of
"treating" the patient's drug-induced anxiety and tension.

sf > said:

>On Fri, 10 Jun 2005 23:49:39 -0500, Damsel wrote:
>
>> Crash should be given Ativan before he even goes to his room.
>
>Ativan? I took it (and now Klonopin) for pain! Withdrawal from even
>minor doses can be a major problem. I wonder why that issue wasn't
>addressed too?

Crash was taking 1mg of Klonopin daily for a long time. This never, ever
should have happened.

Carol

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After surgery, you're supposed to get better and better. Crash is getting
worse and worse. He's having Problems. He didn't know I was there anyway,
so I came home. That's all I'm able to pass along right now.

Carol

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On Sat, 11 Jun 2005 19:24:58 -0500, Damsel wrote:

> After surgery, you're supposed to get better and better. Crash is getting
> worse and worse. He's having Problems. He didn't know I was there anyway,
> so I came home. That's all I'm able to pass along right now.
>
That's terrible! Is he back on his meds? Could he be having a med
conflict? Get the names of everything they are giving him and use the
internet to research drug interactions when you get home.

sf
<just guessing>

Damsel > wrote:

>After surgery, you're supposed to get better and better. Crash is getting
>worse and worse. He's having Problems. He didn't know I was there anyway,
>so I came home. That's all I'm able to pass along right now.

All I can say is I'm very sorry you both have to go through this, and
all the other garbage on top of it. As Cathyxyz would say "keep your
chin up". There's not much I can do except empathize with you and
hope for the best, so that's what I'm doing. People say that whatever
doesn't kill you makes you stronger, and there is a lot of truth in
that. Best wishes.

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At least now I have an excuse.

AlleyGator wrote:
> Damsel > wrote:
>
>
>>After surgery, you're supposed to get better and better. Crash is getting
>>worse and worse. He's having Problems. He didn't know I was there anyway,
>>so I came home. That's all I'm able to pass along right now.
>
>
> All I can say is I'm very sorry you both have to go through this, and
> all the other garbage on top of it. As Cathyxyz would say "keep your
> chin up". There's not much I can do except empathize with you and
> hope for the best, so that's what I'm doing. People say that whatever
> doesn't kill you makes you stronger, and there is a lot of truth in
> that. Best wishes.
>
> --
> The Doc says my brain waves closely match those of a crazed ferret.
> At least now I have an excuse.

Seems like poor Crash is having a rough time of it. Poor Dams, too.
Hope things get better soon.
Cheers
Cathy
ps. Hope you feeling better too, Gator? Sent u an email..

--
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I am so sorry Crash is having a bad time of it.
I can only pray that he is soon on the rebound, and that Carol stays well.
Take care of yourself, Carol! It is easy to get ground down when your loved
one is ill.
hugs, Jackie

Damsel > said:

>After surgery, you're supposed to get better and better. Crash is getting
>worse and worse. He's having Problems. He didn't know I was there anyway,
>so I came home. That's all I'm able to pass along right now.

I didn't want to post details until I actually knew what was going on. I
know more than I did last night, but not a whole lot. Fortunately, enough
so I'm not so scared anymore.

After the catheter was removed, he couldn't "perform" on the toilet. The
nurse (charming woman) told me that he was having renal problems and that
they were worse than when he was admitted (gotta talk to the doc about this
- we were unaware of existing kidney problems). Today, after talking to a
more sympathetic nurse, as well as to Lynne A., we know that this isn't
unheard of after surgery, and isn't necessarily the terrible thing that I
was lead to fear. Nurse Charming also said something about an enlarged
prostate, but I'm not taking her word for anything at this point, and will
talk to the doctor at dawn tomorrow.

The other thing that was happening yesterday was that they removed all of
his IVs, including the morphine pump. He was switched to oral Percocette.
The Percocette knocks him out cold. The morphine didn't (scratching head).
I've added some pictures to the hip replacement photo journal. This might
give you an idea of why I thought we might be losing him. This is NOT the
way he looks when he's sleeping. I'm thinking this is the way he'll look
when he's dead. And this picture was taken sitting up!
http://pg.photos.yahoo.com/ph/head_trollop/my_photos

Oh, and there's some "food" stuff on there, too.

Today, he was quite alert during the earlier part of the day. He called me
at 4:15am to bring him some "real pop." I guess real pop is Mountain Dew
in a plastic bottle instead of those mini-cans they have at the hospital.

He was able to walk across the hall and take a shower (I went home and
napped during the festivities). The night nurse had cut his Percocette
dose in half because he was over-sedated. We actually had conversations.
The day nurse (Nurse Charming) ignored that when I told her, and Crash is
now among the breathing dead again.

He's still not eating much. The thing he's had the most success with has
been Total Raisin Bran. He ate half a bowl of it today, which is a
remarkable improvement. When I gave him a piece of roast beef with some
mashed potatoes at dinner time, he fished the beef out of his mouth, handed
it back to me and refused to try any more. I really love receiving used
food, and I'm getting quite good at it.

Anyone who hasn't signed Crash's get-well card can do so here. He really
enjoyed reading everyone's entries before he went into the hospital.
http://htmlgear.tripod.com/guest/con...lop&i=1&a=sign
To read existing entries, go he
http://htmlgear.tripod.com/guest/con...lop&i=1&a=view

Thanks for everything, guys. It's good to have someone to talk to during
all of this. We both appreciate your concern very, very much.

Carol

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"Damsel" > wrote in message
news
> Damsel > said:
>
>>After surgery, you're supposed to get better and better. Crash is getting
>>worse and worse. He's having Problems. He didn't know I was there anyway,
>>so I came home. That's all I'm able to pass along right now.
>
> I didn't want to post details until I actually knew what was going on. I
> know more than I did last night, but not a whole lot. Fortunately, enough
> so I'm not so scared anymore.
>
<Snip>
> > http://htmlgear.tripod.com/guest/con...lop&i=1&a=view
>
> Thanks for everything, guys. It's good to have someone to talk to during
> all of this. We both appreciate your concern very, very much.
>
> Carol
>
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Glad to hear some better news, I love your baby roses, they're beautiful!
Sarah

He's home!

Crash called me at 5:30 am and asked me to come up to the hospital. Of
course, right before I arrived, they gave him his pain pills, so he was
pretty out of it when I got there.

We were both asleep when the doctor came in to see Crash. It took him
awhile to wake me up, but we weren't successful getting Crash's brain
engaged.

The doctor told me that Crash could go home today. He had physical therapy
for the last time, got dressed, got discharged, and was brought to the car.
He's in his IRC channel, waiting for his pain pills to kick in. And yes,
he lit up a smoke while we were still in the hospital parking lot.

I never realized that the walking spaces in this house were so narrow. Due
to the very strange configuration of the bathroom, he'll have to use a cane
when he goes in there.

We're both exhausted and will be going to bed in just a few minutes. Here
are a few pictures from today. Some idiot (me) turned off the flash, so
most of the pictures are pretty grainy. Oops!
http://pg.photos.yahoo.com/ph/head_trollop/my_photos

Thanks again, everyone!
Carol

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Damsel wrote:
> He's home!


What good news!
Good luck!
Cathy

On Mon 13 Jun 2005 11:08:07a, Damsel wrote in rec.food.cooking:

> He's home!
>

I know you are mightily relieved for Crash to be out of the hospital and home
at last. Just being home will make him feel a world better, and you'll be
able to get some much needed rest.

--
Wayne Boatwright Õ¿Õ¬
____________________________________________

Give me a smart idiot over a stupid genius any day.
Sam Goldwyn, 1882-1974

Damsel wrote:
> He's home!
>
> Crash called me at 5:30 am and asked me to come up to the hospital. Of
> course, right before I arrived, they gave him his pain pills, so he was
> pretty out of it when I got there.
>
> We were both asleep when the doctor came in to see Crash. It took him
> awhile to wake me up, but we weren't successful getting Crash's brain
> engaged.
>
> The doctor told me that Crash could go home today. He had physical therapy
> for the last time, got dressed, got discharged, and was brought to the car.
> He's in his IRC channel, waiting for his pain pills to kick in. And yes,
> he lit up a smoke while we were still in the hospital parking lot.
>
> I never realized that the walking spaces in this house were so narrow. Due
> to the very strange configuration of the bathroom, he'll have to use a cane
> when he goes in there.
>
> We're both exhausted and will be going to bed in just a few minutes. Here
> are a few pictures from today. Some idiot (me) turned off the flash, so
> most of the pictures are pretty grainy. Oops!
> http://pg.photos.yahoo.com/ph/head_trollop/my_photos
>
> Thanks again, everyone!
> Carol
>
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Damsel wrote:
> He's home!
>
> Crash called me at 5:30 am and asked me to come up to the hospital. Of
> course, right before I arrived, they gave him his pain pills, so he was
> pretty out of it when I got there.
>
> We were both asleep when the doctor came in to see Crash. It took him
> awhile to wake me up, but we weren't successful getting Crash's brain
> engaged.
>
> The doctor told me that Crash could go home today. He had physical therapy
> for the last time, got dressed, got discharged, and was brought to the car.
> He's in his IRC channel, waiting for his pain pills to kick in. And yes,
> he lit up a smoke while we were still in the hospital parking lot.
>
> I never realized that the walking spaces in this house were so narrow. Due
> to the very strange configuration of the bathroom, he'll have to use a cane
> when he goes in there.
>
> We're both exhausted and will be going to bed in just a few minutes. Here
> are a few pictures from today. Some idiot (me) turned off the flash, so
> most of the pictures are pretty grainy. Oops!
> http://pg.photos.yahoo.com/ph/head_trollop/my_photos
>
> Thanks again, everyone!
> Carol
>
> --
> CLICK DAILY TO FEED THE HUNGRY
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"Damsel" > wrote in message
...
> He's home!
>
> Crash called me at 5:30 am and asked me to come up to the hospital. Of
> course, right before I arrived, they gave him his pain pills, so he was
> pretty out of it when I got there.
>
> We were both asleep when the doctor came in to see Crash. It took him
> awhile to wake me up, but we weren't successful getting Crash's brain
> engaged.
>
> The doctor told me that Crash could go home today. He had physical therapy
> for the last time, got dressed, got discharged, and was brought to the car.
> He's in his IRC channel, waiting for his pain pills to kick in. And yes,
> he lit up a smoke while we were still in the hospital parking lot.
>
> I never realized that the walking spaces in this house were so narrow. Due
> to the very strange configuration of the bathroom, he'll have to use a cane
> when he goes in there.
>
> We're both exhausted and will be going to bed in just a few minutes. Here
> are a few pictures from today. Some idiot (me) turned off the flash, so
> most of the pictures are pretty grainy. Oops!
> http://pg.photos.yahoo.com/ph/head_trollop/my_photos
>
> Thanks again, everyone!
> Carol

Glad he's on the mend -

BTW -

Minor Operation = any surgical procedure NOT done on you.
Major Operation = any surgical procedure done on you.

Dimitri

Damsel wrote:
>> He's home!
>>
Good news indeed! Recovery will speed up now that you are the one in
control!

Debbie

On Mon, 13 Jun 2005 13:08:07 -0500, Damsel >
wrote:

>He's home!

That's wonderful news. You always feel better when you can sleep in
your own bed. I'm glad he's on the mend. Damsel, do take good care
of yourself, too, and don't ever feel guilty about it. You have to
take care of yourself before you can take care of anyone else.

Tara

On Mon, 13 Jun 2005 13:08:07 -0500, Damsel >
wrote:

>He's home!
>

Excellent! Take it easy too. You've both had your share of stress
over the past few months.

Sue(tm)
Lead me not into temptation... I can find it myself!

"Damsel" > wrote in message
...
> He's home!
>
> Crash called me at 5:30 am and asked me to come up to the hospital. Of
> course, right before I arrived, they gave him his pain pills, so he was
> pretty out of it when I got there.
>
> We were both asleep when the doctor came in to see Crash. It took him
> awhile to wake me up, but we weren't successful getting Crash's brain
> engaged.
>
> The doctor told me that Crash could go home today. He had physical
> therapy
> for the last time, got dressed, got discharged, and was brought to the
> car.
> He's in his IRC channel, waiting for his pain pills to kick in. And yes,
> he lit up a smoke while we were still in the hospital parking lot.
>
> I never realized that the walking spaces in this house were so narrow.
> Due
> to the very strange configuration of the bathroom, he'll have to use a
> cane
> when he goes in there.
>
> We're both exhausted and will be going to bed in just a few minutes. Here
> are a few pictures from today. Some idiot (me) turned off the flash, so
> most of the pictures are pretty grainy. Oops!
> http://pg.photos.yahoo.com/ph/head_trollop/my_photos
>
> Thanks again, everyone!
> Carol
>


I missed the whole thing, but congrats on the good news!

Jack

"Jack Schidt®" wrote in message

> "Damsel" wrote in message

>> He's home!
>>
>> Crash called me at 5:30 am and asked me to come up to the hospital. Of
>> course, right before I arrived, they gave him his pain pills, so he was
>> pretty out of it when I got there.

<snip happy story about Crash coming home>

> I missed the whole thing, but congrats on the good news!
>
> Jack

See? See? That's what happens when you stay away so long! We'll take you
back with or without your "surnames".

Felice

Damsel wrote:
> He's home!

Congratulations! I hope things go well for both of you. I'm just kind
of catching up here. I'm sorry things have been so bad, and I hope he
continues to improve.

Pat

"Jack Schidt®" > said:

>I missed the whole thing, but congrats on the good news!

That's okay. Crash missed a lot of it, too.

Thanks,
Carol

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"Debbie" > said:

>Damsel wrote:
>>> He's home!
>>>
>Good news indeed! Recovery will speed up now that you are the one in
>control!

Common misconception. I am not in charge. The person in charge is the one
who calls out, "Hon, I need ....." <G>

Thanks!
Carol

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